Stories 2015 ©
By Michael
Casey
Here’s even
more stories ready for my next collection.
Don’t forget
IF I found a backer we’d publish my stories in groups of 40 with facing page
translations plus my Audio.
Then we
could teach the world to speak English the easy way, with laughter. At least 1,000,000,000 potential
students/sales.
We could
produce a series of at least 10 books, plus usb stick with my audio on.
For the rest
of us, with English as our mother tongue my stories will continue to be
available in collections like these, this will be my 9th book.
Explaining Politics To Children ©
By Michael Casey
Imagine you have to explain Politics to kids, what would
you say and how would you do it? All Politicians are Liars and Bastards could
be a good opening to begin with and grab their attention. Politics is all about
Public Service, could be another line, just make sure you don’t say pubic
service by mistake or you’ve lost your audience forever.
So what exactly is Politics, “the art of the possible”
is one famous quote, you get a stale 2 week old Easter egg if you know who said
that, no cheating on Google. Will kids in today’s world believe you if you said
the Liberals were once a major force in politics and Labour is a new party,
relatively speaking. Would kids have heard of the Whigs, and where exactly did
the Tories come from as a name for the Conservatives, “nobody knows Sir, they are just bastards” may be one interjection
from Clegg at the back.
So you start by explaining what Democracy is, the kids
say that this lesson is so boring and vote that they go and play football
outside instead. So then you have to explain that teachers are dictators, so
can they all sit down again and put the ball down. Such is modern day teaching,
having taught myself this writer can vouch that it is even worse than that.
So you start the simple way, you’ll explain each party
in turn. So you start with the Labour Party, so some wag at the back says it’s
a party for pregnant women. So you reply that it’s an ever growing party as
their numbers grow every 9 months. Then you talk about unions etc, the kids
think this is so boring, until another wag says the students union is the best
one, as the beer is so cheap, and he cannot wait to be a student. Was Tony
Blair’s policy all about getting millions to drink cheap beer? I suppose in the
end you do get a degree as well, I’m told 41% gets you an engineering degree,
but the maths is so hard, could Prince Harry have passed engineering maths?
You try explaining Liberals next. The class is ahead of
you and say they are all wear anoraks and smoke skunk, that’s why they wear
sandals as laces would just be too much on shoes, besides laces become snakes
if you take too many legal highs. As for yellow being their colour, it’s
because they eat too many curries, but Birmingham is the best place in the
world for curries, did Sir know that? Liberals like jointing things, such as
Cameron’s government, in fact they’ll
join anything, it’s the only way they
can make friends.
Moving on to the Conservative, the clue is in the name,
conserve, keep steady and not change too much. Aren’t they just rich bastards
Sir? So you have to explain they have their own businesses and work hard,
that’s why they move to nice areas. So they don’t have to mix with the likes of
Smith and Jones, Sir, comes from the back. So you ask a rhetorical question,
imagine you win the lottery, where would you go and live? I’d live in a nice
house with those rich bastards the Conservatives, Sir.
UKIP, is next on your list, does anybody know what UKIP
stands for? They don’t even know themselves , Sir, comes from the back. So you
explain, United Kingdom Independence Party. And no they are not a Real Ale
appreciation party. They are more than that, though judging by the leader,
there is a large element of truth in that statement.
Scottish Nationalists, what exactly are they? Well they
are Scottish and they are in fact a Separatist Party. They hate the English or
so it feels, they are very clever because the educational standards are higher
in Scotland. If only I could teach in Scotland bemoans the teacher as he kicks
the football and it hits Clegg on the back of his head, but at least it makes
Clegg pay attention.
All of the parties do have one thing in common, they
love the sound of their own voice, they love being interviewed and getting a
few quid every time they are on telly. The food and drink in the Houses of
Parliament are great and cheap, that’s why a lot of M.P.s become alcoholics or just
fat, that’s why they lean back and sleep in the chamber. The story of
microphones imbedded in the furniture is just a myth they are just a bunch of
old sots.
Now students I do hope I’ve explained the political
system to you, we do have such a bunch of wonderful people ruling us. You can
watch The Ruling Class the 1972 film with Peter O’Toole as homework. Don’t
forget as you can now vote at 16, thanks to Prime Minister Miliband, don’t
forget to go out and vote on Thursday. Now let’s go outside and play football. Sir’s been smoking skunk again laugh the
kids, Sir must be a Liberal.
This Love is for Eternity ©
By Michael Casey
This Love is for Eternity
This Kiss is from my Heart
This Touch is full of Warmth
This Sigh shakes more than an Earthquake
This Whisper crashes Louder than the Sea on the Shore
This Caress is Deeper than Thunder
This Look is Brighter than Lightning
This Desire is greater than the Grand Canyon
This Song sings louder than birdsong
This Hope reaches beyond the Stars
This Love is mine freely given to the one I love
This Love is yours freely returned like the Tide
itself
This is us, not one but two, but one again
This is all I can offer, this is my Prayer
This Love is all I have, my heart is Empty now
As I look to the Stars I hope my prayers have been
enough
For this Love is Eternal
For it is my very Soul
Why do we do it?
By Michael Casey
I was just watching
Elementary on tv, it’s one of the shows I watch, Suits, Blacklist, Grimm, Dr
Who are the others we watch in our house, not forgetting my daily fix of News.
So why am I talking about Elementary? There was a line spoken tonight that got
me thinking.
To be honest Sherlock
explained why he did not want to be a dad, why he did not want to continue his
line. In the episode a sex partner had been asked by his dad to breed, so that
Sherlock’s dad could be a grandfather. The girl stated that Sherlock was
remarkable and his talents should be passed on to the next generation.
However what Sherlock
said in reply was revealing about Sherlock’s state of mind. Sherlock said he
was an investigator not because he was noble , quiet the reverse, he was an
investigator because he had to be. If you
like investigating was his therapy, otherwise his skills, his abilities
would overwhelm him. He was good not for goodness sake, but for the sake of his
sanity.
I mentioned this to
my big daughter and she said it was very philosophical, it is a very thought
provoking concept. I was once told by the niece of a famous Irish writer John B
Keane from Listowel that he wrote because it was in him. This was in his bar
maybe 20 years ago, I then thought that was a simplistic answer.
Now I know better, my
own parents are Kerry people too, so it may be in the water, or in the breast
milk that has turned me into a writer as well. We do things because we have to,
it’s in our nature, it’s in the breed which is what my dad used to say to
explain why certain things happen. The gene pool bubbles away, just as the soup
my Shanghai wife brews in her pots for days, then finally something emerges,
even if it’s not the Loch Ness monster, though Google may know more about that
than any of us.
So something within
has to come out, it’s a primeval thing, just like the urge to breed, though
Sherlock did not want that responsibility, in fact he had a negative
self-image. This was sad in fiction like tonight’s Elementary, and in real life
it’s tragic too. We have to accept ourselves, warts and all. None of us is
perfect, but life is all about honing our skills and making ourselves a better
person than when we arrive on this earth.
Today on the news we
had a tragic case of a girl dying because of poison pills she bought on the
Internet, diet pills which killed her. These and legal highs are in fact
illegal lows which kill, which destroy families and leave pain and sorrow
behind. Perhaps this should be an Election issue. This girl had something in
common with Sherlock, her self-image caused her pain which led in the end to
death.
Sherlock has all
these skills, and he uses them to help the NYPD, it’s a symbiotic relationship, he is the
little bird pecking away at the rhino’s bum, it gives him a purpose and keeps
insanity at bay. But what of you and me? Why do we do it? What makes us help
out at the charity shop, what makes us play golf in the rain. Why do we teach
English to refugees. Why do we vote SNP or even Tory?
Pleasure is the
answer to all these questions, it’s not as pleasurable as sex or alcohol or
rock and roll, but it gives us pleasure. What gives us pleasure? The thing that
makes us feel fully alive, the thing that makes us feel wanted, the thing that
makes us feel wanted. Why do we visit the sick in hospital, why do we go to our
church and clean it on Tuesdays. Why do we raise money for charity by doing
sponsored events. There are many many
more examples, you can pick your own.
We get a kick out of
doing good, whatever our small talent may be, it’s when we use that talent that
we feel fully alive. Look at me I’ve been writing since 1987, I’ll never be
famous or make any money from it, but I’ll still bore you all with my stories.
Other people have
other skills, such as the leader of the choir who spends a lifetime teaching
music. Betty Williams is one such person
who can be found at Saint Hilda’s, then there are the lolly pop ladies/men who
shiver in the cold keeping our kids safe. There are many more examples I could
give but you can pick your own from your own communities.
So why do they do it?
I suppose in the end its Love. Love of whatever their skill is, and love of
their community. It’s not any Big Society, or any fancy political words from
the Left or Right. I think people do it because it’s in them, it’s in the
breed. We are all individuals, we are all pieces of a jigsaw. What we do holds
this jigsaw together, and without all the pieces the picture is not complete.
We have to play our
part, otherwise we are just a jumble of shapes on the floor, without meaning,
without hope. But when all the pieces are place together and locked in place,
then we have made love, and we are complete, one connected with another.
Picking the Winner ©
By Michael Casey
Well it’s 18th April and the Election
is less than 3 weeks away so I thought I’d help you all choose a winner. I was
in fact a trainee betting shop manager in one of my previous existences, so I
should be able to help, well so much for the theory.
When you pick a horse you can go on form and how
glossy the horse’s coat is. You can see who the jockey is and the jockey’s win
rate and so forth, you can go on the pedigree of the horse, its parentage and
so forth. And if all else fails you can pick your lucky number or the colours
the jockey is wearing.
But what of Politicians? They have pedigree too,
they are all bastards, that’s what we can all agree on. Though some guy or girl
can be a right bastard, but would be a great M.P. he’d fight your corner, he’d
be a great man of the people or woman of
the people. If you read chapter 9 of my novel The Butcher The Baker and The
Undertaker you’ll see my view in full, there M.P. means married to a people,
and an undertaker wrote all the election speeches.
Now who do you pick? The guy in the nice suit who
smells nice, cK1 and all, or the grubby one in the crumpled suit. Or the nice
lady in the coloured shoes, with the skirt showing off her legs, legs so much
better than her party’s policies. Or would that be a non PC thing to say. Or the
man who looks at his reflection all the time, who can’t wait for his leader to
lose so that HE can become leader, this election is just a stepping stone, HE
is showing his legs metaphorically, he’s just waiting till he can run for
leader.
There are blunt M.P.s and candidates, who you
wouldn’t mind to spend an hour down the pub with, who are really interested in
you and your area. There are the professional politician types with the glazed
over eyes, who are looking at their watches all the time, but do make good
speeches. The question you have to ask yourself is would they take their jacket
off and help change a tyre for you if you broke down. It’s always best to judge
people by their actions.
Women have intuition; they can tell if somebody is
“nice” this is what we should all be doing as we see this guy or that guy on
the tv or on the radio. On the doorstep, we just tell all of them to “piss off” as we are watching Corrie, we take
their leaflet and say we will vote for them as we rush back to Corrie. So the
figures are skewed while any soap is on tv, as we all lie just to get rid of
them, soap beats politician hands down, any time.
This election more than any we are all already
bored by it as it’s been going on for too long, so in the end we will all rush
to the Left or to the Right at the last minute; though I would always say use
your vote tactically, just so those looking at their own reflections and who
are little robots get a kick up the backside.
Vote for somebody you’d enjoy spending an evening with.
I can actually reveal that maybe 45 years ago I did attend a political meeting,
I even bought a raffle ticket to win a glass ashtray to raise funds for that
party. If I had stayed maybe you could be voting for me today, in this
election. Michael Casey M.P. what do you think about that?
Over The Garden Fence ©
By Michael Casey
It was very sunny here in Birmingham yesterday, so
as I was home alone, my wife and daughters are in Paris, I decided to annoy my
neighbour. If you are wondering why I wasn’t in Paris too, then I should remind
you that I had an unplanned Triple Heart Bypass a couple of months ago etc.
My neighbour was digging, so I asked my neighbour
was she going to plant potatoes. Mary replied that she was not, her Irish
accent growing stronger, I had annoyed her straight away. She joked that she
might hit me with the shovel, so not be annoying her, as she wiped her nose on
the back of her hand. Mary is sophisticated that way, the perfect foil to her
rugby playing doctor boyfriend. She digs potatoes, while he breaks limbs on the
rugby field, but sets them afterwards, he is a doctor after all.
I mentioned to Mary that the garden fence was
flapping in the wind and it could come flying off and hit me. Mary leant on her
shovel and spat on a worm that had wriggled to the surface. A bold magpie
swooped down and had the worm a la spit, a perfect snack for a magpie. “I’ll
add it to me list” she replied.
I have the knack for improvising, years in a
computer room and in a hotel makes improvising second nature. So I told Mary I
would help fix the fence, I went back inside my own house and returned with
some elastics. “Is that knicker elastic?” laughed Mary. It did look somewhat
similar, in fact it came from a mattress topper. Now it would fix the fence and
save it from flying off and hitting me.
So I threaded the elastic through a hole in one of
the fence boards, then I told Mary to tie a knot in another not knicker
elastic, and finally in a 3rd piece of not knicker elastic. Once this was done
we tied it around a fence pole. Hey Presto the fence panel was secured and
thanks to the not knicker elastic the gap in the fence disappeared.
I gave Mary a cup of tea over the fence as a
reward, only I put sugar in it, I’m diabetic screamed Mary clutching her
throat. I’ll ring for an ambulance I said. Then she started to laugh, she liked
pulling tricks on me. I decided I had enough sun and Mary for the day so I went
back inside, besides Sky News was on, I couldn’t miss that what with the
Election being on.
Funny or Not ©
By Michael Casey
I just read in the DT that it’s so hard for comedy
writers at the BBC, there has to be a committee to decide what is funny or not.
Though this is really a PC committee, God Help Us. I know a little about the
subject, as I try and write humour in the main. Oh No You Don’t I can hear in
reply, in best Panto tradition.
Humour is all about timing, and I know about that
too, Oh No You Don’t I can hear you all mutter as you chew on your Easter eggs.
I also know about pain, thanks to my Arthur and my Triple Heart Bypass. You
deserve all that pain, just for posting all that “humour” I can hear you mutter
as chocolate dribbles down your face this Easter Sunday.
Let’s assume I do know what I’m talking about,
don’t choke on your Easter eggs, on second thoughts do, I can’t talk to you
while you are sniping. So as I sit here talking to you, a few spasms of pain
rippling through me, you are quietly choking on your settee, so I’ll just say
thank you for not interrupting.
I spent 3 years at a 4 star business hotel, the
CPNEC, so I had plenty of time to practice talking to people. Robin would
always lean over the reception desk and ask “what did you say, why are they
laughing?” Then when I explained what I’d just said he never quite got it. Why?
Because of the timing, you have to be there to understand otherwise the
“moment” is lost. It’s all in the timing. Some unkind people on the desk said
“Michael’s doing his routine” it was no routine it was personality. You can
continue choking on your Easter egg, I will not be interrupted any more.
I saw and maybe spoke to 100,000 guests during my
time at the hotel. So that’s why I can boast, or rather state I have
experience. I started writing back in 1987, so my view on life goes back to
then, prior to the writing I spent 20 years listening constantly to BBC Radio4.
I would encourage any parent to glue their child’s radio to BBC Radio4.
Writing is all about observation, some may not see
the humour in the world around them. I was in the queue at Iceland yesterday
there was a very tall lady paying for her frozen peas. It wasn’t frozen peas
but it reads better and funnier by saying frozen peas. Anyway she gets her
purse out and what’s on her purse? The design is giraffes, a tall lady with a
giraffe purse. I told my wife and small daughter when I got home and they
laughed. Now if you are not smiling at the very least then all I can say is
that you really should choke on your Easter egg, because you are already dead.
We all go about our daily lives with our eyes
closed, if we open them we can see the humour all around us. Look in the mirror
do you laugh at yourself? I do. Look at your family and see God’s gift to you,
it makes me laugh, I had stood by the fridge and cried and prayed for a family,
and what did I get? You can google me and find the family photos for yourself,
just google “michaelgcasey” Then you can see God’s sense of humour.
As for words and stories they build a picture and
can bring laughter, lots of laughter. You just have to be slow about it, give
the words space to breath. There is nothing worse than being too fast, than a
smart Alec interrupting and killing the flow of the story. At this point in
time in our family, the wife has a new car, my daughters are getting a kitten,
and what did I get?
Triple Heart Bypass surgery. Thanks God. But
seriously I should thank God because I’m still alive and can see my children
grow up. I used to sing and scream out the song Blasphemous Rumours by Depeche
Mode when I was on the night shift maybe 25 years ago. The line in the song
goes “And when I die I’ll see God laughing” And you know what? I bet that’s
exactly what will happen.
We are expecting a kitten ©
By Michael Casey
Before Christmas I joked that my girls could have
a cat if I had a heart attack, and a dog if I died, I then had an unplanned
Triple Heart Bypass. So now they are getting a cat, we will be calling it
Totoro, or rather my small daughter who loves all things Totoro has decided to
call it Totoro. And all because of God’s sense of humour, and my weak heart,
which I didn’t even know about, but God must have, because I’m still alive. Or
maybe God just loves cats.
A friend of my big daughter has just had 4
kittens, so 4 loving homes are required. My girls came home with pictures of
the cats on their phones, so finally the witch, as my wife is known, agreed to
have a cat. I had already given in once I’d come home from hospital, now
finally the 2nd parent had agreed. I picked the spotty cat, so long as it was
male, girl cats have no morals, they always have kittens, always out late at
night and hanging around on fences, howling and so forth.
It turns out that Totoro is a male cat, so once he
is weaned off his mother’s milk he’ll find a new home with us. Totoro is
Japanese as all you studio Ghibli fans
will know, but our Totoro will be hearing Chinese and English, so he’ll have to
be a bilingual cat.
This morning me and my small daughter went up the
road to the shops is search of all things cat. When I grew up we always had a
cat at home, Jean was her name, we had her 20 years. She knew when it was
Sunday, not because she was a Christian, but because she always had the giblets
from the chicken on a Sunday. Or dogs had a good life too, dying and going to
dog heaven, as we were a big family so the dog always got something.
Today me and my small daughter went in search of a
cat collar and basket. We tried the plastic shop first, so called as it sells
all things plastic. I led my small daughter up and down the aisles, it was like
an Aladdin’s cave, but without the gold, just lots of plastic items and other
such stuff. We spotted baskets in a variety of sizes. We also saw large plastic
storage boxes which could be used instead of baskets. Just add a small blanket.
There is so much to think about when you are having a kitten, meanwhile a
neighbour is due for her baby. I saw her boyfriend bringing in a stack of
nappies, just who will be busier?
Pleased that we had discovered where the wicker
baskets were we went on to our next port of call, the market. We were lucky as
today 31st March is a Tuesday so the market is open, its old fashioned and
closes on Wednesdays. In The Butcher The Baker and The Undertaker my comic
novel it opens on a Wednesday, early closing, but that’s another story.
So me and my small daughter examined the market,
we found the wool section, which Totoro would himself enjoy should he get to
visit, it must be kitten heaven all those brightly coloured balls of wool.
Going around the corner we discovered a second hand furniture section, it was
not there the last time I was in the market. £5 for an office chair, I’ve paid
20 times that for the chairs I sit on while I talk to you all. Though to me
they do seem a bit manky, but if £5 is all you have then buy one from our local
market.
Turning around another corner we found the pet
section, the dog and cat food section. There was a nice cat collar with a bell
and reflective too, years ago girls had a thing for fashion, a dog collar it
was called, my sister one, but that was 40 years ago. We didn’t buy it, we
still had a 3rd shop to look at. Poundland.
Poundland
has all kinds of everything, but no assistants called Dana, we found 2
cat collars for a pound. Then we bought 2 bottles of disinfectant, to tidy up
any accidents. I’ve told both my daughters that they are in charge of all pooh
and pee that comes from Totoro. We found scented bags of the litter tray, then
there were flea collars too.
We were very happy future kitten parents, so we
went to the till, we decided not to buy the 2 collars for a pound, so we
discarded them, on a pile of energy drinks. The rest we did buy. Walking back
down the road we decided to get the fancier collar from the pet section of the
market. Our Totoro would be ringing a bell and stand out in the dark, see we
love our kitten so much already.
The weather was so windy today, I had to hold my
small daughter to make sure the wind did not blow her away, she would make a
perfect kite in her bright red coat. We got home happy and my small daughter
told her bigger sister all the kitten preparation news. So it’s just the basket
we need to get. It’s almost as exciting as Christmas, and that’s when I made my
promise, and we all know what happened next.
Return Of The School Run ©
By Michael Casey
This week marked the Return Of The School Run, my small daughter asked could
I take her to school again. I had stopped due to the inconvenience of the
Triple Heart Bypass, I have started to go walkabout already, doing the morning
school run would double my walking each day. I should add that I was walking 20
miles a week prior to discovering I needed an unplanned heart operation, but
now I was doing 20 to 30 mins a day walking, less than half than what I used to
do.
My daughter had waited till 10pm at night before
asking me could I resume my school run duties the very next morning, so of
course I said yes. She skipped up the stairs happy, clutching Totoro to her
heart. The next morning was very busy, as all four of us were in the queue for
the bathroom and the cooker.
I also had to take my morning meds, all 6 of them,
I have a groaning carrier bag full of meds hanging on the back of the pantry
door. I have to have them with food, so I have to make my toast while my
dissolving asprin dissolves. The pain killers I have to take have a strange
side effect, you cannot go to the toilet, so you have 3 spoons of laxative to
be taken twice a day. All this medication continues to save your life, post op,
it also leads to man boobs, or so I’m told.
So me and my small daughter resume our journey
down the road and around the corner and up the hill to her school. One more
term and she’ll be going to secondary school with her sister, but for now she’s
daddy’s girl. Bonding is the fancy word for all this, Loving like a Dad, like
only a dad can, is what I call it. Dad is James Bond as far daughters are
concerned, you hurt my little girl and you’ll be shaken and not stirred, any
dad will tell you this.
Today was the 3rd day of my return to school run
duties, I was reminded of Jack Rosenthal the writer as we walked up the hill,
why? Jack had said he did the school run because he heard so much that it was
great material for his plays.
As we walked my daughter chatted away, as happy as
a sand boy, or should I say girl. She said it would be great if you could
donate sleep to those who needed it. I need a sleep donation every now and then
as the pain wakes me up. She did say that donors would be rewarded, it sounded
like they got candy floss in return for each donation, but I might be wrong as
I had to pull my hood up against the cold, I have to make sure I stay warm post
operation.
So we continued up the hill and she triggered
ideas for stories with each step we took. In 300 and Not OUT one of my 8 books
you can read lots of stories inspired by her and her sister, not forgetting the
Witch as we call my wife. By the way Juliette in Grimm on tv has turned into a
witch, well worth watching.
A child’s mind knows no barriers, this can connect
with that, and the impossible does not exist as everything is possible. So
maybe she’ll be the famous writer, and illustrate her own works too. Maybe
that’s why God, Fate, Luck, or my daughters’ prayers saved me this year, so I
could be there for my small daughter doing the school run.
Vote for me I’m 19
By michael casey
I was going through the newspapers, as is my habit, I’d have been a History teacher or
Journalist if my life had gone differently. Though we do have a political
editor/journalist on the Chinese side of the family. Anyway I thought this is
sad, running for Parliament at the age of 19. The two lads happen to be running
for Labour, but I’d be against it no matter what party they’d be running for.
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/meet-teenagers-standing-mps-2015-5351001 is the link that leads to the piece in the
Daily Mirror.
At 19 you still have spots, some may not have had
their first serious girlfriend, though if “Politics is your Woman”, then that
is truly sad. Where I live you can smell the stunk on the bus when people of
that age bracket pass you by. At that age you are going up Broad Street on a
Friday night, hoping to get lucky or just out to get bladdered. Certainly all
the lads I worked with 36 years ago were doing all that and more, much more.
None said they were going into Politics, though they did write a computer game
and sell it for 10K maybe 30 years ago.
So to find that two 19 year olds want to go into
Parliament just does not seem right. What experience do they have? Does their
family have its own business, have they
learnt things from the nipple, so they actually know something about something.
I started watching Sir Robin Day when I was 8 to 10 years old, so I was
politically aware from a young age, but I would never run for Parliament at 19.
So why have they been picked? Sacrificial Lambs, wild throw of the dice, or
parachuted in?
Are they like Sir Richard Branson was when he was
their age? Do they have his drive and ambition? Me, I wouldn’t vote for anybody
that age, no matter which party. Come back in another 19 years, when you have
passed your degrees and started your own business. When you have married and
had a few kids. Then you have some Life Experience, nothing beats the school of
hard knocks. I know all about that, I passed Magna Cum Laude and I wish I didn’t.
But I did so I can judge, as can DT readers
because they have lived life and survived it. So come on 19 year olds go up
Broad Street or live life for at least 19 more years, then I might consider
voting for you.
******Now Labour Voters will no doubt say I’m Tory
Scum and so forth, to which I reply at least I don’t exaggerate 13 times
over***********
Love Beyond Reason ©
By Michael Casey
There was an item on the news about Love, or
rather MRI scans were being used to see what happens in the brain when we are
in love. You get lots of different colours in the brain, meaning this and
meaning that. But, we all know that Love is Beyond Reason, it is unfathomable,
its Love after all. Poets have being trying to describe it for thousands of
years, so a MRI scan does not have a chance, not unless MRI is the name of some
rapping poet.
In Ireland it is called “the urge” this is when
the desire to breed, to have a family comes upon you. In Star Trek Spock took
control of the Enterprise as the urge or was it called farge overwhelmed him. I
just tried to google farge and could not find it, so ask any Star Trek devotee
to get the correct word. So Love or is it Lust overwhelms us, our hormones are
everywhere. Anybody with teenagers in the house will know this well.
You get
past the blast from your hormones at teenage then you get a job and work
hard trying to climb the ladder in your job. You may do this for 5 or 10 or
more years, love, sex and the urge have no place in your heart. You are a
well-respected member of the team, of the crew, whether you work in McDonalds
or are a cleaner, or work in the Path Lab or at a major laboratory. Your work
is your life, you are saving up for your house, your car, your anything.
Then one day below the horizon she arrives, she’s
junior to you, she may be senior to you, she may be your age, she may be ten or
even fifteen years younger. But one thing is for certain, just one look melts
the glacier that is in your heart. You may have had a broken heart, so you
freeze dried those dangerous hurting emotions. Or you may have never had any
emotions, it was just a door you never opened because you were too busy with
your career.
Then she arrived, Doreen, the girl with the red
crinkly hair and the Irish accent, or was it an Edinburgh accent, you were
always useless with accents. Was she very pretty with the perfect figure and
fish net tights, no, not even in your dreams. She was small and dumpy with her makeup
badly done, but she had power over you. It was her twinkling eyes and the way
she laughed, and the way she always held your gaze. You didn’t know it, she
didn’t know it, but she was the one.
How did this happen? It was the urge, it was time,
everything has its season, and the now was the season, for both of you. Your
heart skipped a beat every time you saw her, or her Charlie perfume wafted
towards you. You made a mental note to make sure you bought her some Ck, and
make sure she got it at Secret Santa in a couple of weeks time. If she didn’t
like it she would give it to you and you’d wear it yourself.
So looks became more looks, she touched your hand
as she passed you a cup of coffee from the drinks machine, your heart had
skipped a beat, skin on skin. You wanted to hold her in your arms and kiss her
in the kitchen, so you just closed your eyes and bit your lip. You would have
to wait till Christmas and the Mistletoe.
This is the power of the urge, you are all grown
up but the hormones have started to surge. As for her, you were tall, fat yes,
but tall too, she always liked tall men like Tom Selleck, perhaps you had a
hairy chest too, that would make her scream with pleasure. The urge was upon
her too. The next step would be buying new under-ware at Marks and
Spencers.
So all this goes on, it’s all hormones, a clock
ticking within us all, why is it so powerful, because it has to be. If we
weren’t programed to love, to breed, to have sex, then we’d all disappear in
one generation. Love is blind, love lifts us up, and all those phrases that
were sung in Moulin Rouge when they were on that roof. It is true. What
attracts X to Y and A to Z?
Everybody has to find a home, a fit, a place of
rest, a place of safety, a place of fun, a place where a family can be made and
grow up. There is no reason no rhythm to it, the Pied Piper plays the tune and
our bodies follow it until we come home to each other, until our bodies fit,
literally, and we are at peace.
The Internet What a Story ©
By Michael Casey
The Internet is a big big
thing, I remember when people were impressed when you said you worked with
computers, I started in 1978, yes 37 years ago, its 2015 now. I stumbled into
computers as my brother said give it a try, I applied for one job and got it, I
stayed 21years. A disk drive was as big as a washing machine and vibrated just
as much, and punch cards and magnetic tapes were used too. Now a usb stick can
hold 100s or 1000s times more data than when I started back in 1978.
Back in 1999 I got my first
home computer, in actually fact it was the Sky keyboard, a blue thing with
batteries in. I still have it upstairs it’s an antique now. Then I upgraded to
a PC, so that we could talk to grannie in Shanghai, I think it had 4 gig on it.
You are all laughing in disbelief now. Technology moves on and kids have phones
which are really computers, Star Trek has become reality now, Spock died last
week so we will all miss him too.
So now that we are all
connected, it brings great opportunities, and nuisances, because if we all have
computers and phones which are on the Internet too, then salesmen send us
rubbish. The General Election 2015 is upon us here in England and the big idea
is to use the Internet to spread the word, vote for X, Y or Z. Now in America
people may respond to such pleas, that’s how Obama won so we are told. I think
it’s just preaching to the converted, over here in England people will just
take the mick out of such offerings. Political advertising is illegal on UK tv,
on the Net it’s allowed, but I think our political parties are wasting their
time thinking anybody will watch and be influenced by such things. People will
take the mick, but your average Joe won’t even know about it, I’m a news junkie
that’s how I know.
The Internet has spawned
massive advertising for everything, ok let’s call it by its real name, JUNK. I
get 10 every single day, I even get emails frommichaelgcasey@zipperdzapperddo.com and other such exotic variants of my own
email address. The number of Barrister John Does from Nigeria or the number of
widows dying of cancer who want to leave me millions is unbelievable.
Unbelievable is the word. I am very quick at deleting everything.
You also get people who
stumble overwww.michaelgcasey.typepad.com orwww.michaelgcasey.wordpress.com or even http://my.telegraph.co.uk/michaelgcasey/
and then leave comments, which are really adverts for their washing machine
company in India or China, it makes a change from people dying of cancer who
want to give me money. If anybody wants to give me money great, or if you are
so rich buy me a house in Harborne here in Birmingham, £500,000 would be
enough.
As I am a writer I also SEO
services offering me the benefit of their skills, all the way from India or
other far flung places. Then there are the Americans, you really must go on
this course or that course to be such a better writer. And if you don’t go on
their course you are a philistine, you can always learn something, especially
if it is their course, and its only $500.
Sometimes for sport I reply
to such junk emails, I send them my Elevator Ad as the Americans call them, I
never get a reply, you can read it on my site. Though every few months I clear
down my sites and put new material up, old material is collated into a new
book, I have 200 pages ready so far for the 2015 volume.
Just to remind anybody who
does not know, I spent 20 years listening to BBC Radio 4, 20+ hours a week,
before I picked up a pen, my radio listening started when I was 10 or younger,
46 years ago. I picked up a pen in 1987, so I have been writing for 28 years
now. That’s why I’m confident in my writing ability and why I am dubious, very
dubious of the “we can teach you to write brigade.”
The Internet does have some
treasures too, like the BBC website, it has load of stuff to help with
homework. If there was one thing to tell you though it would be learn how to
interrogate Google. My daughter is researching History for example and she
cannot find exactly what she wants. It’s all about knowing how to ask
questions, just like a real barrister in court.
Appeasement in the 1930s for
example, ask the same question in different ways then you’ll get more results.
Or you could just ask your dad, I would have been a History teacher if my life
had taken a different route. Then read around the topic, too many students just
cut and paste, teachers spot this and you’ll get an F. If any of you are doing
History at the moment then you can see modern parallels in today’s world.
The thing about short form
writing like this is the freedom you have, a novel will take a year of your
life, bearing in mind the fact that without my Triple Heart Bypass operation in
Jan 2015 I could have had no life, you now know I don’t want to
waste time any more. So I’ll finish.
Managing The Image ©
By Michael Casey
I don’t have 2 kitchens, I have a narrow galley
kitchen that feels like ½ a kitchen, at the end of it is our bathroom, perhaps
I should ask Ed Miliband can he donate a kitchen to us. The Election has all
but started hence the reference to what was in today’s paper.
Image is so important in today’s world or so we
are told, Putin likes to act the action man, getting his chest out at every
opportunity, he has more front than a page 3 girl. Though in today’s paper they
say he is ill, we’ll find out what is really happening in due course.
Politicians will be posing in all sorts of
costumes, in all sorts of venues, like a Peter Sellers on Skunk, though only one political party
officially approves of it, though what they all do in private is another
matter. You only have to use your nose to smell the truth.
Babies will be kissed and almost dropped,
politicians will do anything to get elected, they are of course men of the
people. They do allow women in their party too, they even have them drive a
bright pink van, just like a SkoobyDoo van, but without any dog driving.
There is the balance between being a serious
woman, speaking seriously about serious things, and having the right lipstick
on, and making sure they look good for the cameras. They are still women but it
is twice as hard as being a man in politics, being equal means being twice as
good at least, or they are just ignored.
Down the pub a politician can relax and have a
pint, or a half if he is from a certain political party, bacon butties can be
eaten, but remember the cameras are always on you, you don’t want to be on the
front page, again. Making sure your flies are done up is essential, and splash
marks must never occur, perhaps a political intern could go to the toilet for
you instead, or adult nappies could be worn during the election campaign.
They say that people who talk a lot have bad
breath, so the Speaker must have a ton of extra strong mints under that huge
chair he sits on. As the MPs file in the Speaker hands extra strong mints to
them, that’s why they are so respectful to him. The power of the mint, not a
lot of people know that as Michael Caine might say.
Accent gives a lot away, it tells us where people
are from, and vocabulary can reveal education, or lack of. Though some said my
dad sounded Welsh as he worked with Welshmen in the steelworks in Smethwick.
You can use a lot of fancy words, and still say nothing, or you can use a round
of F&&**s and still be much more eloquent, and definitely more
powerful. I take after my dad on occasion.
But what of Politicians? They parachute in lads
who have done PPE at Oxbridge, so they can be representatives of Northern
constituencies. They have read books, they are page turners, they have no idea what a real turner does,
they can do Powerpoint for head office back in London. And still people accept
this, or they did, now we have political ferment.
There is a real man, a real bloke who people would
vote for, his name is Mr Stone, a former builder, he represents a constituency
in the Black Country, Old Forge and Singing Anvil is his patch. His election
agent is a poet and undertaker called Percy. Though now I’m talking about The
Butcher The Baker and The Undertaker a work of fiction, my novel, but isn’t
Politics all a work of fiction?
Debate You, Debate Me ©
By Michael Casey
I’m not going to talk to you, I just cannot abide you, you are such a
liar, ok you are economical with the truth, everybody knows that. MY figures
are perfect, I never exaggerate, what I say is Gospel, though I am an Atheist,
how can I believe in something that is
not there, that would be like believing in YOU.
I’d just punch you if I had to share the stage with you, you are your
shiny suit and your just perfect tie that your wife or mother or boyfriend
chose for you. So you’d look perfect on the debate. So I will just make a
statement to Andrew Marr and smile nicely, I think he supports me secretly, I
am such a kind man after all.
Then it’ll be your turn to with Andrew Marr, and don’t try bribing him
with a 40 year old malt whisky, you are such a low life, anything is possible,
you have such a lust for power. Nodding your head and agreeing with him,
touching his knee as if HE was Terry Wogan, you are such a little S*&^,
you’d do anything to get that little bit of edge.
I won’t even watch your 90 minutes with Andrew Marr, I have better
things to do, much more important things to do. I’ll be tidying out my attic
and re-grouting the bathroom. Far more important than listening to your
bare-face lies.
Why did they decide to give you equal time with me? I am the sitting PM,
it’s just not cricket to let an upstart like you try to talk the pants off the
country. Everybody knows your just as slimy as that guy in Bridget Jones, the
one who gets punched by what’s his name who got the Oscar for whatever it was.
So the vote was last night, and I’m still the PM. Post Mortem supervisor
at Birmingham Medical school, I’m in charge of all the stiffs.
Be Honest With Me, Do I Look Fat? ©
By Michael Casey
As you all know I’ve had a Life Changing
Experience, I found 2 quid in the street and bought a lottery ticket with it.
No, don’t be daft, I had a Christmas time experience,
no not a snog under the mistletoe, I had the revelation that I needed a Triple
Heart Bypass, less than 2 months after having a tiny dose of angina. 3rd
Jan 2015 was the night I was told this, I would have preferred Lords Aleeping
or some French Hens or any other of the 12 days.
So it got me thinking about diets and so forth, I was told this morning
than my cholesterol was now 3.5, I’m swaggering with
pride as I tell you this. I’m now 106 kilos as I stand
naked on our bathroom scales, please banish that mental image from your minds
by having an Irish Coffee or three. This means I’m ½ way to my target of 100kilos. Though my Shanghai wife has
moved the goal posts now, but in 2 months I’ve lost 6
or 7 kilos, in real money about 16.5 stones.
Girls look in the mirror with their breath held in and ask their best
friend do they look fat, and do their thighs rub together when they walk. You
are really fat if your thighs DO rub together, and does your bum stick out too
much, and if you buy a size too big will it hide your colossal bum. Now as a
man I can empathise with fat bottomed girls to quote just one Queen song from
long ago. Why? Because my own bottom is huge, I am related to gorillas after
all, there is one photo of me in PJs that reveals this, you can find it on the
Internet. Generally though the Diet industry focuses on girls, you cannot find
men’s diet magazines in WHSmiths.
Girls suffer, they have to make the effort, but boys don’t bother its character if they have a belly, a beer belly,
but a girl she has to be perfect, it’s just not fair. A
girl will starve herself for months so she can look good in her bikini, so she
can wow her lad in her bed when they are in Benidorm. All he’ll
do is try and find the football on the tv while she is trying to entice him.
Only after the final whistle will he whistle at her and give her his total
undivided attention, if he hasn’t had too many cans
while watching the football.
It’s been a great holiday, and she gets home and
finds she’s pregnant, luckily they really love each
other. Typical you spend months forcing your body to be perfect, just as all
the magazines insist you should be, so you can have perfect sex with your
perfect man. Perfect man, a beer swilling idiot who wants to watch Man United,
instead of feasting his eyes on you.
He may be a beer swilling idiot but he does love you, and he will marry
you, not like what happened to some of her friends. Now she must hurry so her
baby bump won’t show. Normally its £15,000 for a
wedding. Can she, should she diet while pregnant? There’s
the dress and venue and so much to think about.
Her big brother turns up from nowhere, the one with the scar, he loves
his little sister, so what does he do? He grabs Romeo by the throat and “asks” does he love his little
Louise, Romeo faints as Derek has applied a little too much pressure to the
jugular. When he comes around Derek says he does love Louise. Which is the only
answer he could possible give.
Big brother reaches for his wad and slaps 20k on the table, a big
brother will always do that. Louise’s brother has his
own Import Export business, which is another way of saying he is a thief, you
can export things in a freight container, lots of things.
So the Wedding Day comes around fast, and Andy is the DJ, he’s the best gay DJ in town, gay bar’s
always have the best music, he has a residency at the Peekaboo. Louise’s best mate Sarah said Andy would be great, and he was, he
was also Sarah’s brother.
Everything goes with a swing, Louise and her Romeo sneak off to the
Honeymoon Suite, she’s hot, so very hot, her baby bump
does not show, only there is European Football on the tv. As she leaves the
bathroom, dressed to thrill he is watching Man United, again. Now the baby, his
baby decides to make a statement. Call it Morning Sickness, or Wedding Night
sickness, Louise pukes all over Romeo.
Six Weeks After a Triple Heart Bypass ©
By Michael Casey
It’s a long walk to the bus stop and then off the bus
to the inside of the QE
Birmingham
1st I had a blood pressure and weight.
My scores were “almost perfect” said the nurse
Then I had an Italian nurse do an ECG, he said thin people had heart
attacks too.
Then I had an Xray
Then I met Roger the posh gentleman from the hospital, we were in at the
same time.
Had to wait until nearly Noon , I arrived at 9.30. I didn’t mind had a
good natter with Roger
Then I saw one of the Cardiac team
He said I was doing so well.
He examined my chest and pressed on it.
It will take up to a year to heal total where its tender.
Otherwise I’m doing great.
Do not pick my leg scabs he said.
Then he discharged me, no need to see me anymore.
I told him there would be chocolate in the future.
I have bought a stack of chocolate for the cardiac crew but it’s too
heavy to carry, but they will get it.
I also have to give a stack of chocolate to D5 and all the other folks
that did all the week of tests before my op, at City hospital Birmingham.
So that’s all my news. My sister and the ladies who are as old as my
mother would be, maybe 90 year-olds have also been wearing out the Rosary
beads, not to mention candles lit and prayers said on 2 or 3 continents. So I
thank them all. I’ve also been told that cranberry juice is great, so I’ve been
trying that.
All I need now is to win the lottery so we can move house and I get my
own bathroom. But that would be too cheeky to ask God for, God is Good, but he
is not an estate agent, though there are many mansions in Heaven.
Growing Up, Growing Old ©
By Michael Casey
Well today in Birmingham and maybe all over the country the secondary
school places are allocated. I had an email saying my small daughter had got
into our preferred school, the same one her big sister already attends. This is
good as it’s just up the road literally, about 15mins from the house.
This proves that my small daughter is growing up, though she takes after
her Shanghai mother in size and looks, so she is small in build, though her big
sister takes after me in build and looks, Nature’s balance if you like. Though
the small daughter has my personality, and the big daughter my wife’s
personality, again Nature’s balance.
This also means that I am getting old, even if I persist in thinking I
am 20, mind you after an unplanned Triple Heart Bypass operation only
weeks ago in Jan 2015, I am happy that I am still here, even if I am aging
disgracefully. When my small daughter returns from school I’ll tell her the
news, she’ll be very happy and want to drag me to the uniform shop to get her
uniform ready for September, even though it’s only 2nd March
today. She has already said she wants to beat the queues that her sister
encountered a few years ago.
She will be wearing an old skirt of her sister’s, probably reaching to
just underneath her armpits, so it’s only fair she gets nice new everything
else for her new school. It’ll make me sigh and think that the baby of the
family is getting bigger. However I can now look forward to her and her sister
getting their PhDs, they are half Chinese after all, when a few weeks ago
things could have been much much different.
FEBRUARY 28TH, 2015 18:05
Pain
and Carers ©
By
Michael Casey
Well
this will be the last post of the month. It also marks an anniversary, as on
this day in 1988 I finished writing my 1st book, The Butcher The Baker and The
Undertaker, a comedy drama for all the family. So that’s 27 years ago, though
to be exact the anniversary is only every 4 years, as I finished on Leap Year’s
Day 1988.
A lot
has happened since then, joy and pain and rejoicing, and Mandarin on a daily
basis, not to mention sharing a bathroom with 3 girls. Pain has put in an
appearance too. Tennis elbow induced from carrying a heavy bag full of work for
my Esol English students. That pain lasted 9 months then disappeared as quickly
as it arrived. I even had acupuncture for it.
I had
hurt my back while working in the
print room at a law firm, but it cured itself after a few days, only to return
spasmodically just for “fun”. Then years later my left leg, no not my
left foot, that was somebody else’s story/life, well it started to hurt. This
was my Arthur saying “hi”. Six months after it started I had an injection into
the left hip, and everything was fine.
Only
the right hip decides it was not getting enough attention and went out in pain
sympathy. Sounds like a union, simple solution you think. No, now you have
tests and then a Chinese doctor scans you but won’t inject you as he cannot find
the seat of the problem. You are left with your pain, which was six months at
that point. So he suggests another scan.
You
have the next scan, this says it’s a problem in your back which is radiating
out the pain. All I want is &*() pain relief you say to yourself. Instead
you keep on taking the Movelat, which works and won’t destroy your kidneys as
pill probably will.
Then
one Saturday, the 3rd Jan
2015 to be exact both of your hips are murdering you, you are screaming in pain
and slapping on the Monvelat gel. This works, then you eat and feel much
better, only the pain returns. Plus a very tiny tickle to the side of your left
nipple.
You are
home alone as the wife and kids are in London meeting a cousin from Shanghai,
so you ring your sister and she comes around. She suggests having a lie down.
In the end you ring 999.
The guy
tests you and cannot see a heart attack, but you did have a bit of angina
very recently, and you did have a scan. So to be on the safe side you are
taken to City Hospital. Tests are done, you remind them about the recent MRI
scan of your heart. This was taken on 20th Dec 2014, so they dig it out.
The
doctor comes back with news that will change your life, something has to be
done. What exactly, a Triple Heart Bypass.
So I
was kept in for a week of tests before being transferred to the QE for the
operation. I never knew my heart was in such a state, so you could say my
Arthritis saved my life.
To be
continued….
Small Kindnesses ©
By Michael Casey
I was in Aldi
today, it’s part of my cardiac rehabilitation, its 30 mins walking, up the road
and around the store and back home again. I cannot carry much as my chest is
tight after being opened up and then sown up again. So I wander around and then
bring home what I can carry. Today it was salmon steaks from Norway, which are
cheaper than the smoked salmon, cheaper and you get 20% more. I also tried low
fat Greek style yogurt.
Now as I
struggled for the change the pretty Muslim girl on the checkout helped put my
shopping in my Lidl shopping bag. It’s a joke I play on Aldi, I use Lidl
carrier bags to take home my shopping. Previously I shared a joke about Tasers
with the shop manager, the machine she uses to count stock looks like a Taser,
she has a law degree you know, or so I have been informed by the bodybuilder
who stacks the shelves.
Now this is maybe
the way shops used to be 40 years ago, or my local Aldi just has nice people
working there. I did in fact write a play called Shoplife years ago, it was
accepted for the stage though not finally produced, it is on Amazon.
Now to the point,
the point is that simple kindnesses do make a difference, you can brighten up a
person’s day, just by sparing a little time. Time to chat, to share a joke, or
just help them with their shopping, or hold a door open. I was a concierge for
3 years in a 4 star deluxe business hotel, so I have practiced what I preach.
I’m speaking from experience.
Now as I have
been forced to slow down, and I can only just about put my socks and shoes on
as bending is painful and sometimes impossible, I really do appreciate the
small kindnesses. The little things do matter and they do make a difference,
they are a smile, a ray of sunshine, a reassuring hand, a steadying hand. Being
forced to slow down does make you look at things differently, just as being in
a wheelchair either temporarily or always makes your perspective different.
So thanks to
everybody who has been offering me small kindnesses, the old women, 90 plus in
age who have been praying for me, they are my mother’s contemporaries, I went
to school with their children. To those
who don’t even know they have helped me, because kindness is in their nature.
Obviously a big thank you to the NHS, I will bring the chocolate to the wards
when I have enough strength to carry it down the longest hospital corridor in
Europe.
That’s all for
today, I get tired more easily so I have to cut my computer time down, though
the house is quieter as the girls have gone back to school. We finally let the
cat out of the bag and told my wife that I had bought my small daughter a new
coat as the one grannie in Shanghai had
given her was way too big. It will be used eventually, in a year or two when
she is in Year 8. We did enjoy speaking in Spanish behind mum’s back, saying
that she still hadn’t spotted the new coat, but yesterday we let the cat out of
the bag, six months after the holidays to China.
18/02/2015
Sudden Hospital Visit ©
By Michael Casey
Well my heart rehab is/was
going well. But yesterday I ended up in hospital. Until I started screaming in
pain. It was to the left of my chest, past my nipple by a few inches. After a
few screams spaced out in time I dialled 999, or 911 as you call it in USA. I
was told to use the under the tongue spray, I must have sprayed twice so I
collapsed on the floor. It lowers your blood pressure so much. Anyway as I’ve
just had the Triple Heart Bypass I was taken in. I had bloods and an Xray. I
also screamed a lot in casualty. They gave me pain killers twice while I was
there for 3 hours or so. MY HEART IS FINE. They did a couple of ecgs as well.
As you know I have Arthritis or Arthur as I call it since 2013, it just
appeared and mugged me. The doctor had a look at me but I had stopped screaming
by then. Then “luckily” I screamed while he was stood beside me.
The result
It’s all down to Muscular
skeletal pain. So it was a relief it was not my heart. I may have stretched too
far and triggered it all, you have to watch yourself if you have a heart
bypass. So finally after my Xray and my bloods were looked at I was allowed home
WITH super strength pain killers. The irony was that during the day I had not
needed the regular post operation paracetamol, in fact I was pleased with
myself. So I am wondering did I trigger it. Though this past month I have had
random pain, a stab and then it disappears. But last night maybe 20 such stabs.
It really does make you scream, and scream JESUS, God, or whatever else you may
believe in. I must thank my sister for her support and taxi service. I had told
my wife to stay home with our young daughters, seeing dad collapse and holding
his hand while the ambulance arrived was enough for the night, so I thought it
was better for my 3 girls to stay together.
In the morning my small
daughter said she had a dream. I was in hospital and the nurse said I was going
to die, then an Angel came down and breathed on me.
Well I’m back home, and this
morning I had a letter, an appointment from the Royal Orthopaedic
Hospital for my back/arthritis problem. Today is Ash Wednesday, we remember
that we are dust and to dust we will return. This I know only too well, I hope
I can use my extra time to have a happy family life, maybe I’ll write 8 more
books. Pain I know all about, if I can make people smile and laugh with my
stories then I’ll have used my time on this earth well, before I return to
dust.
50 Shades of
Michael ©
By Michael Casey
I first met
Michael at the bus stop, he was back combing his bushy eyebrows in the
reflection by the bus time table. Applying a bit of spit on the them as well to
hold them down. How could I an impressionable woman resist, it was all too much
for me, I started to have palpitations. I had to hold onto the bus stop for
support. The eyebrows were just so, so magnificent, he reminded me of a
werewolf, so manly, so handsome, how could I resist him.
On the bus I
followed him and sat next to him, I was intoxicated by his manly aroma, a
mixture of Brut and sweaty socks. I gave him the once over as the bus trundled
along the road in the rain. His broad shoulders and his even bigger belly were
so overwhelming, I could barely breath, he was irresistible.
My breathing
became laboured and heavy, Michael looked at me, with concern in his hazel
coloured eyes, the eyes the eyes, he was the man with the child in his eyes. He
was too much, I just had to have him. I started to breath more heavily, I was
having an asthma attack, brought on by pure lust, how could Michael do this to
me.
I reached into
my bag for my inhaler, I placed it between my lips, but it was Michael who I
wanted and needed, he and he alone could give me what I wanted and needed and
MUST have. He asked me was I ok, speaking to me sent my pulse rate soaring. My
head spun, he was speaking to me, he was speaking to me, it was all too much. I
fainted and my body slumped against his.
I could feel his
pulse against mine, Michael whispered in my ear, he asked could he do anything?
He asked could he do anything. YES YES YES. Kiss me I whispered, so he did. I
was in Heaven, a man a real man was kissing me, a man who wore Brut and had
sweaty socks, not to mention the shoulders and the brushed back eyebrows,
topped off with the Winnie the Pooh like tummy. I was tingling all over as he
kissed me.
We got off the
bus together in Old Forge and Singing Anvil, he knew what I wanted and I would
not take no for an answer. I gave him my business card Tracy Rogers, lingerie
designer. He told me he was a cross dresser and did I make his size, I laughed,
he was so funny. He then told me he was a film reviewer for Hungry Wolf a lads
magazine.
We went into the
Trader for a pint and a natter, I explained my job and he explained his. We
felt at ease with each other, as if we had known each other for years. He was
everything I had ever wanted in a man.
He said looks did not matter, so long as I could make him laugh, though
designer lingerie did help.
It was wanton, I
had never picked a man up at a bus stop before, but life was short, my last
boyfriend had ran off with the girl from the takeaway. I had never suspected,
though he always seemed to get extra rice. So now to find a real man was too
much of an opportunity to pass on.
In the bedroom,
socks and pants littered the floor, but at least the sheets were John Lewis
Egyptian cotton extra soft ones, and they were fresh on that day. Michael had a
washing machine and knew how to use it. He also knew how to use what God had
given him, and boy oh boy was I glad of that. As for me, he liked what I gave
and gave and gave again and again.
Three hours
later we stopped for some tea and crumpet, sex had made us hungry, and Michael
did have Warbuton’s crumpet and PG tips.
So we had crumpet after we had had crumpet, and we share sex tips while we had
our PG tips. I glowed and Michael was just Michael.
So we carried on
again, it was as if Michael had Duracell batteries in him, long lasting and
never fading. As for me, I was glad I had taken a chance at the bus stop, he
was an animal, but the kind I wanted and needed and must have. 50 shades of
Michael, I had heard there was some obscure film called 50 shades of something
or another, but I had 50 shades of Michael which was much much better.
I told Michael I
enjoyed all sorts of things in the bedroom, so he smiled and poured a bottle of
Guinness all over my body. I thought it
was beer shampoo or something, until he started to lick it off. It was the
first time I’d done such a thing, it was
wanton but I loved it, we both loved it.
I told Michael
that he was my best lover ever, that we were so wanton, he could do anything he
liked to me. As I said we were so wanton he went to the kitchen and made wanton
soup, we fed each other soup, and what spilt on our bodies was licked off by
us. Prawn crackers were spread over our bodies and we ate from our bodies. So
much better than anything from Sex and the City.
We had so many
plans, things to do, things to eat, we’d never use plates again. It was
prefect, perfect lust, and perfect food. 50 shades of Michael, I was such a
lucky girl, such a lucky girl.
Then I woke up
it had all been a dream, but why did I smell of Guinness and have prawn crackers
in my hair?
Dear Stephen, I
still love you, lots of cuddles from God ©
By Michael Casey
Well Stephen,
you really did have a go at me didn’t you? I know the world is a sad and bad
place, but I did give it Free Will. But everybody still blames me, that’s if
they believe in me.
I would go and
see an analyst, only Freud is so busy, it’s impossible to get an appointment.
What would I say anyway, Stephen Fry doesn’t believe in me. But you don’t even
believe in Santa any more, do you Stephen. I suppose being so large and
breaking Santa’s knee when you were 10 did change your life so much.
You are clever
I’ll give you that, but not as clever as you think, I was having a pint in the
bar with Shakespeare the other night, the other Midsummer’s Nights Eve to be exact and he did mention you in
passing, he asked who were you, he liked your performance in one of his plays.
So you are known here in Heaven.
Everybody moans
and says just how unjust I am, I had it all the way back to Noah, so Stephen
you are not very original, at least you won’t be needing an umbrella like Noah.
Just be nice and
niceness will come back to you is what I always say, put on a happy face,
dance, laugh and have a nice glass of wine. Cana is my favourite by the way.
Then life is so much better, if all you do is scream at me you’ll just end up
with high blood pressure, and as you are so tall already who knows where it
will all end.
I could always
send you a dream, of Michael Casey and www.michaelgcasey.typepad.com he is
looking for a business partner. Now wouldn’t that be such perfect punishment,
Stephen Fry reads Michael Casey. The sheer indignity of it all. Or would that
be giving you ammunition to fire at me again, an evil and vindictive God.
No Stephen, you
have got it all wrong, as usual, but I still love you. I spend nights crying my
eyes out, tearing my clothes and howling at the moon. It’s heart-breaking being
a dad, I just want to give everybody a cuddle and push them on the swings, only
they hate me or blame me.
People are too
sophisticated, where has all the innocence gone, well Eve knew the answer
there. I just want to be your best pal, yes Stephen, your best pal. Only I’m
not modern enough for some.
Modern, isn’t
the Universe modern enough for you. Or does everybody want the Sistine Chapel
version of me, Michelangelo has got a lot to answer for. He’s whitewashing the
toilets in the angels’ bar in paradise this week. But Stephen what I’m trying
to say is that there are bigger people than you in Heaven and we all get along,
can’t you just try and fit in?
Templeton Letter
Hello, I stumbled over you today while I was on the computer. At the moment
I'm having my Nobel moment. My Nobel moment is the same as Nobel's own Nobel
moment. For Nobel this was when he read his own obituary, but it was his
brother who had actually died.
The shock of this let to the Nobel Prize being inaugurated. Me at the
moment I've just had an emergency triple bypass heart surgery. I thought it was
just my Arthur, my arthritis playing up. It led to me being admitted on 3rd Jan
and then after a load of tests on 13th Jan I had my operation. I ended up being
operated on by the Professor, an Italian
guy, I intend giving him my old battered copy of Don Camillo as a thank you when
I go and see him in a few weeks time.
As you can see from this message so far I do have a sense of humour, but I
also respect learning, and the love which is behind everything.
Me I try and write comedy or should I say humour, which is comedy but with
less laughs, or should I say more serious overtones. I am also self evaluating,
I have been very lucky, I met and married the cleaner from the old people's
home and now thank God I'll live another 20 years which means I'll see my young
daughters grow up. My wife is a Shanghai girl by the way and our daughters are
bilingual. I am also teaching my girls Spanish so I can talk to them so my wife
cannot understand, its revenge for me
not being able to speak any Mandarin.
One of my many ideas is a book with one page in English and facing page in
Mandarin or Spanish or any other language. So you read a book of short stories
with facing page translations in your own native language while listening to my
audio. Its a very simple idea, and as I have written over 550 stories already
and recorded over 200 of them already it a ready to go idea.
All I need is a backer, and yes you are not in that line of work. However
I'll tempt you with just one poem. Then I'll remind you that Templeton is all
about fostering peace, love and understanding. So using English via comic short
stories spreads the English language, which in turn tears down those walls of
Jericho which leads to peace love and understanding,
Thanks for reading this you can find me at www.michaelgcasey,typepad.com
and www.michaelgcasey.wordpress.com or
google "michaelgcasey" I'm the fat guy in shades, I also have put 8
books on Amazon Kindle, all I need is readers or somebody with vision, maybe
going under the name of Templeton.
Let There Be Light ©
By Michael Casey
Let my tears be my words
Let the candle light be my eyes
Let the flowers in bloom be my lips
Let their scent be my blood
Let the wind be my breath
Let clouds be my mood
Let children’s laughter be my hope
Let widows’ sighs be my conscience
Let a stranger’s prayers be my delight
Let the bees be my wisdom
Let the trees be my strength
Let my patience reach to the stars
Let me be always remembered in your prayers
Thanks for reading this, my comedy/drama novel is The Butcher The Baker and
The Undertaker which is in fact set in
an area where I grew up, and in a way is a reflection or a social history of
that area, though my priest just called it a Jolly good read, my pharmacist
called it "brilliant".
Cheerio from Birmingham England Michael Casey
From
the Eastern Side of the Kitchen
01/02/2015
From
The Eastern Side of the Kitchen ©
By
Michael Casey
My
wife has decided that I need to follow her diet, the Shanghai rice with
everything diet, the I’ve had 2 kids ad still only weight 6 stones diet, which
is 38 kilos if you understand kilos. I think my right leg weighs that much
alone. So
now I’m out of hospital 12 days I have not eaten any pork nor beef, I’ve also
been reintroduced to rice too. There are so many tastes and varieties of rice.
As a child all I knew was the rice pudding we sometimes had out of a tin as a
treat on a Sunday. Now I’m revisiting the Chinese side of the kitchen. I had baked or grilled everything
for decades, I even gave up my weak milky coffee after 50 years yes 50 years,
But now, I’m turning Chinese I really think so. WE have to find a low fat
spread or marg to replace our beloved Clover, we’re trying Olivo from
Aldi but I don’t really like the taste, If I have to be healthy I do want
to enjoy what is passing through my lips. So Love might be sampled next. I had a plate of Chinese food today,
it was nice maybe I should have photo’d it. So this is my future, the wife
wants me to hit 100 kilos. I have got a thinner face now after my time in
hospital and my unexpected 3 way bypass operation. And no I never smoked in my
life, but I did work in print rooms for decades, so maybe that was a
contributing factor. I am lucky I was spotted and had an emergency operation. My small daughter tried her hand at
cooking cake from a packet with instructions today, It was perfect, I was even
allowed to sample a small piece, she just walking past me here at the computer,
her spoon banging against her bowl as she finishes off her haute cuisine.
This is my family future, a change of diet, a Shanghai wife and our two
bilingual and impossibly thin daughters. So spare a thought for me as this
adventure unfolds. Alcohol
I hardly ever use so I won’t miss, bacon and beef may never reappear on the
menu again, so as you scoff all your favourite things tonight, just look to the
star rising in the East, in Birmingham.
30/01/2015
I’ve got the hippy hippy shakes
If
you remember that phrase then you are as old as me. Though for me I’m trying to
get my mind off my hips, because today they really do hurt like hell. It was my
hips that led to my heart bypass I suppose, my old arthur starting the pain
that led to this and then led to that.
I’m
hoping the weather will warm up a bit so I can do my bit of exercise, though
I’ve just slapped Movelat on my hips in the hope the pain will go away then
later on I can go for my walk.
Makes
me sound 93, Outside the sun is shining and we have a blue sky in Birmingham,
do you remember Mr Blue Sky the old ELO album from 1977 I think. Well think of
that instead of your own arthritis, then we can play loud music together to
drown out our pain. As its Friday maybe some of you will be having fish and
chips, like in the old days. Happy memories to kill the pain of Arthur.
29/01/2015
Strange
Brew ©
By
Michael Casey
Strange
Brew indeed was a track by the Cream, many a year ago. My brothers listened to
Cream when I was growing up. Now Strange Brew is the list of medicines I take
after my Triple Heart Bypass operation. I was given a carrier bag of
medications when I left hospital.
I’m
in between times now as I build my strength and do a few things around the
house. I also sneak out to the shops to build up my strength and stamina. I
used to walk 20 miles a week, so that’s my target. It was so cold today what
with the 2015 snow that I did not leave the house. A very good neighbour did
drop by to construct a new computer chair, so that I can have comfort while I
am on the Internet. My stamina has to build before I can get back to all my
writing and news watching. BUT a big thank you to Brian for all his help.
I
have put a few bits and pieces together and posted them, yet the flow has not
yet returned, it’s like the flow of a river that has been blocked by
beavers and the natural flow changed. So I await for my own natural flow to
return. I do have such a large back list that I can post from, my 550 item back
list, some things are worth repeating too.
My
daughters say I should write an autobiography, but I think that would be boring.
There is enough biographical material in all my short stories already. I think
the commonality in the stories makes them perfect for a worldwide audience, for
in the end family is family, it’s just GPS which is different, family is
family.
Energy
levels are different at the moment, coupled with motivation, everybody needs to
push themselves a little so that they do not become lazy or stale. Having an
unexpected Triple Heart Bypass does slow you down a little. Though if ever I
could borrow a Legal Secretary I would just sit here and dictate my next novel,
Tears for a Butcher, I am motivated to do it, though not just now, though not
just now. By change there is a surgeon in the book, he actually appeared in the
first book The Butcher The Baker and The Undertaker. Then Big Sid the butcher
came to a medical lecture theatre and cut a side of beef. The perfect butcher’s
display. Then surgeons gave lectures, afterwards there was a BQ.
In
Tears for a Butcher, Big Sid is shot 3 times at point blank range, it is his
friend the surgeon who is there to save his life. In fact a medical convention
was taking place, so the butchers save a butcher. It’s all very dramatic and
will make great tv lots of drama and pathos. It has been brewing inside me for
years now, maybe now that I’ve had my own surgery experience I’ll be able to
write with much more emotion. Now that’s what’s brewing inside me. If it’s a
Strange Brew only time will tell, there will be plenty of comedy too in the
sequel, I am a much better writer now compared to when Old Forge and Singing
Anvil first sparked across the page back in 1987.
29/01/2015
Read
the link first of all
https://uk.news.yahoo.com/pretty-stupid-bill-gates-reveals-big-regret-220148355–finance.html#Wxtlzs7
Bill
Gates feels stupid as he cannot speak a language, I’m sure when he gets to
Heaven, everybody will understand the language he speaks, CHARITY. And Charity
has its own reward.
On
another topic, Bill could use short stories to learn English the easy way, or in
his case to use my original short stories to learn any other language. I’ve
said it befoe but maybe it’ll take Bill Gates himself to see the value of my
idea. If you learn a short story you enjoy learning and it is easy. Hence if
you have 540+ short stories in English plus my audio read in clear English
English, it is totally idiot proof. One page my English original story, mainly
humorous, with a facing page translation in any other language. So you read my
story and listen to my audio with a safety net in your own language in the
facing page. If somebody forwards this to Bill Gates and tells him to go tohttp://www.michaelgcasey.typepad.com to HEAR 5o examples of my audio…
Its
very simple and he won’t feel like a dummy any more. If he used a Spanish
translation he’d be good at Soanish in 3 months.
By
the way 25 years after my Spanish exam I did relean my Spanish by just spending
15 mins a day, but every day with my Soanish book, reading ALOUD.
OK
Bill here’s your chance to laugh and learn and invest in me, and to stop being
a dummy.
p.s.Bill
though I have a Shanghai wife I never got around to learning Madarin, though
our daughters are bilingual. I have started teaching Spanish to my daughters,
so that my Shanghai wife cannot understand us.
All
the best Bill, when you get to Heaven can you start praying for me.
28/01/2015
JANUARY
28TH, 2015 14:15
Compression
Socks and all that
Well
I’m continuing to gain strength. I have now also reached a full week without
meat, no meat, no weak. The sexy new thing we do is put my
compression socks on. I cannot manage on my own, so the wife helps. There is
also a trick with a plastic bag, You slide the socks on over a plastic bag,
Such fun, first/last thing in the day.
I’ve
also braved the icy cold to get my daily exercise and buy some fruit. It’s more
like Dudley Zoo in our house now. You cannot believe just how cold Birmingham
was. At another point in my life I’d be readying for a snowman.
I
have also been wondering how to describe the surgeons, In the end I think their
job title is wrong. They should be called POETS, because what they do puts the
vim and vigour back into people’ lives. So please call them POETS and not
surgeons. Mind you LIFEGIVERs is another title. I think we should just ask
their mums. Do you want your son to be called a MR, a MISTER or wouldn’t POET
be so much nicer, and make old MRs Smith so jealous, her son was just a QC…..
22/01/2015
Luckily
I made it, thanks to our NHS. I’ll put some detail down another day.
If
I could compare the Love and skill ther NHS has then I’d compare it to the
sculpture Pieta. In the sculpture Mary holds Jesus’s crucified body in
her arms.
If
you look and see and receive HHS care that is to know what La Pieta is all
about.
In
fact the original, is just a lump of rock, True Pieta and Love is NHS
I
hope folks realise the NHS is LOVE, so thanks to the 100 people who looked
after me during my near 3 week stay at City Hospital Birmingham and the Queen
Elizabeth.
Michael
03/01/2015
JANUARY 3RD, 2015 16:08
The House © a story for
children of all ages
my
daughter asked me to write a children’s story so here’s what I’ve written so
far, any children;s publishers out there do get in touch
The
House ©
a
story for children of all ages
By
Michael Casey
Pretentious
Preface
Sorry
for being Pretentious but my small daughter, Eve asked me to write a book for
children. I told her I’d written 100s of stories about children, but she said
she wanted stories FOR children. I blame Roal Daol and David Walliams for being
just too good and influencing her too much. So I will be trying my best to
produce something just for her and for children of all ages. So that is why
I’ve put a pretentious preface. Now on with the book, it’s 3rd January
2015 and its cold and damp and my 3 girls have gone to London to meet a
Shanghai cousin. So I have a few hours peace, just me and Arthur in the house,
as I begin my tale…..
One
I
suppose I should tell you just who is Arthur is, he is not real, he is not a
ghost either, though he does make me scream. Arthur is in fact a pseudonym,
which is a big and difficult word to spell. Ok, it’s a pen name, or a nom de
plume, but not la plume de ma tante if you are doing French at school. Arthur
is in fact a disguise, it’s a name for a BASTARD, go and ask your grannie
should you be reading that word at your age. If she says it’s ok then please
continue reading. If you no longer have this book then maybe you’ll be allowed
to read it next year.
Well
grannie it looks as if I’m writing for grannies now and not children. Though if
I reveal that Arthur is the name I call my arthritis then I know you will agree
with me that Arthur is a BASTARD. If you are laughing grannie maybe your
granddaughter can have her book back now? I’ll try and be civil with my tongue,
your granddaughter will let you know if I say any more bad words further along
in the book. I don’t think I will as my wife would throw Bibles at me, we have
4 in the house, some are even in Chinese. And you have your own special words
for your own arthritis, and what I said is holy by comparison.
Ok,
so we are back together again children, but at least you know how gran feels
and why she smells funny. It’s the liniment and spray she uses for her own
Arthur, which can be confusing as her husband is called Arthur. So when she is
cursing her Arthur she is not cursing her Arthur, but her Arthur. I hope that
is crystal clear for you. One tip though, tell her Movelat is fast working and
has a better perfume than Deep Heat.
Talking
of perfume why do old ladies use too much perfume? It’s to cover the aroma of
Deep Heat, this is obvious, even a child as young as you will know that. I’m
being to sound like Lemony Snicket, if you have read his books you will know
what I mean, if you haven’t read him yet then you are in for a treat.
Sorry
for the pause, oh you did not notice, well I went to the kitchen for a cup of
tea, I have to keep my mouth lubricated as I talk to you. But I’m reading,
stupid, you calling me stupid and I’m sat here in a cold house with just my
Arthur for company. I’m going to ignore you and finish my tea, I may not bother
talking to you again with that kind of attitude.
See
I’ve started a new paragraph, left you abandoned on a raft of a paragraph, so
you can’t me stupid any more. I’ve even put my tongue out at you, oh no, I’ve
just spilt hot tea down myself now. You don’t think of all the trouble the
writer goes to, do you. There you are just a selfish reader, I should make you
give the book back to your gran.
Ok,
another new paragraph now, I’ve calmed down and changed my clothes, but there
is a damp patch on the carpet in front of the computer. What I was trying to
say was that a good book should be a conversation, a talk, a chat. You are not
reading you are listening, that’s my style. If you have to get a dictionary out
after every other sentence then it’s not fun. Though it does expand your
vocabulary.
02/01/2015
Fact
is stranger than fiction ©
By
Michael Casey
Well
I wrote Vote for Me and posted it and then what happened next. A Labour
Politician said exactly what I’d written the very next day in an interview. I
once said to my big daughter I write something then it really happens. So
she said WRITE YOU WIN A MILLION AND THEN YOU BUY ME A PONY. So lets see
if that really happens next. I win a million and buy her a pony. More likely I have
a heart attack and die. Or should I delete that. Mind you Tempting Fate is
another story. Speaking of which my small daughter wants me to write a
children’s book. David Walliams will be worried. Should take 3 months work, and
be about 100 pages. which is 200 pages in children’s books as the font is so
large. Or 30,000 words for those sad people who count words. Oh did I upset
editors just then. I’ll let you all know how its going.
p.s.
My nephew was around today, he thinks I can write, he was suggesting I should
teach,
what is the next question.
30/12/2014
Vote
for Me in May 2015 ©
By
Michael Casey
I
am of course from the landed gentry, my family goes back 500 years, that’s in
County Kerry Ireland of course. So I am from the bogs, somebody switched the
lights out so I was stuck in there for hours. I am the son of a blacksmith,
which proves my working class credentials, so you will of course vote for me.
No
don’t vote for him vote for me instead, I live on jam and bread I’m so poor,
but I love being poor it’s where my heart is. I love living amongst the rainbow
coloured people, I don’t drink lots of tea nor smoke a pipe, I haven’t even got
a wife. Just vote for me, I am a man of the people, people love me and my
sandals and the faint smell of weed, I didn’t inhale, maybe I just splashed
myself not weed myself.
I
am a self-made man, nobody gave me anything, I did it all myself, and not
because I don’t have any friends, so vote for me. I can lead and I can make
money, that’s why I have 8 houses and 5 jaguars. Which is twice as many cars
than that man who always had eggs thrown at him. Though not as many houses as
that former politician, you know the one that smiles a lot. I’d be smiling if I
was ½ as rich as him. Just vote for me, I was at grammar school.
No
don’t vote for any of those, just vote for me, I have no policies nor vision, I
do like a good pint, which proves that I’m the real man of the people. I just
hate a few things, my candidates hate a few things too, but when we find out
just what I expel them.
So
this is my vision, vote for me. Yes I’ve never had a real job, I did go to
Cambridge and do PPE, then I was a political assistant at central office before
being sent up north to be an MP for a working class constituency. They’ll
believe any BS up north and just keep on voting how they have always voted. I
do hate my constituency and their little funny accents and cloth
caps, not to mention their “culture” but it’s the cross I have to carry. They
don’t have decent wine in the pubs and clubs up there, but thankfully I’m so
busy with constituency work in London I hardly ever have to visit.
No,
that guy is just a fool and a fake. I live in my constituency and enjoy country
sports, I’m goosing ½ the constituency ladies, and they and their daughters are
ever so grateful. I’m a real county man, and I wear real wellies, apart from
when I’m in bed with the Major’s wife, or is it daughter?
See
they are so shallow, they’ll never save the planet, if everybody wore hemp
sandals the world would be a much better place. We have a Trade Fair sandals
and coffee shop, saving the planet is so trendy. I met a couple of really great
students, said they were with Greenpeace, then I awoke in their bed the
camcorder was switched on. I then had a call from The News Of The World asking
did I have any statement to give. I told them to publish and be damned.
Nothing
was published, nobody would believe somebody in my political party would have
it in him. The other lot yes, but my party no. We lack credibility, if only I
had lied it could have swung the election for me. A swinger would attract
attention and votes, but I missed my chance. I’m no Russell Brand believing in
nothing and getting lots of press.
Just
vote for me, I’m the bloke down the pub, why walk the streets like a
prostitute, I mean politician, or did I really mean prostitute? Just vote for
me, you know it makes sense, we hate the same things don’t we, so just let’s
stick together. Whose round is it next? And can I have some crisps too?
So
with politicians like these perhaps Russell Brand will get elected. You get
what you deserve they say, so be careful who you vote for.
I
would just love to go to Burger King and have a really good conversation with
Jeremy Paxman and Norman from the BBC as well as a few other cynics. John Sopal
is now in USA so I really miss his contemptuous style, he would call it
probing, I call it treating the politicians just how they should be treated.
Love
thy Neighbour as Thyself it says in the Bible. Politicians should never be
treated that way. I’ll leave it there for this year, if Lord Archer has room
for me at his table in Burger King then I’d love to chat with him too, though
I’d love one of his posh dinners in strange places. Though WE could have a posh
dinner at Burger King Birmingham, just bring caterers in, I’d vote for that.
22/12/2014
Christmas
Was Cold ©
By
Michael Casey
Christmas
was cold, and Kevin did not like it, he didn’t like it one bit. The agency had
said they had a job for him , it was a temp job and it involved a lot of
travel, and it paid well, very well.
So
Kevin took it like a shot, he’d been unemployed for a while and he wanted to
bring some money in so he could go on holiday to someplace anyplace warm. They
had said he’d get a free holiday as part of the package IF he took the job.
He
arrived at the port and went into a warehouse, he’d be interviewed in there
said the agency. He looked all around and he could see nobody, nobody at all.
Then he heard the sound of boots echoing behind him, he spun around to see and
elf approaching. He laughed, the man in the costume looked so silly.
Only
it wasn’t a man in a costume, it was a real elf, only Kevin was too stupid to
realise it. He’d never seen a real elf in his life. The elf looked Kevin up and
down, he half smiled. Kevin was fat, very fat, the kind of fat where his belly
was bursting his belt, it wasn’t overhanging his belt, that would have been
disgusting. No Kevin was fat, perfect fat, for the perfect job.
The
elf asked him did he know why he was here, and did he have his passport with
him, the usual stuff when you apply for a job nowadays. The elf walked away
with Kevin’s documentation in his hand. Kevin looked around the warehouse
it was empty, full of nothing.
Full
of nothing as far as stupid people could see, if Kevin could use his eyes then
he’d see that the warehouse was brimming with people and every kind of thing.
This was Christmas warehouse. The elf returned holding a Santa suit in his
hand, Kevin laughed, so that was the job, Santa at a store. Well he needed the
money so he put the suit on.
Kevin
felt dizzy, he had to lean on the elf for support, he had stars in his eyes, he
was seeing things. The elf took a glass of water out of his pocket and Kevin
drunk it willingly. Noise and fireworks appeared in the empty warehouse. Kevin
fainted.
Kevin
awoke in another world, in Santa’s world, now he could see that he was in
Santa’s workshop, there were elves everywhere. He must have been drugged, he
rubbed his eyes and felt his face. He had a beard, a long white beard. He’d
been drugged and transformed into Santa, suit and all.
The
elf explained, that only a man with a perfect belly could stand in for Santa at
Christmas. Kevin was the chosen one, he was the man, he was Santa. The real
Santa had broken his leg while skiing in Birmingham, so Kevin was the standin.
The
elf went through the Health and Safety rules, HO HO HO, always 3 HO HO HOs,
other than that there were no Health and Safety rules. The reindeer would
explain everything. Kevin looked around he could see no reindeer, the elf led
him outside to the dock.
A
submarine surfaced and the sleigh and the reindeer emerged, reindeer can hold
their breath for such a long time. They are waterproof or seaproof too,
the sleigh has water repellent paint on it too, made in the paint factory in
Birmingham, you know the one just down the road from the reindeers friends in
Ladywood Fire Station.
Kevin
was impressed this was more like James Bond, he high fived the reindeer, they
licked his new beard, that’s what reindeer always do to Santa. The elf smiled
he was sure they’d get on well. The elf answered the unasked question, why the
submarine?
The
submarine was to get into countries where Santa was not welcome, North Korea
was one of them. A sleigh would be spotted on radar, so Santa would sneak in
and shower love and happiness and hope amongst the people.
Kevin
shed a tear, he was Santa now, so his heart felt the things Santa felt. The
submarine levitated and turned/merged into a bigger sleigh, a very large
sleigh. Eat your heart out James Bond, Santa has much better toys, literally.
Kevin
shook the reins and away they went into the night sky, Kevin ho ho hoed his way
around the world. His fat belly was too big to get down a lot of the chimneys,
but that’s where the reindeer came in, they formed a team, a tug of war team
and pulled him up and down the chimneys.
The
reindeer could of course get down all the chimneys, they held their breath and
wriggled their bums, it was easy for them they had been doing it for centuries.
That’s why your Christmas trees get nibbled in the night, it’s the reindeer,
its hungry work flying around the world with Christmas presents.
Kevin,
or should I say Santa realised why he needed the beard, it kept him warm, it
got cold, very cold flying high in the sky. They did stop on the River Po, just
to say hello to Don Camillo, he was a priest but sometimes he was on the
naughty list, and sometimes he came off the naughty list, depending on what he
and the mayor had been doing.
The
sleigh/submarine had a never-ending supply of presents, Kevin, I mean Santa got
into the swing of things, the reindeer sung carols, 1000s of them in lots of
different languages, they were a carol jukebox. Some brought tears to Santa’s
eyes.
Dive,
dive, dive they had to sneak into a country to bring Hope and Love, no presents
just a loaf of bread. The reindeer didn’t nibble on any trees, as Christmas
trees and Christmas itself were banned. The reindeer cried, but there was
always Hope.
High
and Low, Up and Down the sleigh went over the face of the earth, Santa HO HO
Hoed, tonight Christ was born, a new light had entered the world.
The
work was done, the world had been crissed and crossed, the reindeer headed back
to the warehouse. As the sleigh landed Kevin’s beard dissolved, he was Santa no
more. He looked around the warehouse, the elves were dissolving into
nothingness, the reindeer trotted away still singing Rejoice Rejoice Emanuel.
Had
he been drugged, was this all an hallucination, it couldn’t be he felt Love in
his heart, he had been Santa for a night. As he walked out of the warehouse his
footsteps echoed into sky, Kevin looked up and could see Santa in his sleight,
his crutches besides him, and the reindeer still sung Rejoice Rejoice Emanuel.
All
Things Bright and Beautiful ©
By
Michael Casey
I
haven’t written a non-pain piece in a while, so I’ll try and forget the pain
and write something new. We’ve just had the half time holidays and my girls
have been playing “shop-girls” as they call it. They even have a sign on their
bedroom door saying “open” or “closed”. They steal my wife’s clothes and prance
about upstairs. Our eldest daughter has bigger feet than my wife now so that’s
a relief as she cannot steal my wife’s shoes any more, but it does not prevent
her younger sister from wearing mum’s shoes. There is also the matter of the
beret with silver sequins, that’s an absolute Fashion Must.
Me,
I’m not fashionable at all, three girls in the house is enough, if I gave in to
them they’d be beading my eye brows, I do wear pink on occasions, so that’s as
far as I go. If I were maybe 3 stones lighter I’d try other things, I did see a
nice cord jacket in Cotton Traders 48R, it was bright blue, Kingfisher Blue, my
girls called it a “Clown Jacket”. With encouragement like that what am I
supposed to do? I did say if I win Euro millions I WILL buy the jacket. My wife
has a nice light brown one, although as she is a woman there will be a more
accurate colour name, men don’t do colours. If you think of it its black and
white, blue, green, orange as far as men go, but women at least another 40
names for colours. As far as my hair goes, its silver, though a friend used to
say I was an old man with white hair. As the colour of our hair change it’s the
7 ages of man.
I
remember Ali saying why wasn’t it “Whitemail” instead of blackmail. We are in
the Pink if we have good health, I long to be back in the pink myself. We say
we hope be back in the black not in the red when we do company accounts, we
look for the silver linings. We look look look for the rainbow as the song
goes, we may find the crock of gold, all our troubles may be over and we can
pack them up in the old kit bag. Hope springs up within us, it is now Spring
after all, and as Chance the Gardener said “in the Spring there will be
growth.”
Cheese
and Chorizo ©
By
Michael Casey
The
thing about girls is that they steal your stuff, you think they are nice and
sweet smelling, but they are not. If they get up before you they’ll raid your
side of the fridge and eat your cheese and chorizo. Cheese and chorizo on
toast, with hot chocolate to follow, this is how your daughters treat you. This
is how my girls treat me.
Yesterday
mum bought biscuits, and did she share them? NO. The girls got some but I got
none. They were the ones I really like,
its always the ones you really like. I looked high and low, just like an Ah Ha
song, but nothing. JJ the wife just laughed at me as I went from pillar to post
looking for a biscuit, the Tunnock ones. See this is how the 3 girls in my life
treat me, I am biscuitless. Finally after much derision my small daughter
showed me where the biscuits were, a new
hiding place, that’s why I could not find them. So I was victorious, I sneaked
a biscuit into my pocket and slipped away to eat it in peace.
Shoes
are a big thing, so our small daughter walks around the house in mum’s shoes,
mine are too big so thankfully they are left alone. However having two
daughters who like Textiles, which is the fancy word from school for sewing and
making things. If they like textiles then your clothes are not safe, they drag
a shirt or two out of the wardrobe and say they want to turn it into something.
Jumpers are not safe either, they can cut them down to make a dress or even a handbag. And as for needles, it’s
like having a porcupine in the family, DANGER. You only realise that after you
have sat on a needle or two, the wife just says its free acupuncture, no need
to asked Dr Hu to pay us a visit, and yes he really is Dr Hu, not Dr Who, but
Dr Hu.
Now
that our 11year old is 5feet tall, as big as mum, she wants to wear her
clothes, but you can imagine what kind of clothes a Shanghai girl wears. So
there is debate in Chinese, I cannot understand a word, but SANINGONGA is heard
quite often which means no. Which also means my girls, our girls will return to
steal from my wardrobe again. In a way it’s like having moths, but instead of
holes in your clothes, entire items just disappear. BUT it’s not just the
girls, its mum too, she’ll decide that the Fashion Police would not like this
item or that item, so it
disappears. When do I find out?
Never, or nearly never, until I walk past a charity shop and see a tent sized
item in the window, it’s my clothes.
So
if you want to keep the clothes on your back, don’t have daughters. If you want your favourite food safe in your
side of the fridge, the none Chinese side of the fridge, then don’t have daughters.
If you want to save your pennies, don’t have a Shanghai wife. But then life
would be boring, just make sure you look before you sit.
From
A to B from Sat Nav to Blocked Sink ©
By
Michael Casey
Well
I hope you are all fine this morning. For us the Sat Nav debate continues. In
the old days a Black Taxi would not be seen using an AtoZ, it was beneath his
dignity. He’d done the Knowledge and it was all up there in his head. Jack
Rozenthal wrote a great play about it, was it 30years ago? Maureen Lipman was
his real wife.
Delivery
drivers have and egg and bacon butty in one hand dripping egg on to the AtoZ in
their other hand while they try and deliver a chest of drawers, with 5 days
growth of beard for good measure.
Bus
drivers know their route, so once they’ve done it a while its automatic, they
know what they are doing. All they have to do is put up with kids trying to use
a 3 day old ticket, and not get too high from all the cannabis on the bus. Or
remember when they have switched routes because that can lead to strange
directions.
Door
to door salesmen all those years ago, with the rap at tat tat on the back door
had their route carrying the suitcase with samples in. I can vaguely remember
one at our back door did my mum buy a clothes brush? But that must be 45 years
ago.
So
basically we all know what we want and where we are going. Going further back
they say people only knew a six block radius around their home. Going to War
changed all that as did radio and then more importantly tv. Tv being our eyes
on the world, previous to that only Merchant Seaman knew of the world. My own
granddad was a merchant sea man, I sometimes wonder did he ever get to Shanghai
Or
was it me, his grandson who got there first. Had he visited at the turn of the
19th/20th Century 100years and more ago.
Which
brings us back to Sat Nav. Me I use a bus which is fine apart from the pot
heads who sit next to you on the bus and all I want to do is puke. My wife is a
car driver, so she and our girls love the car. But my wife has borrowed a Sat
Nav and likes the ease of it so now she wants one of her own. The result is
that I’m being nagged to provide one. You pay, me pay, yes you pay, why me pay,
because you are the husband so you pay, no way me pay, you pay you pay
yourself, I say. And on the ding dong, sing song goes. Which is the fun part.
Me I no pay, use computer I say. You can get perfect directions off the
computer all you then have to do is print them off, if our printer was still
working we’d be doing that. So really all the wife has to do is copy them down,
in English.
She’s busy with the wok as I talk to you, she’s
compromised now, she only wants me to pay half. So I say I’ll be doubly
generous and double the share I won’t pay, I’ll pay zero and she can pay 100%.
That’s the true spirit of negotiation, now I have another thing to resolve,
she’s blocked the sink, so pardon me now as I take the plunge, or rather take
the plunger to the sink, no need to use a Sat Nav to get there, its over my
shoulder in the next room, just turn left at the tv and go straight on to the
sound of bubbles. Love is everywhere don’t you know it, just find it, no Sat
Nav required.
My
other idea is a book of shorts, 40 stories with 40 translations
on
facing page plus 40 audio of me reading my stories on usb stick.
Perfect
to teach English as a 2nd language, via humour.
As
I have written 530+ stories this would be a series of 10 plus books
So
we could have Mandarin/Japanese/Urdu/Spanish/Hindi/Russian etc
This
would be a world wide hit, angel investors needed
Thanks
for reading this, that’s if Junk did not get it. I have come close and not got
a cigar many times in my life, so I decided to try you. Radio is the medium for
my words, 90 seconds with Michael, could go nationwide, it’s a simple idea,
with great words, mine if I can be boastful. I have already recorded 180 of my
530+ shorts, they can be heard at www.michaelgcasey.typepad.com listen in
reverse order I have a new microphone now.
Cheerio,
Michael Casey
Email
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To The Very Gates Of Hell ©
By Michael Casey
Mrs Murphy watched in horror, just
yards in front of her Fr. Dan was going to be slain, the Columbians had him
surrounded. Their guns were drawn and there was no Hope, he’d be as dead as a
doornail in seconds. He was her favourite priest no he’d be gone to meet his
maker. She could see his face, his eyes were fixed on hers, Pray for me he
begged.
Fr. Dan was not afraid of the
Columbians, but he was afraid of his Final Judgement, he has killed two men in
anger when he was younger. He had confessed this to Mrs Murphy when telling her
that her soul was spotless as driven snow compared to his.
Some thugs had teased him and tortured
him, trying to make him say bad things about Mary, the Virgin Mary. They had
carved curses on his back with knives, but he would never say bad things about
Mary. When his chance came he broke free and used all his Martial Arts skills
to survive. Only he killed 2 of them and crippled 2 more with the other 2
running for their lives.
Jesuits know how to put the Fear of God
into bad people, but Fr. Dan feared God too, he had committed a
mortal sin, thou shalt not kill, and he had killed twice. Now he was afraid,
afraid for his soul, at this moment of his death he was afraid. His eyes were
beseeching, Mrs Murphy would witness his death and his soul would burn in
Hell’s fire for all eternity.
Mrs Murphy wanted to charge the
Columbians down and run at them, but they had their guns ready, the situation
was hopeless. Mrs Murphy did have Faith though, the Faith of a Child, as the
bullets flew her heart broke, her womb exploded in love and fear, she lost her
mind, but she kept her Faith.
I’ll go to the Gates of Hells and I’ll
jump in the way, like jumping under a bus, I’ll catch Fr. Dan’s soul and stop
it going into Hell. I’ll wrap my Rosary around the Gates of Hell, keeping them
closed. God is good, God is good, it cannot be the end for Fr. Dan he’s such a
lovely priest.
In Hell it was so dark and cold, the
deepest of deep space, she couldn’t really see further than her hands holding
her Rosary. If only she had her friends with her they would weld the gates of
hell closed, nobody would burn in hell ever. She knew how to pray, she knew how
to pray.
She felt heavy cold as ice breath on
her neck, she could hear mocking laughter, but she could not see anybody. She
tried to say her Rosary only her lips stuck together it was so cold, she tried
to move her fingers though the beads, her mind was numb, it was like being
turned into an ice cube. There is no love in hell, no love at all.
Mrs Murphy stumbled to her knees, the
laughter, the icy laugher increased, the cold, the numbing cold went down her
neck and to her very core. She had to force herself to remember why she was
there. She was there to save a soul, she started with the Our Father. She
continued with the 1st Hail
Mary. Fr. Dan was a good priest, he had refused to say bad things about Mary,
they had tortured him, they had tortured him.
Jesus, Jesus forgive him, Mrs Murphy
wanted to scream but it was so cold, so very cold. If only she had somebody
saying the Rosary with her. The Gates of Hell cannot withstand the Power of The
Rosary, he mother and her grandmother had told her. Mrs Murphy was using her
best beads, the ones that had been repaired when she was praying for Big
Sid when he was shot. But now she was praying for a soul, not just a life.
Mrs Murphy managed to move her lips, it
was just so cold, so very cold in the dark space of hell. Hope sprung from her
lips, Jesus, Mary and Joseph she managed to scream, a scream that would be lost
in the dark cold depths of space that was Hell.
Mrs Murphy’s head was spinning, her
womb had exploded, she had lost her mind, she was dizzy, she wanted to vomit.
But she had to pray on, she reached the 2nd Hail Mary on her Rosary. Her mind was
playing tricks on her, she could hear her grandmother praying, she could hear
her old dear friend Mrs Casey praying, she could hear Mrs Noonan praying.
On she prayed, it was just so dark and
cold in the deep space of Hell. But then in the very distance she saw a light,
a tiny tiny flicker, like the lights in the window of houses in Cromane at
Christmas, like the lights in Dingle over the bay. Help was on its way, help
was on its way.
Warmth seeped into Mrs Murphy’s body,
the Darkness flickered and with an explosion of Love the cold and dark of Hell
disappeared. Saint Michael the Archangel smiled and caught Mrs Murphy as she
fainted. I thought it was all over she said, Michael laughed, it’s never over,
it’s never over. Mary, Mum heard the Rosary so she sent me to investigate.
Every Rosary everywhere is felt by her, by her womb. He hasn’t got a chance
against the Rosary, never has, never will. And is he wants the argue he’ll have
to talk to my sword said Michael as he brandished his sword.
But, Fr. Dan is dead and his soul must
be heading to Hell, Mrs Murphy interrupted. Saint Michael the Archangel smiled
and cried at the same time. God is good, and as you know his mercy is infinite.
Come now I have to put you back together. But Fr. Dan’s soul is in peril, he
must be shot and dead in the gutter by now insisted Mrs Murphy not
understanding.
Time is just a joke as far as God is
concerned, explained Saint Michael as he gathered up Mrs Murphy. He had to get
her back to Earth and save Fr. Dan’s life in moments. Brandishing his sword
Saint Michael flew through deep space on his way to Birmingham.
The observatories noticed a bright
light from the deepest deepest part of space, it was moving fast, too fast.
Many times faster than the speed of life. It was heading for Earth, if it hit
earth it would be the end, the end of Civilisation and everything. It was
impossible, where had it come from?
Michael did an orbit of the moon and
had a look at the space station, one lonely astronaut had lost his love of
life, Michael could feel the lack of love. So Michael waved at the astronauts
before heading for Birmingham. Birmingham the centre of the universe, well for
this one night.
Saint Michael gently lay Mrs Murphy
down, her body and soul and heart united again. Saint Michael strolled towards
Fr. Dan the Columbians had pulled the triggers, the bullets were flying, the
bullets were flying. Saint Michael winked at an unbelieving Fr. Dan, Michael
wrapped Fr. Dan in his wings and started singing, Ave Ave Maria, it was all
angels’ favourite song.
God is good Dan, said the Archangel,
and Mary said she was so proud of you too, she’s never stopped praying for you.
You have many decades of work to do, just don’t be too hard on yourself. And as
for the Columbians, they have no idea what’s going to happen next.
Doctor Laughter ©
By Michael Casey
Now here's what I've been thinking
about regarding Humour. Why do we laugh? We laugh at differences, we laugh at
the unexpected. Events happen and that way they unfold gets a reaction.
Nowadays people are too Politically Correct, you shouldn't laugh, it’s almost a
sin to laugh. I'll give a few examples.
Look there's dad said my brother on our
way home from serving the early Sunday Mass. So I run up behind this man and I
was going to slap his bald head, or just say boo. Then the man turned around,
it was not dad at all. So my brother ran up the street laughing.
So is that funny, or are you unamused.
In the old days it cost an old penny to
use the public toilets. So we were on holiday somewhere so my mum was asking a
man for some change so she could take my sisters to use the toilet in Rhyl or
somewhere. The man gave her a big old copper penny and said "have one on
me."
So is that funny or are you unamused.
My dad saved the undertaker's son's
life, so when dad died years later the undertaker made my dad look 10 years
younger in death. He looked like his own brother.
So is that sad or amusing or both? In
fact I put the story about dad saving the undertaker's son's life in my comic
novel
The Butcher The Baker and The
Undertaker.
Fact is stranger than Fiction after
all.
Comedy that is based on fact is far
funnier, situation comedy if you like. A great British comedian Eric Morecambe
once said if it works it works, don't over analyse it
When I write I know where I'm going,
but I don't know how I'm getting there. Should I make a joke about this or
that?
I have a blind boy called Barry in The
Butcher The Baker and The Undertaker, how did he get in the book? I have a
dominoes set in the house, they belonged to the man who bought me my first
watch when I was 11, for passing the 11plus exam which meant I could go to
grammar school.
AS I had the set of dominoes in my
house when I was writing the idea came to me that at the dramatic end of the
novel the heroes would be playing dominoes. They could not be playing cards as
that's associated with gambling and in the story the hero's daughter had been
kidnapped. So they played dominoes to stop themselves from going mad with fear
for the daughter.
So when Barry comes along he joins in,
he even asks them to put a mirror behind one of the other's back so that he the
blind man can cheat. He may be blind but he still has his sense of humour. He
also can hear the fear and tension in their voices, he knows there is something
wrong, seriously wrong. So he the blind man is trying to help them.
Now some may say I should not have that
line in the book, but if they do say that then I'd say, it’s them who are
blind.
So you can have pathos and humour cheek
by cheek. In another story of mine "I want to be a radio star" it’s
no 127 onwww.michaelgcasey.typepad.com you can hear me read it. Well in that
piece I'm poking fun at myself. I always used to say I'd end up as a security
guard when I was working in a computer room for 21 years at the same company.
So in that story I am a security
guard, and Doris, which is a kind of comedy name in England, a previous
generation Christian name for a girl. Only she has faith in me. It’s a comedy
piece. It has a happy and silly ending. I also wrote a story called It’s All in
The Stars where again I'm a security guard and in that story I meet a girl who
follows her horoscope all the time. In the end she falls for the security
guard, he literally saves her as she crosses the road.
So humour can be used to laugh at
ourselves, and it always has the underlying pathos. I know all about pathos
too.
Find Padre Pio and Me by Michael Casey
it’s on the Internet, you'll see real pathos and tragedy there. However there
is a very happy ending. Yes that's how I met my wife, really.
So I hope if you have time to read the
pieces mentioned you'll see that I'm more than the fat and boring writer with
arthritis/Arthur from Birmingham. I've seen pain and had pain, that's why I
want to create laughter and smiles with my writing.
Because Laughter is the Best Medicine.
Hanging Out The Washing ©
By Michael Casey
Well Winter is here, Christmas will be
here in less than 3 weeks too, but what do we do with the washing, it still has
to be done. Hail and sleet and snow may come and go, or just old boring rain,
but still the washing has to be done. We are lucky I suppose as we have a small
back garden, so we can hang it out on our two washing lines.
My blue flags are the most distinctive
part of the washing, as my Shanghai wife calls my pants. When I first went to
Shanghai they were hanging from a bamboo pole from her mother’s balcony high in the sky, they were a
landmark so I knew where I was. It’s very strange being in a country that does not use a Roman
Alphabet for the first time, so my flag was something comforting if you like.
Back to now, and marriage and family
and kids and washing hanging out in an English country garden, or rather our
patch of green grass out the back. I hang clothes one way and the wife hangs
them another way. I suppose its East v West, though my things tend to be 3
times the size of my 3 girls’ things. Their knickers
are more like postage stamps, or handkerchiefs with shoelaces attached, if you
have girls in your house you know what I mean. Mine as I said are like flags.
When it’s raining what can you do? Well you
could use a tumble drier if you had one, though that is very expensive. Or if
you can work out how to use the tumble drier feature on your Indesit washing
machine. No like everybody else we put the washing on the radiators all around
the house, socks here and socks there, and tights here and tights there as we
have 3 girls in the house. Then there are school uniforms to be dried ready for
school on the Monday morning. My stuff gets relegated to the upstairs rooms, I
haven’t been at school for 40 years.
One radiator is a double one so it can
hold more of a load, don’t forget the bathroom radiator too, no radiator is left
uncovered, the bathroom has a shelf so a pants mobile, or rather a mobile
holding pants is pressed into service hanging from the shelf above the
radiator. One day it could win a Turner prize.
Steam rises everywhere so windows have
to opened to allow the steam to escape, the scent of our washing powder fills
the house. It really is a Chinese laundry with Shanghai wife and bilingual daughters
included. My job is to turn the items, like a fish fryer in a chip shop, sadly
none of the items can be eaten.
When items are dry, and we do debate as
to what constitutes dry then they are whipped off the radiators and folded so
they can be taken upstairs out of the way. My stuff is never paper dry as I
prefer, so I take it upstairs and unfold it and put it on a radiator upstairs.
Later I can remove and fold it again, without the wife knowing, or so I hope.
As we pat ourselves on the back the sun
appears, unexpected Winter sunshine, we could have left them out all along, but
that wouldn’t have been as much fun. The Shanghai laundry mistress would have
never been able to wag her finger at us, as she gives orders and I reply “sorry I don’t speak Chinese” in my best schoolboy French.
Being Blunt ©
By Michael Casey
What exactly do I mean by “being blunt”? Well I mean saying it as it is, not
prevaricating, just saying it. Why dance around the houses, when what is needed
is the plain simple truth, HONESTY in other words. Some people just
cannot tell the truth, even if it’s as plain as the walrus drink induced nose on their face.
People are afraid to tell the truth and
shame the devil, as my mum used to say, tell the truth and I won’t beat you kind of truth. Double
glazing salesmen and central heating installers come to mind. They will sit in
your living room doing a pantomime, a calculator is even used, as if it will
impress you. Then there is the discount afterwards, and then as if they are
doing you a favour they will announce £3K or £2K or whatever.
Then you say thank you and show them
the door. They may think they have another load of commission coming their way,
my deadpan face gives nothing away. In fact the air is blue afterwards, what a
&*((& I may say. No way will he ever get my order, my money. I always
look dumb, but my brain is switched on. You learn more by pretending to be
stupid.
As for doctors, they don’t say “you’ll be dead in a week, cancel your
newspapers and season ticket for Manchester United” They um and ah and it’s very hard for them, they are healers
not shareholders in the local undertakers. Though I could add that I could have
been hit by a private ambulance this morning, killing two birds with one stone
if you like.
People offering a service will go on
and on and on, just how great this service is, and I’m not talking about the Vicar boasting
about his carol service. I’m talking about maintenance companies, who’ll clean and power wash your gutters
and even drains, and then charge £200. Me I gave a bloke a tenner and he sorted
my gutters. If he had asked for £20 I’d have pushed him off his ladder, well almost. There is
power in cash.
It’s so good for your child to do all
these after school activities, it broadens their mind, more likely broadens the
backside of the lady who sits there reading Hello magazine while your kids run
around, or maybe that’s play places attached to pubs.
Please can people be honest and blunt,
cos I can and will be blunt if people think they can talk down to me, and not
get to the point, and I don’t mean priests on Sundays either. Sounds like I’m ranting, no I just want facts, I don’t want political speeches or their ilk,
just give me the facts. I’m big enough to make up my own mind, and I haven’t got money to splash about in the
wider educational interests of my child.
This is code for a school trip because
the teachers always wanted to go there themselves, but their own parents could
not afford it. While I’m talking about teachers it amuses my children that they get
higher marks if they use more florid languages, score 2 extra points if you use
alliteration. Me and my kids look at each other and say “alliteration is for people who cannot
write.”
Have I been blunt enough, have I
rambled, if you are blunt with me you will say I have rambled, but rambling
with words is my exercise, exercise for my mind, and at least it does not leave
sweaty soles, or souls.
Getting Ready for Christmas 2014 ©
By Michael Casey
Well my small daughter asked could she
put the decorations up, it was 1st December yesterday. So she went rooting in
the back of the pantry under the stairs and came out with a plastic sack, this
contained the all silver Christmas tree. Christmas would take up residence in
the girls’ room. She also decorated the dolls’ house as well.
Later she brought down the small green
tree that would live behind the tv till Christmas and turkeys were finished. I
also dug out the crib, the one brought back from Bethlehem, though now a bit
dishevelled, I dropped it a few years ago and it broke in half so it had to be
glued back together. It also has glitter glue all over the roof, as if a star
had crashed on it. So really I suppose it’s more
accurate than a pristine Hollywood production. It has a lived in look.
I had a look online for free ecards,
you can have fun with cards nowadays. So I sent a silly one to our neighbour,
though it could just end up in the junk mailbox. I was going to send another
even sillier one, where you can cut and paste your own face onto a card. They even
make a mini video of you all as elves throwing snowballs. Really funny, but
then they try and sting you for 2 dollars, so I didn’t
bother. I’m sure if you google “free
ecards” you’ll find many more
which are really free.
You have to find addresses for long
lost relatives, and send appropriate Christmas cards. Santa on the toilet is
not suitable for your maiden aunt, nor drunken reindeer all with red noses due
to all the whisky taken. So you send Holy cards to your Holy relatives. A box
of cheap Christmas cards, in both meanings of the word for work and school or
college. Then a really nice one for your priest who helped you out during the
year, and you used to think he was a right (*&&&&&&,
but somehow HE managed to surprise you, so now he is your best friend.
You stock up on nice food to keep you
going during your marathon tv watching sessions, you have to have “snacks” while you watch your
favourite Christmas horror films over the Festive Season. And tissues too for
when you watch It’s a Wonderful Life for the zillionth
time, it always makes you cry. Don’t forget to hide
some supplies, the kids will steal your Pringles or Terry’s
Chocolate Orange, just when you need it most.
Drinks are important too, if your are a
drinker then a stash of larger at the back of the panty is useful. In our
house, fizzy pop and orange juice, blackcurrant squash are what hits the spot.
So we’ll have 10 litres ready, not forgetting the ice
cubes too.
So we are all about ready now, did I
forget something? Yes, baby Jesus with his mum Mary and dad Joseph, the Holy
Family in a smelly manger, with animals for company, sharing the warmth. It’s the warmth and love of Family, that family and our own
which is what Christmas is all about. It’s about the
Future, the future of us all, 2000years ago, yesterday, today and tomorrow and
for all Eternity.
You have won!!!! ©
By Michael Casey
You always delete junk emails, you
always do but this time you didn’t, you don’t even know why, but it said you had WON £1000 of vouchers
for B&Q or This&That or even for Whatis&Thingymabob. So against
your better judgement or maybe you were just tired because of the pain from
your arthritis or piles or whatever. So you started filling in the form.
It asked your name and address and so
on, and then it asked a load of other rubbish. DO you want this do you want
that? Are you this age or that, do you want to book your funeral or do you want
to go on holiday, and please specify which of 4 possible destinations, assuming
you weren’t heading for your grave, or was it just pre-booking it, as you
love your family so much and you don’t want to leave them with the bill, because you are so
considerate.
Then it sends you through a maze or
slide of other offers and promotions, it even asks you for your mobile number,
which you don’t know because you never ring yourself. You only have a phone so
you can keep in touch with your daughters when they go out singing in the dark,
or after dark. Finally you work out what your number is and then against your
better judgement you put it in.
Then there’s more, more invasive questions, you
half expect rubber gloves and a command to bend over to come from the online
form. Then finally the end, and you see in the corner, so small that you need a
magnifying glass that you have to pay them 4 quid a month subscription to “win” prizes. So really it’s a con, and it’s a misrepresentation, you have not won
anything. They are just data mining you, and on top of it all they are charging
you a monthly fee for the privilege.
They you go back to your email and you
are supposed to make one final click, why, perhaps to accept them stealing the
monthly fee from you. So you don’t do the final click. So you send them an angry reply, “leave me alone and never email me
again.”
So you have saved yourself from their
rubbish and them helping themselves to your money. Do they take it from your
phone balance? Then you see right at the unsubscribe link, so you click on that
too, for good measure. And what does that say? It says you have unsubscribed,
but do you want a chance to enter a competition to win some more stuff, and it
offers two chances.
Sounds like offering life insurance at
a funeral, just as tacky, so please leave me alone, you know who you are.
MRI and Carpet ©
By Michael Casey
Well I was minding my own business in bed
when the wife came up with the phone. Its great modern phones, you are not
attached to a line. I'm old enough to remember when only rich people had house
phones, before mobiles were invented. So it was the hospital saying they had a
cancellation and could I come in for a MRI on my back.
So that was good as you can queue for 2
months or more. So my wife drove me down to the hospital in her
"madwoman" clothes, a bright red apron with Korean writing on it,
this was on top of her pjs. As we are a Chinese family we don't get dressed
unless we are going out somewhere. she wasn't going anywhere , just dropping me
off.
When I got there, Carry On Doctor was on
the tv in the waiting room. They ask you a load of questions before you go into
the machine. Because the MRI is so powerful it can be affected, or you can be
affected by all the magnetic power.
So I changed and took my watch off. Inside
the donut is a tight squeeze and a little claustrophobic. It also took 15mins
and is quite noisy, so they give you headphones to listen to music while the
machine works. They also give you a panic button. So I heard several Christmas
tracks, before I was done. I have to wait 2 weeks before my GP has the results
and then maybe I'll get some pain relief for that side of my body.
Getting dressed I dropped my watch and the
minute hand fell off, but there is a tiny clock at the bottom so I can still
tell the time, so long as the hour hand does not jam the works.
The lady on reception and the 2 radiography
lads were very nice and professional. I had spotted donuts for sale at the cafe
at the entrance so I was going to buy some for my girls, only the wanted £1.15
each. So I left them there. I could get some at Aldi instead. So I had an
unexpected morning.
I went off to Argos next once the wife had
driven me home. Got a XL sized rug, to cover up the bad bits in our carpet.
About £46, a new carpet for the entire room would cost 10 times that at least.
I bought Axminster 25 years ago, now with my herd of elephants at home it is
time to replace it. There is a slight problem though. My girls don't like the
colour that I chose. I said it'd go well with our new sofas, but I live
with 3 girls so you can imagine what they think. So watch this space.
20/11/2014
I’m not just an object, I have
feelings too! ©
By Michael Casey
Morning 79, morning 87, morning
99, morning 110, morning all. It’s a bit nippy today, don’t you think? Yes,
it’s really nippy today, all the ice and damp, it’s bad for my loft. My gutters
are a bit blocked too, the rain just leaks down my brickwork, making me look so
bad, it lingers too, encourages all that horrid moss, I just hate moss.
Look out it’s that crow again,
I hope he does not land on me, nor me, nor me. Too late, he’s pooped on my brand
new double glazing, I hope that cat in 49 eats the swine. Tell me do I look
bad, just tell me straight, how bad do I look.
Terrible, like a Red Indian
with war paint on, but not as bad as the Goth Girl from no 95, sniggered the
other houses. It’s going to rain later on so you’ll soon be clean.
She needs to go on a diet,
she’s so heavy on my flagstones, added the pavement. And when she walks in
those high heels, she gives me a headache, it’s like having acupuncture, make
me feel like a pin cushion. The houses raised their gutters in agreement.
Could be worse, you could be a
lamppost, said the lamppost outside no 94, I have dogs to contend with. The
lamppost wriggled his light in disgust, the things dogs did to lampposts, dogs
had no shame at all. The houses fluttered their upstairs windows, it was their
way of having a shiver down their spines.
Children ran by on their way to
school, dropping litter as they ran, and spitting out chewing gum. The pavement
began to cry, he was always being picked on, nobody had national anti-bullying
week for pavements. He was spat on, and littered on, and peed on by dogs, and
far worse when night descended. Then why did people wear heels, they just gave
the pavement tummy ache. If only he could have some fancy new cobbles, like he
had 100 years before.
So the day passed with the
houses talking to each other while their owners were out for the day. Sometimes
the hedges and the rosebushes joined in the conversation, but mainly they
surfed, surfed the breeze. Hedges and rosebushes were just old Hippies, peace
and love was all they thought about, must be all the roots they have.
The telephone wires tingled, as
calls and internet went through their wires, they told the houses what messages
were being passed. It would be boring just being a telephone line hanging in a
street, but they could listen in and share the gossip with the houses. And why
did number 95 always buy so much plant food, he never put it on his bush.
The sun faded in the western
sky, the houses got excited, soon the owners would be coming home. Houses got
lonely if their owners stayed out too long, people were company for houses. The
streetlights started to come on, except outside no 84, there was a fault, so
soon Hope Street was all lit up, except for a dark patch outside no 84.
Kevin the lamppost was scared of dark, so he started humming to himself, it
stopped him from being afraid.
Derek, that’s one of the owners
not another lamppost, he saw Kevin humming, so he went up to him and kicked
him. Kevin felt bruised, but then with a flicker his light came on. Derek was
an electrician, so he knew where to kick, with a smile Derek went inside for
his dinner, Kevin smiled too. Kevin would stand sentry all night long, but he
did not mind, his light was on now.
Picking my Piece ©
By Michael Casey
I haven’t written a new piece for a
while, I got side-tracked with a bit of sudden angina, where that came from I
don’t know. It was as sudden as waking up with Arthur, no there was no man in
my bed, I’m not like that. I mean arthritis, which arrived just as suddenly and
unwantedly.
So I had a rest from the writing and
didn’t feel like writing something comical, I had an idea or two for a more
serious piece, but I remember what a reader at the hotel once said, my series
pieces are not as interesting for a passing reader.
So what should I write about? I thought
“Who am I to judge?” was a good title, but 70 year old virgins dictating to the
real world was/is more tragic than comic. I could have used the title to write
about prejudice, I don’t like him because he’s too tall, I cannot abide tall
people.
I just detest people with a common
accent, I am from Birmingham, so that would have made everybody laugh. Though
in fact I have a posh Birmingham accent, or even no accent at all, as I had to
speak clearly for my Shanghai wife. Judge for yourselves atwww.michaelgcasey.typepad.com to hear my audio.
Then I could say I detest smokers, and
I really do, I’m making no joke now. If anybody walks past me with a fag in
their hands it makes my chest hurt, literally, so I really DO hate smokers. So
is that a prejudice, or common sense. I remember the smokers room in my mum’s
house, it was like treacle or honey if you touched the ceiling. Or at a bad
restaurant where the tables are not cleaned, don’t get me started on restaurant
practices.
I’m more careful now about things,
everything in general now, as I grow older and closer to the exit, I am less
tolerant of things, I have not mellowed. What you may ask, and my answer is
that I’ll just vote with my feet.
I was talking about picking my piece
and I’ve strayed into not holding my peace. I suppose having two young
daughters has turned me into Attila the Hun as far as their safety and
wellbeing is concerned. Phones are a real Godsend, especially if you are on a
cheap tariff like Lyca mobile because calls between phones on the same network
are free. So I can keep an eye on my daughters from afar.
Back to my piece, I hope our grass
dustbin is emptied in the morning as I tidied up the front garden by cutting
everything back, so there is nothing left. It’s all in the garden waste bin so
I want the bin men to take it away. Then in the Spring I’ll have a brand new
garden display, in the Spring there will be growth as Chancy Gardinier might
say, if you remember Being There.
So I could write about films, they are
such a great family thing in our house, we watch films together at the weekend,
we might save up a few films on the Sky+ box and then watch them. No we don’t
have the movie channels, but there are 15+ other film channels, 315 to 328 and
other numbers. Sounds like picking from a Chinese takeaway menu, which makes us
smile, as the wife is a Shanghai girl.
I could talk about antiviruses 360
Total Security is a Chinese one which is free, and there is a browser too,
based on Google Chrome. Have a look at it for yourself, the tidy up feature is
good, but be careful, otherwise give it a whirl. There are also free Kindle
ebooks that you can get too, some are 0p, totally free so you could download
them for your teenage daughters.
So I haven’t really decided what to
talk about, so I’m talking around in circles, and that’s the important bit, I’m
talking to you, I’m not really writing, I’m talking. I hope you all spot the
difference. I need to get a magnifying glass so I can read the Alistair Cooke
book, the print is just so small. He talked and talked well, if only I could be
Postcard from Birmingham with Michael Casey. Now that would be perfect peace
for me.
What are your kids to you?
11/11/2014
What
are your kids to you?
By
Michael Casey
My
small daughter always gives me a hug and a kiss before she goes to bed. She’s
11 now, her bigger sister just blows a kiss to me, she’s 13, so too gig to give
hugs, but I treasure this kisses. My small daughter has also taken up the
anthem we had when I was a child 45 years ago, when I was her age. “Nighty,
nighty” she recites and waits for me to reply “Pyjamas, pyjamas.” It’s very
simple and silly, but now it will be passed down the generations.
It
would have been my dad’s Birthday today, 11th November, so I
smile and thing back and think forward. At the end of this century my
daughter’s grandchildren will be saying “Nighty, nighty” and waiting for
“Pyjamas, pyjamas.” We have Chinese and Irish blood in the family now,
what more will be added to the mix only time will tell.
We
were watching the show on tv about compulsive cleaners and how they are matched
with the really really dirty hoarders. Tonight they cleared a children’s
bedroom, it made us smile. If they had a Chinese mum they would never ever get
away with having a tip for a bedroom. Bad habits have to be broken and in fact
they should never be allowed to begin.
I
was talking to my small daughter about her reading and did the other kids at
school read as much as her. She is part bookworm. They don’t have the time was
her reply, too much Xbox and computer stuff, no time for reading. Parents have
to switch these toys off and even switch the family tv off, and make their kids
read. My small daughter reads 100pages a day in the main. Which is a lot, even
if you consider the fact that children’s books have less words per page than a
regular book. So if she can do it, why can’t every parent do the same?
Making
hot chocolate for my girls, which has to be made in the correct mugs, the cat
with the mouse on its head is my small daughter’s mug, the princess mug for my
other princess. Simple little things while they are doing homework or just
reading, dad keeps them watered while they are studying.
Kids
need things, like school shoes or school blouses or just “things” so as a dad
you have to go online to seek out what they need, and what their hearts’
desire. Then you say it’s a race to see if this will arrive before that. Online
shopping is easy, you end up knowing all the couriers. We have a mum courier
who fits in her work between the school-runs, she works for all the couriers.
When
this or that arrives your daughters will give you a hug, she has got what she
needs, or a bit of extra treasure. Kids also make noise, but the alternative
would be a quiet house, kids are a heartbeat to a home, just as a grandfather
clock is.
At
the moment one daughter is learning all about the heart, coinciding with me
suddenly and unexpectedly getting a bit of angina. The bigger daughter is
thinking about GCSE choices, she has a Science brain like her cousin, my
generation had Arts brains, so I cannot really help her on these subjects. And
where did the science come from? Well grannie was the bus company accountant in
Shanghai, and my wife has a bio-chemistry degree.
As
for my small daughter, she just loves David Attenborough, and wants to be an
animal biologist whatever that it. She just adores his voice, and Barry White’s
voice too. So this is a snapshot of what my kids are like, I just hope I am ½
as good a dad as my dad was to me, Happy Birthday dad.
NOVEMBER
5TH, 2014 14:07
Follow Me I’m Your Leader
Follow
Me, I’m Your Leader ©
By
Michael Casey
I always
knew I’d be a leader, it was my destiny, I had to be what was ordained, so I
seized the opportunity with both hands. People are fickle, so why no exploit
it. I got in on the ground floor when mobiles first appeared, they were like a
brick with a wire attached.
I had
shares in Apple, the Beatles one, but I quickly dumped them and got the core
value ones, the Tech ones. If people wanted to follow me they had to buy a
phone, it was their uniform, so they could all appear so uniform and follow me.
I made a killing with the shares and the concession stores. They were giving me
money to have the uniform, or rather the phone, then they were part of the hip
and groovy set, followers of me.
Who am I
, no not Denny Crane, but Kevin H.P. Twerp. I added the H.P. it read better, as
far as Americans were concerned, I also liked the sauce which started in
Birmingham, as did I. Though nobody knew that, I was posh Scottish from
Edinburgh, that’s what my Wiki page said. And everybody believes Wiki, and
Julian Assange.
So once
I had followers what did I do with them? I fleeced them of course, they had to
attend my induction courses, which cost 1000 Dollars a pop, or 1000 Euros or
1000 pounds, it made the accounts easier to fiddle if I kept the 1000 unit.
They had
to spent 10hours at each induction, there were 3 of course, and they cost 1000
for each. It is hard being a leader so the money paid for my 5 star stays all
over the world, and the property portfolio in Malta. Malta is nice so that’s
where I hide my money.
What
happens at the induction? Nobody knows, the bottled water, and it does have to
be bottled water for my followers. The bottled water was 10pounds/dollars/euros
a bottle. The water having been laced with something, I cannot say what but it
does make the 10 hours go faster, and their brains are blank afterwards. But
they do worship the ground I walk on.
Then
they have to dress like me, I did a deal with a haut -couture fashion
house, I got shares too, so my followers do look good. Just like me, why have
an unwashed rabble in Tshirts when they can wear designer clothes, and look so
nice.
I had a
deal with a perfume house too, in fact I created the perfume. So my followers
look good and smell even better. A long way away from eau de Jeyes Fluid
in my caretaker days when I had to clean the bogs. Though it did motivate me to
dream up my pompous vacuous Cult, as my detractors call it, or did I mishear
them?
I tour,
big stadia, just like Alice Cooper and U2, though I don’t pay as much tax as
them, in fact none at all. It’s worth investing in a corrupt accountant, he’s
worth his weight in gold. He doubles as my chauffeur, I don’t want to ruin my
manicure on any steering wheel. Besides I can watch him from the back seat of
our Rolls Royce, specially made of course, only 5 in the world. I have one on
every continent; I have to stay unique after all.
It can
be boring looking at spread sheets, 4.79billion dollars or is it pounds now?
That’s my ill-gotten gains, my accountant cum chauffeur is demanding
20million as his share, the cheek of it. 20 million is more than what I paid
for a new marina in Malta, near the Hilton. I said I’d give him 15, he
accepted, I threatened to blackmail him, it’s always good to have a safety
deposit box.
What’s
happening, why am I in this prison cell, and why am I dressed in cheap women’s
clothing, not even designer. I should have never have drunk that bottled water.
Halloween
Horrors ©
By
MichaelCasey
There was a
knock at the door at 9.30pm, while we were watching the Blacklist. Its
Halloween tonight and it’s so dark outside now that the clocks have gone
backwards for the winter. So just for fun I sneaked to our front door and
screamed “DEVIL” and went away laughing, back to the Blacklist on TV.
Only the
knocking returned but I ignored it. Our next door neighbour had but up a
welcoming Halloween balloon, so that could have attracted trick or
treaters. My girls had a look out the window and think they saw a man
with a parcel getting into a van. I was only told this after the van drove off.
I am waiting
for a parcel, so was the trick on me. When roused from the Blacklist I saw the
van stop at the end of our street and a man get out and have a fag. Smoking to
steady his nerves perhaps. Parcel delivery drivers don’t deliver at 9.30pm in
the dark on Halloween do they? A parcel man would stick a note through my door.
Not unless he was a witch or warlock moonlighting.
I finished
watching the Blacklist then I decided to have my own Halloween prank. I drew an
evil face on my next door neighbour’s balloon. She did say she was going to be
a witch in the woods tonight, so I wonder will the face on the balloon scare
her.
If you hear a
blood curdling scream in the middle of the night, it must be my next door
neighbour.
29/10/2014
following on
the black humour theme. today I bought my girls some clothes and a lot of
books. I told them its their Christmas present. And their Chinese New Year
present too. They are 1/2 Chinese after all. Then it gave me an idea for a
story, not yet written. It would be about a hypochondriac who keeps on thinking
he has this disease or that disease so spoils his children, each time he thinks
he’s contracted this or that new disease. So you can imagine in the school
playground the kids saying, I got this new top because my dad has piles, or I
got these new shoes because my dad’s arthritis got worse. Or dad had bad tooth
ache so he bought me new boots, etc etc I may very well write this story down.
Though I should say I really do have a few maladies, but laughter is the best
medicine.
Black
Humour what’s your view
By Michael Casey
Black Humour. What’s your opinion on this subject?
I need to have my heart checked out, its my age I
suppose.
So I said to my young daughters, they could have a cat if
I have a heart attack. AS they would just love a cat. I then added that if I
die they could have a dog as well.
They immediately scoured the Internet for pictures
of cats and dogs and begged me to let them have one or both. So I love my
girls so much. they have a great sense of humour.
I always say IF we had a bigger house then we could have a
cat and a dog. So if anybody can send me 6 numbers for the lottery…. Or if my
Premium Bonds come up, finally after decades then perhaps we could have a
bigger house, and then could have a pet.
p.s. we were at the theatre on Saturday to see Blood
Brothers, they have plaques on the seats, there was one on the back of my seat,
it read “IN loving memory of dad”
22/10/2014
Today I’ve
recorded a few more stories. So now I have recorded 200 of my shorts, which is
less that 20% of my output. I’ve written more stories than the Brothers Grimm,
twice as many, though some card might say my stories are grimm, ha ha ha, they
will laugh to themselves.
Anyways as I
recorded more today I did remember that a few days ago a blind guy was looking
for a reader, so perhaps I should send him my 1st 200 stories to listen to. As
for the rest of youhttp://www.michaelgcasey,typepad.com has 50 or so samples. So far 10 hours plus of
recorded material.
20/10/2014
They say its
an ill wind that blows no good. Today 24 hours before my pain killing injection
the hospital rung to cancel it. Its nearly 6 months since my 2nd hip started to
hurt, now I could be waiting another month. So that’s the ill wind. Mind you
there’s a storm due to hit Birmingham and UK big time in the morning, so I
suppose I won’t be drenched as I won’t have to go out in the rain. Though as
I’m not going to hospital I’ll be doing my usual school run instead, so I will
be drenched but slightly less so. Which reminds me how did I meet my wife, one
reason was because she got food poisoning and missed her flight to Germany, so
she came to Birmingham instead. Such is Love and Fate and etc.
OCTOBER
17TH, 2014 11:21
School Shoes
By Michael Casey
School Shoes
©
By Michael
Casey
Shoes are
shoes, are shoes, right? No, shoes are not shoes, they are school shoes, which
is another thing entirely. And as for children’s shoes, don’t make my cry. They
are something even more tearful, to the parent that is, the cost is so
enormous.
You or me we
got to the shoe shop and try them on and in 5 minutes you are out the door, you
may even be wearing the new shoes and your old ones are throw in the bin. Shoes
are expensive, leather shoes that is. Plastic or any other material tends to be
cheaper.
The school
year started a month or so ago, now ½ term approaches, and small daughter tells
me she needs new school schools. She has small feet, size 2 or less, so
normally she does not get through shoes as fast as her sister, who is a size 5.
So you look
at the shoes and agree they are ready for the bin, so now you have to replace
them. You can’t just give her any old shoes, they have to be school shoes,
which have a special, almost magical quality, the fit, not the fit for the
foot, but the fit for the school rules. Yes, school rules. They must be black
and be plain, as if fit for the Amish or Quaker temperament.
Our cheap
and cheerful shoe shop has closed down, and the other one is expensive, so the
Internet beckons. We look at Clarks, they have nice shoes, in nice black
leather, but I wince at the price. Small daughter doesn’t mind non leather
shoes, so we agree to look at other websites. She does not have sweaty feet
like me and big sister, so we can try non leather shoes.
We browse
here and we browse there, then hey presto we find £15 shoes, which fit the
bill, and fit her feet, and fit school rules. So we buy 2 pairs which we hope
will last till the Summer, and save £15 if you can follow the logic.
So dad is
given a congratulatory kiss, and small daughter skips away happily. Only to
return half an hour later to remind you that the Seasons are changing and
really she needs some new boots to wear to school in the bad weather, but once
at school she’ll put her cheap new school shoes on.
So together
we look at the boots, size 2 boots, at least there are no rules to conform to
here. So we go to Clarks and they have a sale, and we put a pair in the basket,
before opening a new Window.
We look at
Amazon and Debenhams, and compare the boots. Are fluffy warm boots good enough,
are the boots too tall, which would get in the way of small daughter’s running
activities in the playground, or are they just right. I feel like Goldilocks
looking for boots instead of a bed.
Then we find
the just right boots, only they are not just right, as my small daughter
decides they won’t match her clothes, when she’s wearing them not just for
school. So we have to search again. Finally we settle for some mid- calf length
boots with fake fur on the inside and thick soles to keep her feet out of the puddles and snow
this coming Winter.
So now she
is a happy bunny and away she goes to play with her dolls’ house, at least I
don’t have to buy shoes for all the inhabitants of that house, or I’d be in the
poor house.
Pain and
Fear Oct 2014©
By Michael
Casey
Just so you
know I’m talking from experience, not airy fairy philosophy, only my own
philosophy learnt the hard way. I’ve talked to a few people now about Arthritis
and pain. My own Arthur as I call it, arrived unannounced in March 2013. By the
time I went through the health system it was 5th October before I got some
proper pain relief, for my left hip.
Then such is
the nature of the beast that my other leg, hip and everywhere else decided to
go out in sympathy. Now after maybe 4 to 6 months I hope that’ll be sorted too,
finally.
I always say
I don’t want to pop pills for the pain as I don’t want to turn into Michael
Jackson, the name Michael is all we share in common. I don’t want to be
addicted to anything, besides which my kidneys don’t allow me to pop too many
pills. So I use Movelat gel instead. It works in 5 mins and doesn’t smell like
Deep Heat.
So that’s my
background, I have met people who suffer much much worse and for years. So
should I should shut up, or grin and bear it, and have a stiff upper lip, the
British way.
Personally I
think stiff upper lip is bollocks, when you are in pain you are in pain. You
are not even looking for sympathy, but a little empathy does go long way. I’ve
met people who say their kid or grandkid or nephew or whatever has this disease
or that disease. As if it’s a competition in pain. It’s not a competition, and
I do pray that others do get a bit of relief from their pain.
The other
thing I say when people are offering one up-man-ship in pain, is does the
sufferer have a sense of humour. This takes the wind from their sails, and they
even think I’m being unkind. Some even miss the point, if you have a sense of
humour it deflects pain away, it lessens it. Humour got us through the War, if
you can laugh at something it is not your master.
Fear of
something is greater than the thing itself, Churchill knew that, so we should
all remember that too, whatever pain we have. He also said Never Never
Surrender. That’s true too. I have seen people give up through pain and sorrow,
it just leeches away the soul. So the answer really is Always Look On The
Bright Side of Life.
It does not
mean that I or anybody else is a comedian, and all singing and dancing
comedian. A kind of Bruce Forsythe but on speed, or any other substance. Your
outlook on life colours your life itself. If you give yourself a crucifix to
carry then you will weigh down your soul. I’m sad because of this or because of
that, my Life is Over, this mentality is a Cancer.
I don’t say
we should be like Patch Adams, we can all heal ourselves, medicine helps, but it
is ourselves that help ourselves the most. Give yourself a kick up the bum when
you are feeling glum. So you did not get that job, that girl ignored you or
slapped your face.
Life moves
on, and we have to move on too, or we are drowned in the sea of life, time and
tide waits for no man. I had a Birthday and this means I am now the same age
that my dad was when I was at the lowest point of my life. It was my dad’s
Birthday and I’d lost a job and I could see no hope on the horizon.
I can
remember my dad shaving in the kitchen sink, saying sagely that something would
turn up. I never knew if he really believed what he was saying, then or now.
But I believed and loved him totally, which I hope every other son everywhere
does. And if you don’t then you don’t have a Kerry Blacksmith for a dad as I
did.
So I lived
in hope and my brother said try computers, so I did, so I applied for one job
in computers, and got it. That job lasted 21 years and laid the foundations for
my very life. My fears were banished and I had a secure job.
How did I
repay my dad for his confidence in me, I visited him every single day when he was in the old people’s home, for
3 years, 20 years later. It’s all in Padre Pio and Me.
The pain of
loss is a great big thing, I know as my mother died, then 8 weeks later my dad
would have joined her, but my brother did CPR and saved our dad. So we had 5.5
years extra time, time to show our dad our thanks for his great life and
influence over us his children.
When mum
died I shed not a tear, not one, as she had ordered us not to cry for her, and
not to fight. This was her mantra for years before her death. To be honest, she
was worn out from her large family.
When dad
died finally, a week after I’d found another new job, escaping the scrap heap
again, I was in pain. I howled like a puppy dog being beaten with an iron bar.
Grief does that to you. History repeated itself, I had found another great job.
I was working for CPNEC Birmingham. Hotel work is hard work but great fun. I
really did excel at the hotel.
So I’ve
talked about real pain, as in Arthur, emotional pain as in losing a parent. I
nearly lost 2 in the space of 8 weeks. So which is the worse. Emotional pain always trumps physical pain.
The heart feels pain more than anywhere else. So when your friend is going
through a divorce or her bloke cheats on her, be there for her. A few words
here and a few words there can and do save lives and souls too.
Some may
think you are a stupid sod, but if you shine sunshine into a life as the clouds
gather and the walls come crashing down, then, you will save a soul. You may
also make a friend for life. The clever people don’t know what to say, or they
are too posh or too polite to say anything. This is Wrong. A hug is worth more than any amount of pills
from a busy uncaring doctor.
You may
wonder why I try and write humour most of the time, and not more serious posts
like this. Well the answer my friends is blowing in the wind. Music is therapy
too, that’s why your neighbour was playing Barry White all night long for a
week. Until either the Police raided his house, or he realised there are as
good a fish in the sea that ever came out of it.
You Only
Know When You Are Dead ©
By Michael
Casey
There is
something similar between Paul Merton and Alfred Nobel, no Paul Merton does not
have an explosive delivery. The thing I see in common is this, they had to have
a death before they realised what people really thought of them. Alfred Nobel
read his own obituary, then he changed. Paul Merton only discovered after his
parents’ death that they admired his success.
Which has
set me thinking, what do people really think of us. Will they only tell the
truth behind our backs, or do they have the balls to tell it as it is to our
face. I once said of somebody that he was “shallow” then a week or so later
when we were all down the pub, as was our company’s religion, I was confronted
by him.
I heard you
said I was shallow. Yes, and yes you are. Do you want another pint I asked, so
I got a round in and no more was said. In those days 20 years ago and more the
company was more like a social club, but, everybody did work very hard, very
hard indeed. We have all scattered to
the 4 winds now, but I’m sure when we all look back we all look back not in
anger, but with laughter.
When I left
the company I’m told they had the largest leaving collection ever, though that
could have been like Cecil D Milne’s funeral, not because he was liked but everybody wanted to make sure he was really
dead. However, as I look to my right I have a painted water-coloured copy of a
Burne-Jones hanging on the wall, the angel is playing a flute, below is our
piano which my eldest daughter plays on. We saved up for years to buy it, and
now the fruits are being to show.
Why are
people afraid to say what they mean and mean what they say? Perhaps I was born blunt, or honest as I
would say, there is nothing worse than asking people what they want to eat and
then they change their mind, or moan afterwards that they really wanted
something else.
Whenever the
kettle is boiled in our house I’ll ask do my girls want a drink, tea, green tea
or hot chocolate. So I don’t waste the gas. My youngest is the one who says no,
then says yes just as I’ve sat down again at the computer, just as I’m in
mid-sentence.
Though I
should not complain as they always give me inspiration to write something new,
550 short stories, pieces like this is my tally so far. Take a peek at Amazon
Kindle if you want to read some. Slice of life, as the NY poet Elaine Polin
would say.
When you are
dead and in your grave its only then you realise that a coffin and a grave is
just like being in a submarine, such a small space to sleep in, though you’ll
never again come up for air. In your grave you’ll hear the grass being mown
above you. You’ll hear lovers make love in the sunshine above. The laughter of
children as they steal the flowers from your grave before giving them to their
teacher in the school next door to the cemetery.
The rain
beats down on your headstone, tears merge with the rain, somebody has come to
pay you a visit, only the sound is muffled six feet under, they should have
left your hearing aid in when they put you in your box. They put shoes on your
feet, but a hearing aid would have been more useful.
You strain
to hear who is crying, who is lamenting your passing. Its none of your family,
it’s the cleaner from your office, you gave her some advice to help her son
read. Now he’s passed the 11 plus, all because you spent a few minutes chatting
every night to his mum. She forced him to listen to Radio 4 and to read a
quality newspaper, and then there was that book list you gave her. It was
nothing really, but it was enough to change her son’s life. Just as BBC Radio 4
had changed your own life.
There’s
laughter above, two drunks are sitting and spitting as they drink cider as they
sit on your grave. You wouldn’t mind a drink yourself, it’s a bit boring just
lying here all stiff 6 feet under, if only there was cable tv in the grave. At
least you have time to think, and you are not rushed off your feet any more.
No need to
visit my grave you had said, I’m with you, I’m in you, I’m your dad, I’m your
husband, your boyfriend, your secret lover, your boss your friend or whatever
else you may have been. No need to tramp though the rain to lay flowers. That’s
what you said, but secretly you wish somebody came, its cold and lonely in a
grave.
So on it
goes for all eternity. If you were a Poet maybe people would come and you’d
hear laughter and listen to your own poems being read back to you. But you were
just you, and sometimes its only when you are dead that you know just how much
or how little you were loved.
So love now,
not tomorrow, because tomorrow you could be dead.
WEDNESDAY, 1
OCTOBER 2014
You are
always better than yourself ©
By Michael Casey
You are
always better than yourself,
because you
have the love that made you,
so that’s 3
to start with,
then there
is the love that you gain as you create friendships,
and find a
partner too,
so you are
never alone,
you are forever
growing,
add Faith
too,
so we are
all Eternal.
Michael
Casey
*** I
stumbled over this on my PC then I deleted it by mistake, then I though I’d
never find it again., So I was glad when I finally found it in a dark corner of
my PC. I just hope you all like it.
Theatre ©
By Michael
Casey
Theatre, or
drama what is it? Its life with the boring bits taken out, though you can
stumble over a bad production. I’m going to take my daughters to see Blood
Brothers, it should be great, I saw it years ago so now maybe 20 years on I’ll
be taking them. If you get to the lift quick you can get to the bar real fast,
and then have a pint of Stella for me and ice cream for them. This is the
Birmingham Hippodrome.
I did take
my girls a few years ago, we saw Fame. I think they’ll enjoy this show even
more. They can prep by looking on UTube, I looked at Barbara Dickenson singing
“Tell me it’s not true” last night, her singing was so powerful. Both my
daughters are singers, my eldest daughter has got her Dean’s Award, which is a
musical singing and theory exam. So I fully expect them to learn the songs and
sing them incessantly when we get home.
I started
going to the theatre when I was in my twenties, I went for a number of years.
In those day’s people used to dress up when they went to the theatre. I once
saw Anne Diamond in a long evening dress in the circle of the Hippodrome. I
used to wear my black velvet jacket when I went to the theatre. Nowadays I
dress for comfort, though I’ve reached an age where I don’t wear jeans anymore,
so I don’t look like a member of Status Quo sat in the circle.
Before you
are married you can sit in the best seats and please yourself, post marriage
you have to think about the price of kids’ shoes. You can get out of the habit
of theatre. My Shanghai wife was introduced to theatre, or should I say Panto,
some of which she understood, the rest was totally totally strange to her.
So marriage
and a different culture led to different things. Such as Chinese food in the
Chinese Quarter, just outside the Birmingham Hippodrome. Though when I first
met my wife I was positively vetted by a Chinese Ballerina from the Birmingham
Royal Ballet, which is based at the Hippodrome. A friend of a friend is called
“Chimp” and he works as a stagehand at the Hippodrome, he even toured China
with the Birmingham Royal Ballet. So you could say there will always be some
form of connection between the Hippodrome and my life.
Now a show
is just that a show. You are captivated and controlled by the production, you
are one with the production. I once saw the Conterfeit Stones at the Alexandra
Theatre, the performance was amazing. The imitations and the singing were
unbelievable, I’d tell Sir Mick to go take a look at himself. This is theatre
at its best where you are carried along with the show.
I used to
see bands perform at the Bell and Pump, this was mainly Folk, then I’d see Jazz
at the Waterworks Jazz Club the next day, this was mainly Trad Jazz. That must
have been 30 years ago, for a number of years. It’s because of this exposure to
music that I can spot a good singer when I hear one. At a folk club there is
theatre too, the way in which the band or solo artist holds the audience. Mad
Jocks and Englishman were beyond compare, they must be all retired now.
Eddie Izzard
was at the Hippodrome once and the way in which he rocked the audience back and
forward, literally holding them in the palm of his hand. He did a joke about
Engelbert Humperdinck and it was like watching a cat play with a mouse, such
total control of the audience. Ken Dodd is totally different but he really is a
Master of Mirth, control and avalanches of material, and a 4 hour show if you
are lucky. He just never stops, you always get your money’s worth.
Theatre,
does entertain, the Roman’s knew that, bread and circuses keep the Plebs in
check. When done right the emotion on the stage spreads and touches everybody
to the core. People can be helpless with laughter, crying with laughter. Some
say it’s like a religious experience. The best play I ever saw in my life was
Candide at the Birmingham Rep, it was standing room only.
There was a
funny pitched circular stage if I can remember correctly. Period costume and
riots of laughter. I imagine like the performances at the new Globe theatre in
London. I have Taming of the Shrew on my Sky+ box, I need to sit down and watch
it. My point though is that theatre IS better than film or your tv, it’s right
there breathing on you.
When done
right theatre is a conspiracy of the stage and the audience, especially something
like Candide. There are no barriers, no tv screens nor silver screens getting
in the way of you and the story and the performance. And yes my play Shoplife
was accepted for production but not finally produced, so I still dream what if
my play was on the stage.
So I hope
that now my girls are older I can watch their faces as we see Blood Brothers at
the Hippodrome, I hope the spark will be passed on between us. Who knows one
day they may be on the stage, singing, performing or as the writer of a new
play.
Confessions
of an Art Lover ©
By Michael
Casey
I like Art,
I suppose in a way I love it. My mum bought a picture printed on cardboard,
it’s a street scene in snow, cost her 10p at a jumble sale. I still have it,
it’s hanging over my bed, I’ve had it for 46 years maybe. That one thing has
influenced my life till now and forever.
I even
bought a book on Art while I was on holiday in Exeter with my brother, it was a
3 day weekend with hotel and car hire thrown in. He had named a locomotion
engine and the holiday was the prize. So if ever you see “the graduate” that’s
the train named by my brother. The art book was on sale and we got another quid
off because there was a mark on the front inside page. I still have that book,
it’s behind the telly.
I was just
watching Andrew Graham-Dixon on tv, his programmes educate me. He’s been
talking about artists from 100 years ago who were trail blazers, England’s
version of Picasso if you like. Though that’s a very large over simplification.
The thing
with art is its art, it’s not a photograph, it has many more meanings than a
bare polaroid. Artist love the female form, the female nude is everywhere in
art, and the internet in today’s world. Artists get bored with just one version
of anything, so they stretch and strain the images. Look at some of Gaudi’s
work for example, then look at Picasso’s, the form, the image on the canvas is
changed and mangled even.
It’s as if
the artist is drunk or looking through a kaleidoscope, or looking at a refection
an image through a broken mirror. Nothing is as it seems it’s all been changed.
The female form was corpulent and fat long ago, it was the tradition, then with
time and different schools of art the nude was presented differently.
Everything,
the landscape, the way of painting everything has changed, we had Constable so
millions of copies of the Haywain adorn millions of homes. We had Turner with a
blob of spit in the centre of an angry sea swell. We had the Pre-Rafaelites too
with their almost cartoon bright colours, by the way Birmingham city gallery
has a great collection of them.
Time and
Tide wait for no man, ditto the artist. That’s why I need my guide Andrew
Graham-Dixon to explain it all to me, and to help make the penny drop. Some may
follow Man United, some may follow Formula One, others follow the still a Brit
Murray at the tennis. Me I did play rugby at school, but I’d just love to sit
down to dinner with Andrew Graham-Dixon and a 60 inch HD4 tv set beside us.
As we enjoy
our meal, cooked by AGD’s Italian friend I could be taught the History of Art,
I have a large stomach so I could be deeply educated. The length and breadth of
art, as well as the 16 course menu that would cover the table as I look up and
learn my Art.
Perhaps I am
just naïve, but a painting on the wall does turn a house into a home, and if
you understand all the nuances of the painting then so much the better. It’s
like being on holiday abroad and being able to understand the language. Art is
more than pretty pictures, it is a language, which is even better if you
understand it.
Recording
Star ©
By Michael
Casey
I’ve been
recording my short stories recently I recorded 4 more today in fact. As I
record them the memories come flooding back, some of the stories are 3 years
old, so as I record them I smile and sometimes laugh. I also want to add an
extra line or two, it’s really hard sticking to a script.
There is a
difference between a writer and a reader or a radio speaker. As a writer I want
to change things, so recording my own words is like being on a train, I have to
follow the tracks. As some of the stories are 3 years old events have moved on,
so I want to change or give an update to the story. So it’s very hard for me
just to read the words on the page.
I used to read
the Lesson from Bible when I was young, over 40 years ago. You cannot ad lib
when you are reading the Bible, or jazz it up, it is what it is. Though
sometimes at Mass a priest may read the shorter version of the Lesson, you have
to be disciplined. So I have to be disciplined as I record my back catalogue, I
reached 194 today. I have recorded 194 out of 540 short stories.
They say
Video Killed the Radio Star, if you remember the old song, so maybe I should be
putting all my stories on Utube instead. Though I do think Radio is my medium,
I did listen to BBC Radio 4 for 20 years before I started to write back in
1987. Words should be heard and listened to, and enjoyed, pictures can get in
the way.
Recording
makes you “announce” your words, the flavour is different, the comic timing has
to be correct as you read. I was also thinking today as I listened back to my
recordings that I could learn a lesson from Sinatra. Yes I do everything my
way, I write in my own style, but if I recorded His way then it would be
better. Clear enunciation, crystal clear enunciation, though you have to have a
balance, I don’t want to sound like a BBC radio announcer from after the war.
Having said that my daughters say I sound like a news reader, which makes me
smile as my wife says I look a bit like Huw Edwards.
So on I go
recording my shorts using my microphone which has a blue lcd light in it, makes
me feel important, I suppose my very own studio live light. Its tiring too, all
this recording, I hope that finally I can get my words on the radio. My other
idea is to sell a book of shorts with facing page translations with a usb stick
attached with my recordings on. Would you like learning English by reading my
words and listening to me too?
I suppose in
the end I may just be talking to myself, but isn’t that what radio is all
about? Talking to yourself, in the hope that others are listening to you and
smiling as they hear your words on the radio. I’d be happy either on the radio
or in print or cyberspace. All I need is the Help of God and Two Policemen as
my mum used to say.
In my mind I
have tears ©
By Michael
Casey
In my mind I
have tears
In my eyes I
have fears suppressed for years
In my breath
I have pain was everything in vain
In my mouth
I can taste the regret for not reaching
In my nose
is the perfume of failure
In my hair
is the grey of not getting there
In my
gait is the weight of things carried
too far
In my stride
my steps are small no more strength to carry all
In my laugh
is the experience of rejection
But in my
heart is Hope and Faith beyond reason
What’s your
skill?
04/09/2014
What’s your
Skill ? ©
By Michael
Casey
I was
talking to somebody the other day via the DT and he made me think, in fact he’s
given me the idea for this piece, though he doesn’t know it yet. Yesterday’s
piece “I have children” was inspired by going to the cupboard while making a
cup of tea and when I opened the cupboard
what I saw made me smile and thank God, because I have children. An hour
later I’d written the piece.
So today I
was thinking about skills, trades, talents, flairs, not the old trousers from
the 70s either. Some of us are gifted or talented in one direction or another,
at school the school report said I had a flair for French, the truth was we
were tested every week for 4 years, 20 questions. So it was the teacher Mr
Notzing who made me good, I just did what I was told. So my generation of Casey
siblings were good at languages.
Little did
we know that we’d all marry foreigners, so my girls are bilingual in
English/Mandarin. The next generation, our kids, seem to be going into science,
my nephew has decided to do Bio-Chemistry at York, because it has a big lab
there, I did mention that my own wife has a degree in the subject, my friend
from grammar school has a PhD in it, that made him smile. My daughter is
heading in that direction too.
But where
does the knowledge come from? It’s partly in the genes, and not the Levi
Strauss ones you are wearing. Grannie in Shanghai was the accountant for the
bus company after all. So gifts or flairs or even talents can come to you via
the genes. The greatest gift is your looks, ugly parents have beautiful
children and beautiful parents have ugly kids, its God’s sense of humour and
balance after all. My own kids take after the wife, thank God for that, I
wouldn’t want them to inherit my hairy back.
I’ve gone
off at a tangent but that’s the way my mind works, and it’s fun to see if
people stay with me, or drift over to the bar, or go and fetch an iron bar to
hit me with, it’s never happened yet, but you never know, you never know. So a
talent, what is it? A talent is something that you are very good at, better
than your experience level, if you like it’s a plus 20% and more that comes
from somewhere else, maybe the ether.
People can
be jealous, and snide about a talent. Oh, he’s just gifted, he didn’t have to
work at it like the rest of us. Beckham had to practice to be able to bend it,
he’s having elocution lessons next, he wants to be an announcer on Radio 4,
well in my imagination he is. Rooney practiced his heading technique too, maybe
that’s why his hair fell out, but its grown back, must be the shampoo he’s
using, I hope he puts it on his website then we can all buy it.
You do still
have to work at your skill, your trade, your knack with this or that, you’re
knackered by all your hard work, and because you’ve put the hours in then it
seems so easy to an onlooker. Perhaps firemen would be good pole-dancers, all
the sliding down pole practice, ask any firemen friends you have. Which brings
the obvious to mind, policemen would be good at bondage, all the handcuffs and
so forth. I’ve gone off at a tangent again, are you hunting for that iron bar
in the boot of the car?
Sometimes
people are down on themselves and say they cannot do anything, I suppose girls
are more sensitive and can be more self-critical. Image/size issues and so
forth. I’d just say STOP. Yes you can, if I can steal Obama’s saying. You just have to make good with what
you have got.
Any
organisation needs all of us, the cleaner, the guy at the door, the cook, the
secretary, the lawyer, the general manager, the everybody. In my hotel days I
was like a puppy dog, a 17stone puppy dog who greeted everybody within 15
seconds of them entering the hotel. Once our boss went to the Hilton over the
lake, and nobody approached him for 20 minutes, which is enough time to have a
meal and conceive a baby, but not simultaneously, not unless you are a chef. In
fact a lot of guests thought I was the manager because of the silver hair,
being 20 years older than the reception crew, and the lack of a uniform,
because I was the wrong shape, ok fat for the uniforms they did have.
It takes all
kinds of everybody doing everything, if I can mangle Dana, to make a hotel, or
a law firm work. Yes you need the high skill guys, the university trained
folks, but without everybody with their skills and talents, the jigsaw, the
mosaic is not complete. Certainly at the law firm I worked at they knew this,
everybody was looked after, anybody who did not fit the bill would never get
through the interview process.
Carpenters
are gods, ask Harrison Ford, he was one before he hit the big time. Chefs now
they are gods too, and if you work in a 4star deluxe hotel you can to sample
their creation, then you realise just how true it is. They also carry knives,
lots of knives, so respect them, and did you know they live on biscuits and
never cook at home, as they spend a lifetime in the kitchen, and yes gas is
best.
Musicians
are gods too, having been influenced by Eric Clapton from the age of 10 the
power they have at their fingertips or with their voice is amazing. My claim to
fame is that I once almost carried Eric Clapton’s bag when he stayed at our
hotel. Only I went to the wrong end of his car, the boot was in the front. The
car was worth twice what my house is worth. So I smiled and said, sorry sir,
the wife drives a Skoda, but he did laugh.
So we all
need to remember that we all can do different things, though actors have to
learn to do many, but they are acting after all. Think about a film, and I have
yet to write a Hollywood Blockbuster, it could be a 20 year pregnancy though,
but I live in hope. After the writer
writes the film or the book upon which the film is based it takes 100s of
people to produce it.
Next time
you see a film, stop and watch the credits, count how many people it takes to
make a film. If it’s an action film there may be 50 stunt people alone, or if
its Jackie Chan just himself. The maths is interesting though, a film can be
relatively cheap, but the returns can be a factor of 10. So a 10m film could
make 100m, which 1000% return, which is better than the 2% which you’ll get on
your Isa. That’s why people invest in films, rich people gamble 100k each and
if it works they could get 1m back.
So as you
watch the credits look at all the different categories, the butcher the baker
and the undertaker is the name of my 1st book, just as that is a collection of
trades and callings so are all the folks who work on a film. So if I ever get
lucky, then one person, me, I could give work to a whole host of others, and
all because I balanced a typewriter on a stool as I shivered in my living room,
sat on an old barn chair with a broken back in front of the gas fire, as I
wrote The Butcher The Baker and The Undertaker. And best of all the writer gets
at least 5% of the initial budget.
I have
Children
03/09/2014
I have
Children ©
By Michael
Casey
I opened the
cupboard to get a cup, crackers tumbled out, followed by straws, multi-coloured
straws. I looked for a spoon only there were none. I went searching for spoons,
only to find them magnetised in a clump on my girls’ bedroom floor. Magnets are
very attractive to enquiring minds, so they had to be tested, just how many
spoons could one magnet hold. As for me and my tea, I’d have to use a finger to
stir it.
I retreated
with spoons galore, I hid the magnet under a bed, they’d never think of looking
for it there. A bit of toast would be nice, at least the knives were in the
right place. Now where was the jam? I looked high and low, and in the end I
gave up, only to find the empty jam jar in the bin, as I discarded my tea bag.
Children eat your favourite things first, you may as well have a gannet in the
house.
I’ll pop up
the road to get more milk and bread, I have to be careful nowadays with weight
of the shopping, too much sets my screaming and wincing. Relief comes at home
when I squeeze out the tube of Movelat pain killer. Where does the milk go to?
Its hot chocolate for my children, for my girls, and then there are Cheerios,
their favourite cereal, or rather the cheaper Aldi version. I swear we should
buy a cow, my cousin has a dairy herd, perhaps he should send one over from
Kerry. I do like milk myself, but I blame my girls, my thief like girls, they
drink all my milk.
I have
children, there is the cascade of scarfs and gloves when I go rooting for my
coat in the pantry under the stairs. Then there are slippers galore all over
the floor as I try and negotiate my way to the door. As I head for the shops
there is the shout for chocolate, why do children and girls especially love
chocolate so much. Forget the bread, just bring chocolate. Or in our house,
forget the rice, just bring chocolate.
I need the
bathroom, I have to fight my way through our galley kitchen, past one
obstruction, a wife with a cleaver and a wok. Only to discover 2 more in the
bathroom, 2 girls, why is it always 2 girls in the bathroom? Go pee in the
garden I am told, or use a clothes peg as a clamp adds my scientific wife. Just
as my bladder is about to explode I am allowed to use the bathroom, don’t pee
on the floor advises my wife as she brings down the cleaver, amputating a
fish’s head. I leave the bathroom, relieved, and them nagged for getting in the
way as the chef is at work.
I get to the
living room, I stumble over books and jumpers, I want to watch the news, only
Peppa Pig is on. If it was up to me Peppa Pig would be having her trotters
removed by the Chinese chef in the kitchen. Then I sit down in my spot, demanding my cushions be returned to support
my back, I have children, so they throw Looney Chick at me instead. Looney
Chick has been a great support since 2009 when he arrived in our house from
Shanghai, a back support.
My daughter
wants to be a vet so while I am eating she is watching a documentary, so I have
to avert my gaze otherwise I’d need a bucket to be sick into. I am laughed at
and shamed by my children, by my wife too. Three against one are the odds.
It’s a
school day, nine is bedtime, or rather the time you want them up the stairs,
out of the way, not watching Peppa Pig. So there is bedtime and preparing for
bed bedtime, which usually means by 9.30 or 9.45 they are finally out the way,
out the way of the tv.
I am alone
with the wife, now she wants to watch Chinese TV, I turn to Looney Chick and
start speaking French to him, occasionally Spanish. I can hear laughter from
the door to the stairs, my children are listening and spying. Go to bed I
command, but they need a drink so I have to relent, and give another kiss
goodnight. I have children, I have children.
Customer
Service for Beginners
By
michaelgcasey
Customer
Service for Beginners ©
By Michael
Casey
Before I
start I’ll ask you one question.
Why do we
need customer service?
Answer:
We need
customer service, GREAT customer service So that customers come back to us
again and again.
BAD Customer
Service means NO return customers.
Which in the
end means WE ARE ALL OUT OF A JOB looking after great grandpa at home.
So please
follow the ADVICE I’m sharing with you.
And
before you ask why should you listen to
me, the answer to that is I’m paying you
and I had
the highest praise ever for my customer service when I worked at my previous
job.
I had maybe
100,000 guests, I spoke to all of them.
Here’s the
Advice, please commit it to memory so you know it as well as your favourite
song.
1. Never say
NO.
2. If a
customer asks for black, and we don’t have it tell the customer what colours we
DO have.
3. Then we
don’t lose a sale
4. Saying NO turns customers away and they look
elsewhere.
5. So you
ALWAYS tell them ALTERNATIVES, they can be
Persuaded,
to make a PURCHASE, we have NOT lost a sale.
6. If you
cannot give an answer for any reason, then tell the customer YOU WILL FIND OUT,
Never say I don’t know.
7. Always be
polite, especially with difficult customers, NEVER eat and drink while on the
phone, they will think you are a PIG
8.
Professionalism counts, so be professional, have a tidy desk and KNOW where to
look on the computer, so you don’t APPEAR to be like a lost child.
9. Once you
have an order ALWAYS REPEAT BACK to the customer what they have just ordered.
Eg. So you
say:- shirt size 10, pants size 12, and the COLOURS they want too, and the
QUANTITIES.
Most
importantly their MAILING ADDRESS AND PHONE NUMBER
10. SO you
have the order and ALL the details, what do you say before ending the
CONVERSATION?
11. You say
THANK YOU FOR YOUR ORDER PLEASE SHOP WITH
US AGAIN.
Never bad
mouth customers as you hang up, because they WILL hear, and you should NEVER do
it anyway.
12. ONE
FINAL THING, BEFORE YOU HANG UP, Tell the customer we also have great offers
on, whatever items there are offers on. AND tell them next week, or next month
we will have more items. It would be EVEN BETTER if as you take their order you
REMIND the customers about matching items etc.
13. Customer
Service is all about giving the customer what they want, and if we don’t have
it we offer ALTERNATIVES.
14. We wear
makeup and nice clothes to attract a boy/girl , and we try and make her/him happy. OUR CUSTOMERS ARE
THAT GIRL/BOY.
15. If you
are GOOD the customer tells 4 friends and we get more SALES.
16.If you
are bad and lazy the customer tells 10 friends, and WE SUFFER and end up at
home looking after great grandpa
SO SMILE EVEN
WHEN ON THE PHONE AND ALWAYS GIVE GREAT CUSTOMER SERVICE, OFFER ALTERNATIVES
ALWAYS
Dolls’ House
©
By
Michael
Casey
Well the Vet
books arrived so we covered them in cling film, or rather sticky film to
protect them, so they would be protected while my 13 year old spends a few
years mulling over whether to become a Vet or not. The sticky stuff also
arrived in the post, as part of the preschool materials for my daughter.
I remember
maybe 40 years ago when my French teacher at grammar school got us all to cover
our text books in clear sticky back plastic. One of the class had done his book
in it and Mr Notzing noticed and decided it was a great idea, so he arrived one
day with squares all pre-cut ready for us all to cover our books. I mention
this because thanks to Mr Notzing I was good at French, a 20 question test
every week for 4 years had also helped. So God Bless Mr Notzing, he died when
he was about my age.
Now my small
daughter had begged for a dolls’ house for a long time, she had one already but
she wanted a bigger version. My brother had bought her the original dolls house
as a Christmas present a few years ago. Finally she was allowed a cream
coloured one, available from Sue Ryder via Amazon, and naturally made in China,
but she is ½ Chinese herself.
We watched
the post for it to arrive and then finally it did, my small daughter was
delighted. So I just looked at my watch and said she had to read for 2 hours
first and then do 15 minutes piano. She would be very good at piano but bored
of it, but now at this moment the dolls’ house had power, so I used it.
Then I had
to drag her away from the piano as I carried the heavy bundle upstairs to her
bedroom. It looked as if it was all covered in sticky clear plastic itself, but
it was no book, it was a dolls house. So we used a box cutter to get all the
wrapping off, then I laid out all the pieces like an undertaker laying out the
dead.
Front and
back, roof and floors and so forth, I got my small daughter to count all the
screws so we could know if we lost any. Then we began, I had guessed it would
take an hour and a half to do, only I forgot about my bad back and my Arthur,
my arthritis. So in the end it took 3 and a half hours. Some of the screws were so small and fiddly
so I could not fit them into place. So both my daughters did the small finger
parts.
The new Sue
Ryder dolls house was 4 times bigger than the original dolls house, and
actually 25% cheaper in price, made of wood and not plastic too. You have to use logic and spatial awareness,
to work it all out. I was trying to explain it to my daughters as I went along,
my big daughter did think about architecture as a career, before being a vet
roared into her mind.
So we did
the base and screwed the sides on, then we slotted in the 1st floor, we were on
a roll. The 2nd floor came easy, we tightened it into position. Soon the roof
would be on and the house was taking shape it looked so good already. Then we
realised the 2nd floor was on back to front, the pictograph was the evidence.
So we had to undo all the screws and rotate it before putting the screws back
into position.
Then we
placed the 2 sets of stairs into position, the thing was taking shape. So I
went downstairs to the fridge for a celebratory drink of cold blackcurrant and
a visit to the bathroom. The back roof went on next, followed by putting the 2
attics on the front roof. So everything was coming up roses, my small daughter
was getting happier and happier. As for my back and thighs, they were beginning
to hurt, scrambling around on a bedroom floor exacts its price, especially if
you have arthritis.
So we only
had the front to put on, with hinges, and the front roof with more hinges. This
is when things get tricky, the screws were tiny and my pork sausage fingers
were not tiny. So the hinges were the girls’ job to do. I just supervised, as I
went downstairs for another drink and to squeeze some painkilling gel on my
back and hips. Building a dolls house has a price to pay for dads with Arthur,
but a dad has to do what a dad has to do.
Then we
worked out how to put the double jointed roof hinges on, though to be honest
one was back to front so we had to redo it. Finally the roof was on, I would
have done a victory lap around the bedroom, only my Arthur would not let me.
The front had 4 hinges plus a magnet to close the front 2 pieces together. We
managed to do it, even when we discover we were missing a few screws. Luckily I
had a few spare in my stash of tools and screws. But we still lacked 2, my
small daughter said it did not matter, but I insisted. I found a long thin nail
and it was pressed into service, and with a few more blows of my hammer it was
turned into a screw. But we still lacked one screw, one screw was missing. So
we used a large drawing pin.
We closed
everything, we had done it, we now had a super dupper dolls house, in fact it
looks like one of the dream houses that I
look at on www.rightmove.co.uk If only I could win the Premium Bonds
then I’d move to such a house. We decided on one more thing, the hinges could
be helped if we added clear sticky back plastic to them and along the entire
edges of the opening parts.
We moved the
new dolls house into its final resting place, just in front of the girls’
wardrobe, which could now only open with one door. That did not matter, only
the doll’s house mattered. My daughter gave me a big hug, it had taken 3.5
hours. I went downstairs to lie on the settee, while my daughter filled her
doll’s house with all the Sylvanian family furniture.
We had done
it, I would of course extract a price for this new dolls house, more piano and
more reading. Though to be honest my small daughter does do loads of reading
already, but if I can redirect her back to the piano for 15 minutes a day then
that will be a victory for both of us. So we had a victory toast of fizzy
orange Fanta, and then I rubbed my pain killer on my Arthur.
FRIDAY, 22
AUGUST 2014
Shanghai
Pink
Shanghai
Pink ©
By
Michael
Casey
Well my
girls got home yesterday morning, a groaning taxi arrived with them and all
their treasure. I was standing on the doorstep as the black taxi tuned the
corner, perfect timing. I had been watching flightaware so I knew all the
details of their two flights from Shanghai, if you google it will tell you all
about Daniel Baker the founder.
It’s so much
easier if you fly from Birmingham, no waste of 3 hours going to Heathrow, and
more especially when you return tired from holiday. However you do have to take
a connecting flight, but at least you are not so tired when you get home.
Once home all
the cases are dumped in your clean home.
I did actually vacuum and tidy up before their arrival, before my 3 girls came
home to me. After 3 weeks, I needed too, I even did all the washing up too, and
put all the cups and plates away, and I washed the kitchen floor too. None of
this was noticed as my wife went online to tell her mum she had arrived safely,
not to mention catching up on all her messages. Sometimes I think she needs a
social secretary.
My small
daughter was triumphant, she had a souvenir for me in her hand. A lucky cat, a
fat cat on a red cushion with a bell around its neck, this now lives behind me,
on top of the bookcase next to the hifi.
My small daughter also gave me a tiny rubber in the shape of a tiny white lucky
cat. So I have 2 lucky cats now.
Next the
bags are opened and the contents spill everywhere, and everywhere really does
mean everywhere. They were allowed 69 kilos, so they brought back the full
allocation. Ma, as I call grannie in Shanghai, sends things she’s saved. Such as
2 old shirts of mine and 2 pairs of nonmatching socks, and one old pair of blue
underpants, all this saved for more than a decade, from my first ever visit to
China.
How and why
these were saved I cannot remember, it may have been part of the leave something
behind, which would mean I’d have to come back for my future bride. I did have
to leave the Eurythmics album 17 behind,
I still play it often. The album returned to me many years ago, but the shirts
and socks, and the blue pants must have been overlooked. The shirts would never
fit again as my chest size is 2 inches bigger and my neck is an inch bigger,
thanks to 3 years working in a hotel.
More
treasure spills over the floor and covers the 2 settees we have in the living
room, then the phone calls begin. My wife is very popular, so she has to catch
up on 3 weeks news, but she had not seen her mum for 5 years, so there was lots
of catching up to do.
Then slowly
slowly, like a tide too slowly retreating all the stuff is unloaded from the
suitcases and those plastic/canvas blue stripy bags that Chinese travellers use
on their travels. Next all the packaging is thrown to one side, luckily I
emptied the dustbins the day before. Where does all the stuff come from, ask
anybody with an international wife and they will say the same.
This takes a
period of hours, in between the phone calls, so the tide of unpacked suitcases
retreats, with pockets of wet sand here and there, or rather piles of clothes
balanced and slipping from the arms and backs of the twin sofas. Meanwhile twin
dustbins are filling with stuff. Grannie has send loads of stuff back to Birmingham, some of the stuff I don’t see
as I take refuge in the front room, my PC being my saviour.
We stop for
family pizza, my big daughter had decided to puke on the Shanghai to Paris
flight, so she was starving now, though the Paris to Birmingham flight was
nice. So my Shanghai/Birmingham family have pizza, it’s a change from 3 weeks
of total Chinese food.
The washing
machine is switched on and the first load is started, luckily I emptied the
washing machine 2 days ago, I anticipated this. 90 minutes later the first
surprise, a duvet set emerges, only its camouflage green, it’s what you’d use
to hide a tank with, have we got Putin’s luggage by mistake?
So I hang
out all the washing, ready for the next load. As I hang the camouflage green
duvet cover, with matching pillow slips and mattress cover on the line I laugh.
Ma, has sent this all this way, 5000 miles just in case we could use it. It’s
very Irish really, not just Chinese, my own mum would have done the same. I
hang out more washing only to discover that several items are now Shanghai
Pink, an old red jumper that my wife had 10 years ago has landed up in
Birmingham, mixed in with all the washing. So several items are now Shanghai
Pink.
The washing
was left out overnight, then early this morning I switched on the washing
machine ready for the day’s sun, and the second load. As least Shanghai Pink
would not be repeated. Then I went back to bed for another hour, I would rise
with the rising sun, and get our 2nd load done. We never use the tumble dryer,
radiators yes, as they are free, tumbler dryer no. My wife has developed an
English love of the Weather Forecast, sunshine is free too.
I rise and
discover my wife on the phone, so I hang out the 2nd load of washing, laughing
at Putin’s washing as I take it off the line ready for the next load. I hang
out another duvet set, Ma has sent this 5000 miles too. She did have her place
redecorated a year or so ago and so we are getting her caste offs, though it
turns out that the second duvet set was a new set, that was stuck at the back
of the wardrobe, for 10 years.
Then
Shanghai Pink reappears, where is the offending item this time? There are no
red jumpers in the pile, but there are 3 sets of long-johns, what looks like a
child’s long-johns, 3 tops and 3 pants. They are in fact the wife’s
long-johns. The Shanghai Pink is bigger
this time, my wife comes outside to laugh. Thanks to her long-johns she never
freezes in Winter, and always wonders why I’m cold, and tells me off for
putting the heating on.
The sun
shines and the 2nd load of washing blows in the wind, even if some of it is now Shanghai Pink in colour,
inside the house gradually the tide of clothes and suitcases disappears, at
least its only in one room now.
I remember I
have a can of lager in the fridge so I enjoy that, upstairs there is noise, my
wife has decided to have a tidy up. There’s no room in the wardrobes for the
new stuff, so old stuff is exiled to downstairs. Just as I thought the house
was tidy, the tide, the 2nd tide of the day takes over, this time old and
unloved clothes will be transported to the charity shop. But first they will
mount up in plastic bags behind me, it’s my job to carry them to the charity
shops.
Sadly 2 of
the charity shops close by have closed, so I have to walk farther away to
donate/ get rid of our old stuff. If you have daughters and they are under 16
they are still growing, so the amount of clothing that ends up in the charity
shop can be quite large. I do have one daughter who takes after me, and the
smaller daughter takes after my wife as far as build goes, which means more
trips to the charity shop for me.
I could go
on but I have to cook for the family now, so we are having pasta, Aldi pasta,
two packets full in one big saucepan. I switch on, make sure it doesn’t over
boil, and in 15 minutes I have fed the family. One thing is sure though, my
pasta won’t be Shanghai Pink.
I want to be
a Ghostwriter
15/08/2014
I want to be
a Ghostwriter ©
By Michael
Casey
I’ve decided
to be a Ghostwriter, it might be easier just to adopt a pen name but I think
I’ll go all the way, there has to be a first time for everything. I mean if I
am a ghostwriter nobody will know who I am. I can write horrible things about
the man in the chip shop, he never gives me enough chips. I can write about
that lolly pop lady who lets cars kill me, oh sorry love I did not see you. I
wear bright red and I have silver hair.
But that’s
more about the joys of having a pen name so you can be truly invisible, and
really dig the knife in, all those people you hate, that man at the bus stop,
or all those driver bastards on mobile phones while you cross at the zebra
crossings. Not to mention those who overtake a queue of stopped traffic at a
zebra which you are crossing, just so they can try and kill me. It’s happened
at least 5 times.
Well it’s
good to get that out of my system, though I would like to vaporise all those
bad drivers in the neighbourhood. I speak as a lifelong pedestrian and
non-driver. So what would ghost writing be like? Would you meet lots of
interesting people? I did when I was a concierge, would they have lots of good
stories to share? And I’d get paid to tell them, for a good fee of course.
How much
should you charge? £50 an hour and a minimum fee of £1000 up front, just to get
rid of time wasters. How would they communicate their stories to you? One idea
would be for them to record them then copy them to a usb stick which they’d
post to you, with a cheque. If you like the story then you agree to write it
for them. If you don’t then you keep the usb stick, and charge a £100 fee just
for evaluation costs. If you like it they have to pay the £1000 up front.
If you
google “fees for ghost writing” I’m sure you’ll get much higher costs. You can
also add on a 10% share of any book sale profits, plus if it’s optioned for a
film you can ask 25% of film rights. It’s your writing that made the story
interesting after all. So much for the theory, but did you know a film script
writer gets 5% of the film budget, and a profit share, or so much for the
theory.
As for the
writing, the ghost writing itself, it must be a story worth telling, you don’t
want to be some sort of glorified copy typist. When I was copy typing my novel
to have it on my computer, that was the most boring thing in the world, so
instead I rewrote it and it doubled in size, humour and pathos.
So assuming
you get a reply to your advert in the Daily Telegraph, it’s not really an
advert, you posted a comment in the comment section and hoped somebody noticed.
Then you make contact with somebody, or rather they contact you, and you sit
there listening to the usb stick story. Every other word is, “you know, or init
or erh, or I, I and I” people have to learn how to speak before they can learn
how to write. Though I could teach people to Speak as well, see I am doubly
gifted.
The trouble
is people “think” they can speak, and then they think they can write. The truth
is they cannot. To stand up and talk and hold and engage an audience does require
training. I learnt to do it properly back in 1998, and the writing took me 1
year of doing it, with 20 years of constant listening to BBC Radio 4 BEFORE I
picked up a pen.
I’ve gone
sideways, so back to the ghost writing. You get a usb stick and you play it on
your hifi, so it doesn’t get a chance of giving your computer a virus. You sit
there with a can of Stella Artois in your hand, as you listen. You hear the
accent and the tone, some accents are hard to understand, some just hurt your
ears, like chalk on a blackboard, though I’m probably the last generation that
knows about chalk and blackboards.
If the story
is good you’ll put down the can of Stella and listen harder, as you listen your
professional ear kicks in. When you watch a film, you enjoy the story and the
way it’s acted, and you spot the telegraphed items. At the start is superglue,
so that later in the story the superglue returns to save the day.
So the story
is good, you just need to take out the cursing, yes it’s needed and it’s the way
the story is, but less is more. Some kids think that saying %$£^ is clever, but
when repeated 1000 times its just BORING. Same goes for the sex, less is more,
if that’s a contradiction in terms. Jackie Collins is Jackie Collins or 50
Shades of Grey. So you listen and you see through to the heart and soul of the
story. The teller may not be able to write nor even talk, but the ingredients
make a very powerful story.
So you
finish listening, you may have another Stella Artois or their new Cidre, then
you sit in the chair thinking. Then you go to bed and sleep on it, literally.
In the morning you write for an hour or two. You read it back, you’ve taking
their story, their life and you’ve made it better, it’s a good piece of writing
now.
As I write
this I can remember once being asked did I ever write for others, I cannot
remember when, that could have been my ghost writing chance. I was asked by a
lawyer did I ever teach how to give a talk or was it writing. NOW today if
either of those people is reading this I’d like to try both, but they are gone
like ships in the night.
So back to
the ghost writing, then you have to ring up or email the teller and ask them
what they think of your writing. Have you make their life good, do you do
justice to their story, to their life. It’s at this moment you either get £100
for the evaluation, or they send you £1000. You never do a stroke more without
payment. I have a friend a translator in Shanghai who was fleeced for a
technical translation he had done. There are thieves out there, so trust
nobody, this is work, even if it is work you love, you must be paid. And in
advance.
Some people
can write about anything and anybody, axe murderers and junkies, who don’t use
trains but buses, all kinds of stuff. Or the life and times of the village
organist. It can be either end of the spectrum. As a ghost writer you could be
writing about anything, the guy interviewed on the BBC claimed he got 3 offers
a day. If he’s that lucky he can be choosey, very choosey, it said his books
have sold 10,000,000 copies.
How choosey
would you be, would you be like a bar, open long hours to everybody, for
everybody. Me, I wouldn’t be like that, I wouldn’t want to put up with an idea
or a person for 3 months while I wrote the story. It’s like shop staff they
have to put up with the likes of you and me, while they are working. Once
outside the shop they can cross over the road to avoid us. So a story is like a
uniform that you have to wear at work, you could really hate it. I had to wear
a pink tie while I was a concierge, I hated that tie.
You have to
either like or at least tolerate the story and the teller, while you are ghost
writing. Then once the work is done their name is on the front of the book, not
yours. If you are lucky you may get a tiny credit. That’s why you must have a
proper legal contract so that at least you get the money if not the praise for
all your hard work.
So I hope
all you would be ghost writers, and I include myself, have had food for thought
by reading this piece. And as I said before I am available to teach public
speaking and as a virgin ghost writer.
Ghostwriter
Available
14/08/2014
I just saw this guy being interviewed on “Meet
the Author” on the BBC, I forget his name,but he is a Ghost Writer after all.
So it got me thinking, perhaps that’s what I should be. People may like my
style but not the content, so perhaps I should just sell my style. I did
actually get a radio station, a hip and trendy one, say “we like your style but
not the content” Other Radio stations DO like my stuff, but getting a slot in a
format driven Radio World is very hard, but I do keep on trying.
As for the
Ghost Writer idea, if anybody out there wants to contact me then just send me
an email with “Ghost Writer” in the subject line. Now if you want examples of
my writing you can click on http://www.michaelgcasey.typepad.com and
there in actual fact you can hear me READ OUT 50 or so examples. If you
want to read more then just click
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Michael-Casey/e/B00571G0YC I have 8 books on Amazon. Just look for my
face.
I do have an
idea for a comic post about wanting to be a Ghost Writer, that’ll be called “I
want to be a Ghostwriter” So watch out for that.
p.s.I’m a
writer I’ll never call myself author
We are all
related in Paradise
10/08/2014
We are all
related in Paradise ©
By Michael
Casey
Summer is
the time for holidays, summer is also the time for delays. My wife and mother
in law and our 2 daughters were stuck in Osaka due to the Typoon. Now they are
about to land in Shanghai where they’ll finish their holiday. How China Eastern
Airlines looks after stranded passengers is another matter, I won’t dwell on
it, for now.
As for me
I’m home alone in Birmingham so I’ve been using the internet to track the storm
and to see how flights are affected. A few messages to the departure lounge and
their camp bed made up of seats. I suppose afterwards my daughters will think
it’s been a big adventure.
Back here in
Birmingham we were awaiting the leftover hurricane Bertha, Big Bertha. My sister
is planning to go to Chicago, so that’s to the West while my family is in the
East the Far East. How would my sister’s planned trip be affected by the left
over storm, she already had to wait a year for this trip.
Then I got
thinking about my mother, she used to keep a bottle of Holy Water behind the
side door, where the bread bin used to be, next to shoes and a row of coats
hanging up, this is 45 years ago now. So if the storm was too much and she was
afraid it would damage our roof she’d open the door up and sprinkle Holy Water,
commanding the weather to calm down. Yes, Faith of a Child, it was this which I
inherited when she died, because I needed it. And I never cried when she died
either. My dad, I cried like a puppy dog beaten with an iron bar.
So in
Paradise my mother is watching over us and sees the storm, Bertha is bearing
down on England, mum’s youngest child’s holiday plans could be delayed. She has
to get to Dublin first for the Chicago flight, the weather could delay her. So
imagine what my mum does, any mum would do.
Reaching
inside her smock, the blue one she always wore around the house, the smock she
was wearing the last time I saw her alive, mum brings out a ten gallon
container of Holy Water. Freshly filled that morning from the stream that runs
through the garden of Eden. Paradise is the garden of Eden, didn’t you all know
that. Mum drenches Bertha from on high and says, that’s enough, be still now.
As I speak Birmingham has sunshine.
Besides mum
a Chinaman appears and knocks her elbow, he apologises, my mum answers in
perfect Shanghai dialect. The Chinaman is impressed, how did she manage that?
He is speaking in a Kerry accent, a strong one at that. They both look
confused, then they smile. God does work in mysterious ways after all.
My daughter
is going to Chicago, my daughter is bringing my 2 granddaughters to Shanghai.
Mum looks down and smiles. They continue speaking, mum in Shanghai dialect and
the Chinaman in a very thick Kerry accent. The Chinaman reveals that his
daughter has a Birmingham husband. My mum says she lived in Birmingham. They
exchange pleasantries as mum magics up tea and Madeira cake, our Sunday treat
when we were small.
It’s then
that mum realised they are her granddaughters too, she jumps for joy, she never
ever saw them when she was alive, she died too early for it to happen. She has
2 granddaughters, her son got married and had 2 daughters. Why didn’t she know
that before? She reaches into her smock and produces 2 ten gallon containers of
Holy Water, together they pour them over the Typhoon over Japan.
My dad
appears, he’s had his bacon and eggs breakfast, mum shouts excitedly, we have 2
granddaughters, ½ Shanghai granddaughters. I know said dad, I held one in my
arms before I came to join you here in the Garden of Eden. Why didn’t you tell
me? I forgot.
Paradise is
a strange place, it’s like a bouncy castle for kids, everybody is so happy and
there is fizzy pop too, and Cadbury’s chocolate everywhere, Cadbury’s Crunchie
is everywhere, growing from the trees next to the apples.
So the
Chinaman calls all his relatives over, did they know they all have Irish
relatives. Mum calls over all the generations of the Kerry family, and did they
know they had Chinese family. Everybody is happy, the Chinese all speak with
really thick Kerry accents. All the Irish speak Shanghai dialect. Everybody is
happy, they have thousands of years of family stories to share. Mum pulls out a
20 gallon container, this time it’s Poteen, another type of holy water.
They all
look down, 2 storms have abated, so they can enjoy their drink. What do
Chinese/Irish family talk about? They talk about their grandchildren of course,
and best of all you can drink as much Poteen as you like and you don’t get
drunk, happy yes, drunk no.
Another day
in Paradise.
Autism The
World Needs All Kinds of Minds
06/08/2014
AUGUST 6TH,
2014 18:18
Autism The
World needs all kinds of minds
By
michaelgcasey
There was an
interview on the BBC 5 O’Clock news it was about Autism, the interviewee said
just google Temple Grandin
So I did and
I was very impressed and touched by the video. I’ll be googleing more now.
But for all
readers of this just click the link, it could change your life
http://www.ted.com/talks/temple_grandin_the_world_needs_all_kinds_of_minds
Absence
makes the heart grow fonder
04/08/2014
Absence
makes the Heart Grow Fonder ©
By Michael
Casey
I can
remember when my mum went back to Ireland for a trip in 1973, I really missed
her. She had really missed Ireland and had not been back in ages so she went
taking my two sisters and her own sister I seem to remember. The Jesuit priest
who married her was disappointed when they arrived to visit him in Killarney
and I was not with them.
I mention
this because my 3 girls are off on holiday right now, my wife has not seen her
mum for 5 years, so she’s saved up for the trip. Not being a
smoker/drinker/gambler does help save the pennies, and having a good travel
agent/bucket ticker seller also helps.
I’ve got
into the spirit of things by using this Yu Mincho font, it looks really nice, I
don’t know how it’ll look when I post this piece though. I’m turning Japanese I
really think so, or turning into Totoro in my small daughter’s case. She is mad
for all this Totoro, so today she bought a cushion in the shape of Totoro, yesterday
she had bought a small toy Totoro and today the cushion.
I may be
back here in Birmingham but I get a status report every afternoon UK time, or
night time Japan time. The wonders of technology means I can see my daughter
running around holding her new toy, her new joy, her new love. Now that she has
a Totoro cushion the little Totoro toy looks like its baby. So the obvious
question is, who out of the two stuffed toys she brought all the way from
England is the father. Is it Tony or is it Fudgy? If you remember the piece
Stuffing Tony then you’ll know what I’m talking about.
My wife got
a bargain a fancy dress for a knockdown price, the last one the market had, it
looks very posh like an evening dress maybe. Like a long skirt with a miniskirt
on top. You’ll have to ask your wives and daughters to explain, that’s the best
explanation I can come up with. I am not a Fashionista, just the token male and
English speaker in the home.
So then over
the Net I have to give a verdict on this dress, and do they match the shoes
too, see a husband has to work very hard if he has a Shanghai wife.
Then the
mother in law walks into shot and I say hello with my usual greeting in
Mandarin, I cannot write it here, but it’s the traditional greeting in our
Shnaghai/Birmingham family.
My other
daughter bounces across the screen, a big big smile on her face. The Japanese
spot cream really really works, so the trip to Japan has been worth it, just
for the spot cream. There is also the matter of the eyebrow clippers too, they
really really work. My daughter has been blessed with my eyebrows and derriere,
with the clippers she can improve on one aspect.
Her face she
cannot change, for me it’s like looking back in time and seeing my own face
looking back at me, though obviously she is a female version. For her though
the trip has been great. At the weekend they move to China and Shanghai and
chez grannie. So they are enjoying all the space in the hotel. Grannie has
never been to Japan before either, so 2 Shanghai girls and 2 ½ Shanghai girls
are eating everything in sight. Remember Chinese people love food.
So this is
how this home alone dad is not totally alone, I keep a fatherly eye on
proceedings with the help of technology. Having said that its now 5am in Japan,
they are fast asleep, me, I’m a bit peckish, so I make sneak out to the Chinese
takeaway.
When in Rome
do as the Romans do, or so they say.
SATURDAY, 2
AUGUST 2014
Exploding
Eggs and Broken Panda
Exploding
Eggs and a Broken Panda ©
By
Michael
Casey
As I said yesterday
I’m home alone while my girls go off to Shanghai to visit grannie, with a side
trip to Japan as well. And yes it’s so quiet here. So how is the home alone dad
coping? I’m fine, I’m perfect, it’s not as if I never looked after myself
before.
I had bought
some extra eggs as my wife believes in going to work on an egg. Then I noticed
the best before date, 6th August, or so I thought. I had 27 eggs in the fridge.
27 to 1, when normally it would be 27 to 4. So I improvised and boiled 7 of
them. I don’t eat eggs regularly myself, they come and go off my eat list.
Microwaved
eggs are a quick and easy meal for hungry daughters, if you can get them to
come downstairs from their “penthouse” suite upstairs. Just remember to stir
halfway through, and don’t overcook or
like a soufflé they can burst. While the microwave is cooking you can get the
toast done, as I tell my daughters cooking is all about finishing at the same
time.
So yesterday
while they were at Birmingham airport I was hard boiling my 7 eggs. By the time
they got to Amsterdam for their connection to Japan I had started on my
breakfast of hard boiled eggs in garlic wrap. My daughter popped up on the
computer screen, zooming in on her 13 year old spots. Then she asked me, what
was I eating? So I showed her my breakfast and she said I was disgusting. All
of you with 13 year old daughters will understand, the rest of you will just
have to wait for your own girls to get bigger.
And then
they were gone. So I finished my breakfast in peace. I still had 3 eggs for
today. This morning I shelled the last eggs and put them in the microwave, I
even put a plate on top to cover the bowl of eggs, see I’m domesticated. But
not domesticated enough, the eggs exploded and blew the lid off the bowl and
scattered egg everywhere.
I laughed
and started to clean the inside of the microwave out, as we have a galley
kitchen I leaned on the sink as I cleaned the microwave out. Only this was a
mistake, I leant on the plastic cutlery drainer thing. This sent our Panda
flying through the air and onto the floor, the Panda was dead. No not a real
panda, but a panda mug, the one I usually use to make scrambled eggs in. So
exploding eggs and broken panda.
So much for
my intended breakfast, so I had toast and Aldi marmalade instead, and 2 cups of
tea. As I ate this, up popped my family, and grannie too, in Osaka at a
banquet. My wife’s friend had driven them to the mountains near Kobe and his
house. While I had toast, 3 slices, they were having 5 star Japanese/Chinese
food. Even the dog, a beautiful Labrador had better food than me. How did I
know, they showed me it online. Daughters can be cruel sometimes.
They are 8
hours in front of us there, so while I had my toast my wife had a banquet, she
and my 2 daughters and Shanghai grannie who’d popped over to enjoy the fun.
They’ve finished teasing me with food now, so they are returning to the hotel,
it’s an hour’s drive away.
15 friends
and family, one banquet in Osaka/Kobe, dog included, while I have toast in
Birmingham. So thank you very much, no seriously, thank you for the most kind
hospitality. One bizarre thing though, some of the teenage female guests
think that I am “cool” and good looking,
it must be the breadcrumbs covering my face.
FRIDAY, 1
AUGUST 2014
For Bankers
in Japan
AUGUST 1ST,
2014 18:06
For Bankers
in Japan
By
michaelgcasey
Did you know
that in Japan they don’t take DEBIT CARDS, they prefer Credit Cards. Not a lot
of people know that, as Michael Caine would say.
So if you
are fiscally good, they think you are bad, and will refuse payment from a DEBIT
card, they will direct you to the post office where you will get cash from a
machine, which is then accepted.
How do I
know this? My wife and 2 daughters are on there way there as I speak, so I’m
Home Alone, just me and Arthur my arthritis. Just squirted Movelat on my pains.
So BEWARE bring something else.
We
discovered this 48 hours before the trip, we were SO HAPPY NOT . Luckily my
wife could parachute into the middle of the Pacific and within 5 minutes 2 or 3
nuclear submarines would surface. USA, USSR and it feels like USSR once more,
plus CHINA and all three would offer dinner, just as James Bond would pass by
on a speed boat. She’s very networked, I think her name may really mean lucky.
SO JUST
BEWARE, DEBIT NOT LIKED IN JAPAN.
My daughters
told me on route that they felt so tall next to the average Japanese, my 13
year old said she was a giant in comparison, though she is 5’4″ now.. My small
daughter has brought loom bands with her for the journey. She refused to
continue learning piano, though big sister will soon reach Grade 2, she was
thinking of the Saxophone, copying Bart Simpson no doubt. Would this be a good
instrument for a 10 year old? I did say she’d have to practice in the entry. So
any musical people out there please leave a comment. You can only imagine the
Chinese Mum reaction to dropping the piano. So I’ll finish there for today.
Can I help
you, Sir?
Can I help
you, Sir? ©
By
Michael
Casey
So you have
a problem so you fill in a contact form or send an email, it’s easy, its simple
isn’t it? You just write everything down you even put it in order, in bullet
points, so you’ll get a helpful answer immediately.
Only
Customer Service never reads your email, they just repeat what you told them
already. You are told to do XYZ, then everything will be ok, but you told them
already, you’ve put it all in your email
or on the contact form, you’ve put it down for a 5 year old, you’ve done XYZ
already.
Only a 5
year old would have understood, you did XYZ already, their system does not
work, they need to change the system. But the system never fails, it’s
impossible, it’s the height of technology. Which is where the system fails,
because they won’t even believe that their system can be improved.
So you have
a series of emails back and forth, until they hope you will give up. And have a
nice day too, they always say. American companies always say “have a nice day”,
don’t they realise over here in England we think this is corny, worse that
corny its meaningless because the people don’t mean it. How can you have a nice
day anyway, their system does not work. I could segway into the Parrot Sketch
from Monty Python…..
I was
talking to somebody recently and guess what he had the same thing, in the end
he had to email the CEO to get his simple issue sorted. I’ve done it a few
times myself, don’t waste your time with the organ grinder’s monkey, talk to
the organ grinder himself, though I may need to explain this for any American
readers.
I should
remind anybody who works in customer service that I did work in a 4 star
deluxe business hotel for 3 years, so I
do know how it should be done. The thing
you do is get a result for the customer, if you haven’t done that, then you
haven’t done your job.
However you
can be honest and say you will get somebody to help who really can do it. So
long as the customer gets a result then you have done your job.
It’s too hot
to write any more, bad customer service just saps your strength, like the heat,
though sometimes it is tempting to throw a bucket of cold water over them.
Maybe there is an App that can do it.
this is my
hotel look CPNEC 2002 to 2005
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MONDAY, 21
JULY 2014
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FRIDAY, 18
JULY 2014
The Dead and
The Living
The Dead and
The Living (c)
by
Michael
Casey
I first saw
a deceased when I was nine years old ,my father said not
to worry as
the dead are the same as the living , only the laughter
has left
them , the sparkle has gone from their eyes , the worry has
been lifted
from their shoulders , and their voice has vanished to
eternity .
In paradise
the sparkle will return for it is the twinkle of the
stars , the
laughter will return too for it is the morning breeze and
the turning
tides are their sides shaking with laughter .
I treat the
deceased with the same courtesy as I give to the living ,
though I
find the deceased are always more polite . My father also
had a few
words to say about the living .
He said that
the living are only the caretakers of the soul , yet
they think
their existence is everything , that they know everything
because they
experience many things with their senses .
What the
living don't acknowledge is that their time is short and
when I lay
their bodies to rest then their souls continue without
them ,
without their strong , without their weak , without their
beautiful or
even ugly temporary form , to where I cannot say , only
that it is a
better place .
Percy the
undertaker placed the lid on the coffin ,the soul was free
THE
BEGINNING
POSTED BY
MICHAELGCASEY AT 12:31 NO COMMENTS:
WEDNESDAY,
16 JULY 2014
180 and
Counting
180 AND
COUNTING
By
michaelgcasey
I decided to
do more recording today. I’ve recorded another 10 of my stories. So I have 180
recordings now. I have 530 stories in total so that’s another 350 to record,
I'm a third of the way through. Though I’m still writing new material all the
time. Some i’ll have to rerecord but I have enough to impress any radio station
should I get past their gatekeeper.
Perhaps I’ll
be discovered at 55, and finally get my slot on the radio, I could be a
feature, like something in a garden. Though buried under the patio is more likely.
www.michaelgcasey.typepad.com has 50 or so samples, so tell all your friends. Or
force your children and grandchildren to listen. If you are at Eton it could be
some kind of punishment, very harrowing punishment
my
pretentious writer's pose
I am
available for after dinner speaking
POSTED BY
MICHAELGCASEY AT 05:47 NO COMMENTS:
TUESDAY, 15
JULY 2014
Can I be a Minister?
Can I be a
Minister ? ©
By
Michael
Casey
I’ve just
being enjoying the news about Cameron’s new Cabinet, I am a news geek, I can
remember watching Sir Robin Day on tv, me and
my dad together nearly 50 years ago now. Perhaps I should have done PPE
at Cambridge, then I could try for a
Cabinet post.
White male
and over 50, would that get me a post in Cabinet? I heard they want more
females in the Government, to try and entice voters to vote Tory in the next
election. I could always wear a dress and shave my legs, arms, and back and all
other places too. I would make a better woman than Danny la Rue, I would have
to shave twice a day though, those BBC
news studio lights are so unforgiving. Eddie Izzard could give me fashion tips,
I know he is a Labour man/woman but us transvestites should stick together.
What
qualities can I bring to Cabinet? I have a posh Brummie accent, I look
distinguished or is it extinguished with my mane of silver hair, I’m not slim
so that makes me normal. Voters would like me, a Brummie version of Tom Jones,
but without the singing voice and wearing long-johns, poking out from the
bottom of my trousers.
I watch Sky
tv too, so that makes me a man of the people, I don’t know anything about sport
as I cannot afford the Sky sports channels, but I can always glance at the back
page of the Sun and pretend. I do know about films as we watch loads of them,
me and my 3 girls, though we cannot afford Sky movies package either, though
there are 10 free film channels if you like.
I go to
church or should I say Mass on Sundays, but I can lie and say I’m C of E then
I’m sure I’ll win votes. Though if I was really pretending to be a man of the
people I’d say I use Sunday to sober up after lots of drinking on a Saturday
night, me and my friend Nigel, I cannot remember his surname but it begins with
an F and sounds French, rhymes with garage. I will of course say that I hate
the French too, doesn’t everybody?
I won’t tell
anybody I have a place in the south of France, and one in Italy too, I’ll say I
go on package holidays to Benidorm, me and my friend Ed and his friend Ed who
talks a lot of b_.
So please
Dave, and everybody will be told to call you Dave again, up until the Election
again, please Dave can I be a minister now. I promise not to steal your wife’s
lipstick again, nor steal her stockings when I was pretending to use the loo.
Its time you
had a Brummie transvestite, ex rugby play, yes I really was, 40 years ago, a
transvestite would really swing it for you, swing it both ways all the way into
the Tory camp. Think of the adulation, think of really being a Tory PM, without
those Liberal losers cramping your style, just do one thing for me though,
don’t leave the toilet seat up any more.
p.s.I could
tell everybody I have Arthur, my arthritis then we'd get all the Express
readers on our side too.
THURSDAY, 10
JULY 2014
Needle and
Song
Needle and
Song ©
By
Michael
Casey
Today was a
big day, a busy day, we all had lots to do. My small daughter had a day off as
the Nutters were on strike, the Nutters was the title the union was given back
in the 60s, so I’m remembering my own school days, just in case any striking
teachers think I’m being offensive.
My big
daughter was singing in her Gospel choir, she may or may not have been let out
early, not for good behaviour, but because of potential strikes at her
secondary school. The Show would go on come what may, they had a tent all
rigged up for the show.
My wife was
busy with her new job, as for me I had to have a needle up my bum, well not
quite there but near enough. As you know I’ve got Arthur, my arthritis, which
has decided to spread elsewhere, mainly my right leg. So I needed a pain relief
injection. I was due to have it on Monday but there was a mix up, so today
Thursday was the big day.
The mix up
was partly due to the fact that our answer machine was not working, but the
silver lining was that I dropped into Asda and bought mint chocolate ice cream.
My big daughter had been off on Monday as the staff had a training day or
something. So I came home still in pain but with the ice cream. I also got a
baguette, which tasted fantastic, I think Henry only invaded France for the
baguettes.
So today
Thursday arrived and everything was planned. I would take my small daughter
with me to the hospital orthopaedic outpatients, with a knapsack on her back.
When I had my left hip done nearly a
year ago the injection and so on took a few hours, so I assumed, wrongly as it
was that my daughter would be hanging around. So in the knapsack was a drink, a
bowl of freshly cut and chopped melon, a polish ham sandwich, and 2 packets of
baked chedders, the Aldi version. And I forgot a fresh book by Jacqueline
Wilson.
At Dudley
Rd, though they like to call it City Hospital nowadays, you go up an escalator
to the 1st floor, then they must have run out of money, because you then have
to use the stairs to get to the 2nd floor. The guy on reception had a watch
very similar to mine, so good or is it bad taste is not just confined to me.
I met a
really nice lady in the waiting area, she works at a disability centre in
Coleshill, so God Bless her and more power to her elbow, looking after
people with disabilities.
I was able
to take my daughter with me when it was my turn, she sat outside reading while the physio gave me the talk and
then did an examination. Examination means twisting your leg until it hurts, I
did quip about torture, but they have to know the state of your pain so they
can then inject you.
They have a
feel until you winch and then they know that is exactly the spot. It’s a bit
like the old place the ball competitions, though there is no hissing sound as
the air goes out of the invisible ball. Instead where you wince is where the
needle goes in.
Now before I
had my pain relief injection, we rung home to see how big daughter was doing,
only the answer machine did not kick in.
I was pleased that this time with this leg it was a very quick
procedure, I had assumed they’d be injecting straight into the hip, this time
it was just very high up the leg. No x-ray machine and nurses with lead
blouses, no local anaesthetic, no ride in a trolley, just jump on the bed.
Perhaps I
should have been a boy scout, be prepared and so on, so we got the bus home,
the return fares were £6.75 which is a lot of money, you can buy 4 packets of
Aldi crispy chicken and a bottle of pop for that. So I gave the ticket away to
a lady on the bus, at least somebody could get more value from it.
We got home
and decided to check out our answer machine again, this time sat in front of
it. The answer machine was dead, though the fancy white phone worked. The phone
had been making some “farting” noises for a few weeks and we couldn’t quite
work out what was wrong. I’d be sat here talking to you all while the phone
farted on the shelf behind me and the piano.
So big
daughter came home, she hadn’t been let out early after all, we had ½ hoped
she’d come home early then her little sister wouldn’t have had to go trekking after me. We even texted her a
couple of times and made one call to her mobile, for if she had come home early
it would have coincided with my departure time. Only there was a problem with
all that, big sister never has any credit on her phone.
So in an
hour big sister was turned around, fed and watered and changed into her street
cred clothes in black, all ready for the Gospel Choir. As for me and small
sister, we went up the road looking for a phone. I had found a cheap nice one
and even reserved it. Only when I got to the shop they couldn’t find the
reservation. So I picked it out again, only it was not in stock, hey Argos your
system failed there.
Anyway I
picked another one, even cheaper, and gave my daughter the change. So a good
day all around. Then it was off to Pound Land for Loom Bands, these are the
biggest thing in kids toys at the moment. We also got batteries for the fire in
the doll’s house, every member of the Casey family big and small was looked
after.
Once home we
plugged in the new phone in, they are only as big as mobiles, hey presto our
house was P O S H. Then you play with the sounds, which is the nicest, there
was only 5 on this model, I have 20 on my cheap mobile, the one under my bed
which I use as a radio, the one whose number I don’t even know.
Mum came
home, so the wok came out, we had an hour to turn her around and send her to
pick up big sister at the school. As for me, I showed her my bum, or rather my
thigh, so she could see where I was injected. I moved away before she could
poke me with the chopsticks. So I did something useful, I bagged the old phone
and left it outside for sky burial. Within the hour the phone was gone,
somebody would have a nice new white 10 year old second hand phone, without
answerphone.
Now once mum
and little sister left to pick up big sister I had time to play with the phone,
I liked the sounds and was happy, all my girls liked it too. So it was a good
buy. Remember if you live with 3 girls everything is questioned.
Now big
daughter sings in the choir on Sunday, with her little sister as well. Me and
my brothers were altar boys, I even read the reading for 5 years plus, a sister
is in the same choir for 46 years. Big daughter also has piano lessons, she’s
even won a Deans Award. So why am I mentioning this?
Because big
daughter wants to sing a solo, she’s not a pushy girl she’s not one of these
over confident pain in the butt kind of girls. She’ll get 90% plus in various
subjects but never boast about it, that’s the way we like it. Humility is
Strength if you like.
BUT IF YOU
WANT TO SING A SOLO YOU HAVE TO MAKE NOISE, TELL THE WORLD, DON’T BE A MOUSE.
Will she do that? If she does I’ll let you all know. I remember once showing a
poem to somebody and the reaction is “YOU WROTE THAT?!” So I can tell her that
Life is not Just, you may be the best singer and performer but unless you stand
up for yourself then it won’t happen. So, dear daughter be pushy or forget
about it.
The same
goes for writing, 50 Shades of Grey has sold 30 million now, how many copies of
300 and Not OUT, or Quick Stories to name but 2 of my books. Life is strange,
encouraging my neighbour said “maybe you’ll be famous when you are dead”, I am
trying my best to stay alive despite my weaknesses.
As for the
writing, that keeps on coming, if ever the Arthur, my arthritis prevents me
typing then I’d cry, but then I’d get new technology, speak and type software.
The night
did finish with laughter, my wife waited for 30 mins but the concert did not
finish. So she went and complained to a black lady, “can you tell my daughter
I’m here” A small Chinese lady asking for her daughter, her non solo singing
daughter in a Gospel choir.
Only there
are no Chinese girls in the choir, our daughter looks totally Western, apart
from the great hair, or if you look really closely into her eyes. So the black
lady was surprised that our daughter had a Chinese mum, an irritated mum, who
had been kept waiting.
Melon was on
offer once big daughter came home, though dad had to be persuaded to go around
the corner for chips, my Chinese girls do like chips, it’s a treat, it makes a
change from rice and chicken. So we ate the chips as an act of solidarity with
our non-solo singing daughter.
As we ate
the chips I started singing just like
Topol, “if I were a rich man, you could sing solo in a Gospel choir.”
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MONDAY, 7
JULY 2014
Politics
Politics ©
By
Michael
Casey
I was
reading Dan Hodges in the Daily Telegraph and 2 things struck me, the passion
he has for his subject and how he is an interesting writer. I have to declare
an interest, I am a news junkie. I only found out today that he was Glenda
Jackson’s son, his dad I couldn’t really find anything about, I only did a
quick Google. I am saddened how he lost an eye, but this proves his passion and
belief.
Politicians
are those toy windmills we give to our kids, they blow this way and that in the
wind. I wouldn’t want to be one. I also read about Obama, now the worst
President ever, according to polls. I do think there was a bit of latent racism
against him, but the piece I read today comparing Obama to a movie trailer that
did not live up to expectations IS true. Which is sad as everybody was wishing
him on.
Politicians
offer Hope, but reality is a nasty thing, it does bite you on the bum. Obama
did get one of the c****est watches too, I don’t mean the Jorg Gray which the
Secret Service bought him, I have one myself, no I mean the world situation has
been dire. The silver lining may be that
after his Presidency he may do good work. I’ll let the experts argue over that,
I’ll just start the fire, you can all add your own petrol.
Back over
here, we have “stars” of our own, you don’t have to like them personally but
you can applaud their work. I have a few names on all sides I could praise, but
I don’t want to be tarred with the brush of being this or that. I could also
praise a few reporters who I love because they treat Politicians with the
“contempt”, that’s too strong a word. They put the politicians in the gutter
with the rest of us, then let’s look at the stars together. And yes I was a Paxman fan.
Now that
Tony Benn is gone I can say I have learnt one thing from him, drink lots of
tea, it’s good for you. He lived to a ripe old age and that’s one thing I’d
like to emulate. The hecklers are a feature of the Houses of Parliament, a good
heckler is a great thing. Though sometime the Speaker might wish he had a
Heckler and Koch, to keep order with, metaphorically speaking.
I can also
say I like the notion of hand written notes on fancy stationery just to say
“thanks” or offer condolences.Though in today’s world an email or a voicemail
is good too. They do have plenty of bars in Parliament, which is good as a pint
is always nice after a hard day at work. My dad worked in a steel works for 40
years so he enjoyed a refreshing pint.
I like the
idea of the Speaker living under Big Ben too, he won’t need an alarm clock
either, his kids must love it too. You can really name drop when you are on
holiday, I live under Big Ben. A Rolex or an Omega, or a Seconda, no I have Big
Ben, the real thing.
Bob Hope was
once asked would he run for President, he said he couldn’t stand the drop in
salary. As for me, tomorrow is Tuesday, that’s when I give Obama his bowling
lesson, ever Tuesday, just me and him, and oh I forgot 150 Secret Service.
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SATURDAY, 5
JULY 2014
In the Nick
of Time
In the Nick
of Time (c)
By
Michael
Casey
You save a
life in the nick of time, my brother did it twice. I was trying to swim at
Monument Rd swimming baths, when you start you need a push off from the side
then you can swim. So I decided to try jumping in and then seeing if I could
swim without a push off from the side. It did not work and I started to sink
beneath the waves, or rather the water in the pool. My brother saw me and
jumped in and pulled me to the side. Would I have drownd? I'm just glad my
brother was there.
Thirty years
later my brother was in the right place at the wrong time, he gave CPR to our
dad and saved him. This way 8 bare weeks after
when he gave CPR to mum but she was already dead/dying. That act saved
dad and led to me getting a wife and family, its all in Padre Pio and Me. So I
know from experience just what "In the nick of time" really means.
Today
somebody wants to connect via a website, just as I'm leaving that website, too
many scammers, I think I'm being targeted. So he could be a genuine connection
that could lead to all kinds of everything, if I quote Dana., but I've just
left.
I remember
Fiona once saying you don't know what's around the corner, Julie Dangly also
said that to me, Dangly was her comedy name, she really was wise and good
beyond her years. I haven't seen either of them in 15 years, Life moves on and
doors close and revolve. So events in Life happen and can change our very
lives, and hearts. I was watching
Fame, the
2009 weak version on tv last night with my daughter. One life was saved in the nick of time, then
the dancer realises he has to start again, he'll just be a dance teacher, never
on the Broadway Stage, but he'll be the best dance teacher he can possibly be
back home at his parents dance studio.
In the nick
of time we can realise this or that is the wrong decision, she's the wrong
girl, he's the wrong boy, straight or gay or any other combination. Life, a
stranger's comments, an overheard comment, can make us realise this is the
wrong path, we may not yet know what is the right path, but this is the wrong
path. Somebody once said to me that she thought short stories or poetry was the
thing for me. That was 25 years ago and more, she happened to be a female
priest I'd stumbled over, I tend to stumble into things, Mark H once said
"you're a good stumbler."
Another way
of viewing "stumbling" is its guidance from the aether or the Fates
or God, if you believe in any of that, most don't nowadays. The old film
Sliding Doors covers this topic, I've not seen the film yet. It could be our
6th sense that stops us from doing things. We sense somebody is looking at us,
so we look over the road or up to a window, are these messages from "inner
space" ? We're lost in a changing world, Genesis just sung that line on my
speakers, so I won't take credit for it.
Its our
primitive past that still connects to our technological present, technology
doesn't have all the answers, though Google tries its best. The wiring in our
heads and between us all will always be better than Google, because it is the
beat of time in our inner minds.
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MICHAELGCASEY AT 07:04 NO COMMENTS:
FRIDAY, 4
JULY 2014
Just add
Water
Just add
Water ©
By Michael
Casey
I was
walking up the road to Aldi, wondering how many yards I’d do before I’d start
to limp, I have another Arthritis pain relief injection on Monday. Anyway a
truck came sailing down the road with a portaloo strapped to the back, it made
me smile. Imagine there was somebody inside doing his business, perhaps it’s a
ring and poo service, like the ring and ride bus service. Or it’s an on demand service, just put your hand out
and spend a penny.
In the old
days it was a penny, a big old copper penny bigger and thinner than the current
2p, if you excuse the pun. My mum was on holiday and needed a penny to pee, so she
was asking for change, so a man gave her a penny, it had Boodica on it I seem
to remember, anyway he gave mum a penny and said “have one on me.” That must be
45 years ago now.
The title of
today’s piece or perhaps I should say pi**, if we go with the theme, is because
I was thinking about how stories are dreampt up. As I said 20 minutes ago I was
on my way to Aldi and I saw the portaloo. Now I see the potential humour
straight away, I hope everybody does, it’s just that I see things differently
and not because of weak kidneys either. It’s because of my Writer’s Eye.
So that
means I improvise when I see things, my daughter says already that I’m great at
improvising in general, I did work in a hotel for 3 years and 20 plus years in
computer rooms. So you see a situation, and then you just add inspiration,
hence the water in the title. You are putting rubbish in your recycle bin and
you break up a cardboard box so you can fit more in, then you think this piece
of rubbish would work as a doorstop.
Most people
just throw all their rubbish in, with recycling before recycling, but if you
have young kids in your house you have loads of rubbish so you really do have
to squeeze all your rubbish in. No, I don’t climb in and stamp on in all, with
my weight the thing would break, though it would present my wife with great
opportunities to sit on top and trap me inside.
A child’s
imagination is a great thing, especially if they have a dolls’ house, I know my
smallest daughter often climbs into the dolls’ house, I should show her the
film “Honey I Shrunk the Kids” she’d love it. Simple things please a child, but
they also present opportunities for comedy too.
There is the
telegraphed joke, which Americans like the best and there is the more elaborate
joke. Life presents things to us, it doesn’t take much to turn them into
humour. Today the Queen launched a new boat, the dignitary said to her, while
still on mike “such a small bottle of Whisky on such a big ship.”
As for Alec
Salmond, he had tears in his eyes, such a great waste of a bottle of whisky, if
it were champagne he would not have minded. Ok Alec, that’s a joke as seen
through a humour writer’s eyes here in Birmingham, but, if you do read this my
priest loves a wee dram it takes the mind off his aches & pains. I do have
another friend who loves golf, any chance you can get him a free round at Saint
Andrews?
These are
just simple quick examples from today 4th July 2014. I have to do the school run now, my 10 year old daughter
is waiting for me. Thank God, I hear you
all say, sometimes I think I’m talking to myself, but I do want to be on the
radio, so then that would be true.
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WEDNESDAY, 2
JULY 2014
Try a Free
Trial
Try A Free
Trial ©
By Michael
Casey
I’m trying
to get noticed as a writer as you all know, I have a website and I regularly
post, in the vain hope of finally getting noticed. I even had a low budget film
producer say he’d put my Pitch to his backers. Sadly nothing came of it.
There is
Mandy.com which has all kinds of everything on it, that’s how I stumbled over
the film producer, a year ago. So you can all try that. There are job agencies
too, for Media with a capital M. I got an invite today to try one, a week’s
free trial, but you have to enter your bank details first.
So I just
sent him my Linkedin Profile and CV piece as well as my elevator ad, 90 seconds with Michael, cartoons for radio.
I hope it amuses him, perhaps he’ll post it on his site for a week, and then
I’ll finally get noticed and start making a living from writing. Ok, I can hear
you laughing at the back, stop it or I’ll tell your mother.
You can even
get a free trial of Jonathon Cainer the horoscope guy, I don’t begrudge him a
penny he does have a large family to bring up single-handedly. I was at Mass on
Sunday and there was a family with 5 children just like Jonathon, at Mass they
were all under 9 years old. It made me smile I was from a family of 15 if you
include the lodgers and the cat and dog.
Free trials
are great if they really are free, like the samples you get at Costco or
Sainsbury’s but that’s food. You could always bring your family along and be
like gannets enjoying the biscuits or sliced ham or whatever it may be. Move
from shop to shop till you have fed the kids. Though some steal the produce
from the dustbins behind the big store, we’ve all seen it happen.
Broadband is
the biggest free trial we all get offered, Virgin was cabled our street so you
get big red envelopes offering all the deals. Or so you used to, people just
threw them in the recycling bin. So Virgin got clever and posted them in big
white envelopes, so people would at least open them. This kind of marketing is
3% effective so I was told in my market research days. So now the envelopes are
opened, and then thrown in the recycle bin.
BT itself
also has direct mail offers, free offers, to you John Doe and your sister Jane.
Thanks to computers the same letter can be tailored to fit all kinds of names.
Special offers just for you, only you in your street, just you and not even
your next door neighbour. My neighbour just updated her broadband, we’ll
discuss it over the garden fence when I bring the washing in. Anyways broadband
IS an essential service. The Government thinks so, because they can tax whatever
business is generated.
Free trials
of films straight down your internet connection, free trials of Times Newspaper
straight down your internet. I did ask could Rupert give me a column in one of
his papers, I have a back list well over 520 shorts. Then you’d all get me as
well as the Times. He hasn’t replied yet, but I’ve been waiting all my life,
maybe when he reaches 100, then he’ll give in, 18 years to go then.
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MICHAELGCASEY AT 05:25 NO COMMENTS:
THURSDAY, 26
JUNE 2014
PPI and all that
PPI and all
that ©
By Michael
Casey
I’ve just
had yet another nuisance call, it starts with silence, as the caller is busy
chewing gum as he calls you, or looking at the sports pages. I’ve already
judged him, zero for customer service and 10/10 for chewing gum. I worked at
Front of House in a 4 star deluxe hotel, so I was trained exactly how to do
things. Chewing gum was not on the to do list, quite the reverse.
It’s always
best to listen and not speak after you pick up the phone, if you speak the automated
PPI kicks in, and then you are trapped. It does say on the recording that if
you press this number you will NEVER get any more calls, but this is just a
LIE.
So I’m weary
and wary of phone calls, it’s not as if we are in the phone book. If ever you
do an online competition they say they will not share your phone number, but
I’m dubious.
So you
answer the phone and ask who is calling, but they won’t tell you, are you
Michael Casey they ask, but if you ask them who they are it’s a State Secret.
So you ask them a 2nd time, and they ask you if you are Michael Casey, again.
So you say you’ve asked THEM who they are twice, but they just say they have
asked you who you are twice defiantly. So I hang up. They don’t hang up because
they have to PRETEND, they are making a call, from their call centre, so the
boss thinks they are so good annoying
potential customers with the benefit of double glazing in Summer.
A friend
once said he put somebody on hold for 15minutes, and only then did the nuisance
caller hang up. My wife says I should never answer the phone until the answer
machine starts, then the automated calls are screened out. Should I miss her
call telling me to hang out the washing or put the rubbish out, now that would
be another matter entirely.
Perhaps I
should never enter any competitions, then our ex-directory number would not be
circulated to people who promise never to share it, that’s a Politician’s
promise. Though I should thank the man with the Manchester accent, or up North
accent, at least he gave me the idea for this piece.
One of my
ideas IS to teach Customer Service by using my play Shoplife, by standing it on
its head. Never do what the characters in the play do. All the cold calling
does at least give me as many ideas as annoyance, so its balance as my Shanghai
wife calls it. Though I’d love for the cold callers to catch a cold, and then
they wouldn’t be annoying me.
Ring, ring
the phone is ringing, I better answer that, no on 2nd thoughts I’ll leave the
answer machine enjoy it.
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MICHAELGCASEY AT 04:48 NO COMMENTS:
SUNDAY, 22
JUNE 2014
The Trouble
with food
The Trouble
With Food ©
By Michael
Casey
The trouble
with food is that we all eat it, if we didn’t eat it there would be no problem,
but we’d all starve, so we eat it. In our house we have East meets West
cuisine, Birmingham to Shanghai food. As you know my wife is a Shanghai girl,
so our two bilingual daughters have
“bilingual” diet too, though to be honest they eat Eastern diet 80% to 90% of
the time.
The Shanghai
diet involves lots of chicken and fish and of course 50 shades of rice. Which
means my daughters are very slim, they have not inherited my Irish big build, I
hope it also means that they live very long lives.
I used to
say as a child that I’d love to live till I was 100, with the Chinese
connection that would be very useful, as my wife will live another 60 years and
my girls another 90 years. I just hope there is enough money in the pension
pot, though I have very high hopes for my girls so I think there will be. My
youngest daughter has already decided she wants to live in a cottage and she
has reserved a rocking chair by the fire for me already.
But back to
food, snacks are a big thing in our house, my Shanghai wife has a sweet tooth,
so if you are eating the right thing all the time you can indulge in snacks. Be
warned though, Eastern snacks can be either very very sweet, or totally bland
to our Western tongue. Sometimes you do need a degree in Oriental languages to
know exactly what is in the fridge, on the Eastern side of the fridge, or in
the biscuit tin.
Korean
snacks can be very nice, I must confess, we did actually have a priest called
Fr. Jacob who was Korean. Then there are Chinese and Japanese snacks, it really
has opened my mind and taste buds to a whole new dimension. Here in Birmingham
we have a few great places to shop for Far Eastern food, as well as the best
curry houses in the world if you just want Eastern and not Far Eastern cuisine.
Behind me in
the living room the smells of chicken and rice fill the air, they have just
finished watching The Hunger Games, now they are eating their rice and chicken.
And yes the sauce is everything.
Ten years
ago when Ma the mother in law was here for the birth of our daughter, she came
for both births, a local very rich Chinese lady hounded her for her chicken
recipe. Chinese love their food, the rich lady could afford anything, but the
one thing she wanted most of all was Ma’s chicken recipe.
Food fills
us all up, it brings smiles and it deepens friendship and love, so it’s a great
thing. Food to fill us, but more importantly food to share and enjoy. If I’m
lucky I’ll get the slops from my 3 girls, I had my own dinner earlier so really
I’m not allow to have any of theirs.
Food is a
voyage of discovery, it’s like discovering you have a tongue, when you did
never had one before. Well for me it was like that, moving on from kebab and
chips to all kinds of Chinese stuff.
My wife did
actually cook for me on my Birthday, though I was sent out 3 times to get more
ingredients, the spice of life I suppose, without any actually spice. I think
she cooked egg fried rice for me but with tomatoes in it and something else.
That led to marriage and children and family, so be careful what you eat.
FRIDAY, 20
JUNE 2014
Formal This
or Formal That
Formal This
or Formal That ©
By Michael
Casey
We all send
off applications for jobs, or we write to complain about this and that. We all
meet people for the first time, so how should we write and react? Me I think
just be yourself, I’m in part two of my life now, or part ¾ even, so I refuse
to suck up to anybody, not that I would in the first place.
If you were
held hostage would you fight, or beg? Me I’d fight because they are going to
kill you anyway, so at least you have a slim chance if you fight. Or would you
beg and be a Uriah Heep, I don’t mean play heavy metal either. It’s all about
attitude, how do you handle people?
Jim was a
great man, we worked together at Crowne Plaza Birmingham NEC, CPNEC for short,
his customer service skills were great, he was also a character, he could say
things that could get the average person sacked, but he had charm, he was a
rough diamond.
He taught me
so much, as did Phil on security, Phil was my phone a friend, if I did not know
I knew a man that did, and that was Phil. It was thanks to them that I was
great at my job. We were the friendly hotel, and the food was great too. 2002
to 2005 were the best years of my life, though very tiring and a lot of hard
work.
Now as for
words on paper I think you should always be yourself, and be clear with words.
Never try and be clever, because in the end you won’t impress, you’ll just be a
fool with a dictionary. Yes be polite, but don’t be unctuous, or a brown nose,
I won’t use the English expression, I’ve said enough already.
Please Sir,
I have a great idea, and only if you deign to help me would I ever be able to
for fill its potential. This is wrong, but don’t be Del Boy Trotter either. Me,
I have 520 short stories, if we packaged them in 40s with a facing page
translations plus my audio in clear English, then we could make millions.
Teaching English as a 2nd language, by using humour.
Now should I
bow down in an attempt to get an angel investor, no, have faith in your own
ability, it may be that it’s an idea whose Time has not come. A nice lady
actually said that to me, you have to get somebody to see what you see, to
believe what you believe. Simple ideas are ideas that work.
Now what
about when you complaining about something?
I always tell my daughters that “The Pen is mightier than the sword” and
I can use my words to wound to get companies to honour their word.
Companies
are so conscience about their image, so if you use a dose of hard words and
sarcasm it really does work. This does not mean being abusive, it means you
remind the company that they are NOT living up to their image on their tv
adverts.
They will
jump to attention and sort out the problem for you. There is actually a website
with CEO email addresses on, so always write to the organ grinder and not his
monkey. The power of words is an important thing to teach your daughters.
Now I have
sent many emails to many people advertising my words, they are for sale for all
readers everywhere, just go to Amazon Kindle. I realised too that my words
would be good as a teaching tool, I was an Esol teacher and I do have a
Shanghai wife as well.
So I will
continue informally asking people to invest in my words. They can always
forward my emails to all the people they love to hate, and then maybe my Time
will arrive. Or maybe I should just buy a new watch.
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TUESDAY, 17
JUNE 2014
The Letter
The Letter ©
By
Michael
Casey
A letter is
a thing of beauty, a hope, a prayer answered. It’s also a joke. I can remember
in 2nd year running out of money on the school trip to Romsley, it was a
geography field trip that lasted a week. I must have sent a note home. I got a
reply from my brother “ After an all-night sitting of the Security Council, it
has been decided to send you 1 pound. I wouldn’t say it’s quiet around here
without you, but they are holding the SALT talks here. I bought ice lollies for
myself and a couple of friends.
A letter can
be a plea for help from a relative, send money or say some prayers as I’m sick,
at deaths door. I was expecting a letter myself, and the contents of the letter
were very important, so I was relieved when the big white envelope came through
our door this morning.
Relief is
the word. A letter can have such great importance, an email does not have such
strength. Maybe it’s because a letter has a physical side to it. There are the
stamps that tell you if it’s from home or abroad, you can recognise the writing
on the envelope. There may even be perfume coming from the letter, it’s your
old Aunty from Chicago, or you best friend from Australia.
Letters have
to be opened and the paper taken out and unfolded, it’s a process, it’s better
than just a click. The handwriting gives a lot away too, though in my own case
I type everything as my penmanship really is terrible. Then you read the news.
You might be
getting Shamrock for Saint Patrick’s Day from your aunt in Ballyheigh, or a
crisp 10 shilling note from your uncle John in Cricklewood. I remember buying a
tortoise with the money my uncle John sent. That was 50 years ago now. But you
always remember letters.
I do love
emails too, but today I’m just talking about letters. A letter is like a
photograph, it can be touched and looked at, it can be read and reread. You are
not going to login and read and reread your emails.
A letter
shows you really care, it costs money to send a letter, stamps are so expensive
now. Though in defence of email you can send photos and video or your latest
book via email.
But letters
are a thing, and things can be loved. You may have your long dead mother’s
prayer book that you can look at and it reminds you of all the love she had for
her brood. And letters are just the same, you cannot love something in cyber
space.
So surprise
the ones you love and send them a letter or a postcard, sent with love.
A more
interesting photo, prize for the one who has the best caption and/or knows what
I’m doing.
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THURSDAY, 12
JUNE 2014
Linkedin Profile
and CV what do they really mean?
LinkedIn
Profile and CV ©
By
Michael
Casey
We’ve all
been on Facebook and LinkedIn, we get to know people and make “friends”. On
LinkedIn it’s more about connections and maybe business connections. So we have
to rely on the Profile, my LinkedIn profile tells my story, as I am a writer.
But how accurate are these Profiles?
I am a born
leader.
Means he was
the firstborn boy in a family of 11 girls.
I created
the supply chain structure.
Means he
decided to use a clipboard and notepad instead of just his memory.
I optimised
the sales among target audiences.
He chatted
up all the girls, he was kind to seniors and went to church.
I was
inventive and creative in gaining new sales.
Means he
designed a flyer and went street to street delivering them.
I was never
afraid of going the extra mile for the business.
Means there
was a street gang chasing him after he
was at the bank
I am great
at communicating the business message.
He just
would not shut up, so the boss got him to tidy the fruit outside the ma and pa
store.
I always try
and improve myself.
Means he has
no friends so he reads a lot.
I created
the new scheme to optimise the business cash flow.
Means he
took the store’s cash and put the money on a horse.
I am now
looking for new opportunities to excel
Means he got
fired, cops not called as the owner married to his sister
I created a
great new idea for centralising purchasing delivery.
Means he was
a guard for the money delivery company, crash helmet and visor.
I created my
own start-up company
Means he
stole the money from the cash delivery company and started his own company.
I am now on
a learning sabbatical before resuming my career
Means he is
in jail, working in the library.
So when you
read those LinkedIn profiles or reading a CV or resume think what do they
really mean. Check the photos out too, the reality can be far different. Just
like actors, photos can be 10 or 20 years old, and they are. Dig deeper.
Me, I google
and check people out, as far as you can on Google. Google me and my sites and
think for yourself. I am on a sabbatical myself, no I’m not in a library,
thought we have plenty of books in the house, no it’s called Arthur, my arthritis, which comes and goes and makes me
scream sometimes. But at least I can sit here and make some of you laugh, as I
Google everybody.
photo is Hotel Achat Offenbach Frankfurt
Germany 2008
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TUESDAY, 10
JUNE 2014
Things that
go bump in the night
Things that
go bump in the night©
By
Michael
Casey
D-day 6th
June 2014 commemoration was very emotional, probably the last one, the lads are
so old now. 30 years ago I happened to be in Normandy, 1984, so I was able to
see the parades and so forth. So that’s the time line. Max Hastings wrote a
great piece about it all, so I won’t even try to comment today.
So what am I
going to bore you all with tonight? Well I’m going to talk about things that go
bump in the night. We had great weather over 6th June, this percolated thunder and
lightning. Before the thunder and lightning arrived there was a big crash and a
big boom.
I awoke to
discover my bed had broken in two, and no nothing to do with flatulence, my bed
had collapsed beneath me, or rather one side of the bed had snapped in two. I
had a new bed nearly 3 years ago, and there was a tiny crack in it, but I’d
built the bed in 90mins so I was not going to un-build it. Everything would be
ok, I was a bloke so I would not send it back.
The thing
about cracks is that they spread, and over time if you toss and turn in your
sleep as I do, and you weigh as much as me, what will happen, you awake with a
bang in the night.
So that bang
in the night set off a whole train of events, firstly I had to prop up my bed
so I could finish my night’s sleep. Luckily I had an old plastic sack full of
family photo albums, from 30 years ago and less just behind my bed. So I used
them to prop up the bed for the remainder of the night.
Then an hour
or so later the rumbling and the tumbling and lightning began. I can confirm
Nature made more noise that my breaking bed.
Though I
have to confess this is the 3rd bed I’ve broken. The first breakage happened 8
years ago as I tripped over the duvet as I put my daughters to bed, so my full
weight came down and destroyed the bed. Then when I retired my old original bed after 20years
of service, so I thought I’d try a silver coloured metal bed. However with my
weight the bed did the splits, so I used the photo albums to keep the bed up.
When I decided to replace it I put the splits metal bed outside the house,
where we have “Sky Burial” it was soon picked up by a passing welder who was
very happy with his treasure.
So I decided
to get a really posh Lecco bed, that was nearly 3 years ago. It was really
nice, and I am good at bed jigsaws. So in an hour I had a posh and very sturdy
and heavy new bed. It did have a tiny crack in it, but I thought all would be
well. I liked the Lecco so much that when my daughter wanted a new bed I got
her the single bed version.
Then the
bump in the night, 7th June 2.40am, things have changed since I last put a bed
together. Arthur my arthritis has arrived. First of all I decided to dismantle
the Lecco, and so have the room ready for a replacement bed. You can do
physical things, but afterwards you pay a price for it, your body makes you pay
the pound of flesh.
So what do
you do with your broken old bed? Well the header and footer as they are called,
look like an old fashioned farm gate. Then there was a gap in our garden fence,
so with a bit of ingenuity I had improved the fence, thanks to a recycled bed.
So I went
and had a look at beds in my local store, I wanted a really strong one
obviously. However the price of a good one looked too high. So I had a look
online, picking one from Argos for a finish.
I slept with
the mattress on the floor for 2 nights, until today the new bed arrived. I
nearly forgot that my daughter decided to decorate my room while I making a
fence in the garden with the recycled bed parts.
We had a bit
of paint left over too, so we splashed a bit of paint here and a bit of paint
there. So my room was now all tarted up. Though it’s like working in slow
motion really. The room does look 10 times better now.
As for the door with drawings scrawled all
over it from when the girls were younger, I decided to keep that. If ever they
become famous artists I will sell that door and buy a new house with the
proceeds.
The new bed
arrived and it was huge, one section would not go up the stairs, I had to use a
box cutter to remove all the packaging before I could get the bed parts up the
stairs. I was all grunts and groans as I got the parts upstairs. Everything
seems to take longer now, it took hours to construct my bed. I had to have a
rest too, though it was a hot day as well.
Today was
inoculation day for my daughters, ready to see grannie in Shanghai, so when
they returned the could see the results of my labours. They complained that
their arms hurt, I replied that at least they have some idea of what Arthur
does to my hips and back and a variety of other places.
As for the
bed it really does look the bees knees, very posh like a hotel bed, so I’m
exhausted and pleased. So that’s today’s story, and the proof will be in the
sleeping, Nite Nite Everybody.
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SATURDAY, 31
MAY 2014
Beat the
Clock
Beat the
Clock ©
By Michael
Casey
So you are
dying and have not much time left for this world, so what would you say? You’ve
got 30 minutes to say what you should have said, I Love You. Her train is
coming and then she’ll be gone, how would you change her mind, even if you were
not dying?
Famous last
words, or words that could be the beginning of a whole new line in a Royal
family, or any old family, your family. How can you stop Time itself so that
you have a chance, a new beginning. Any beginning.
It’s hard
its difficult, its 25 minutes before Midnight, before the beginning of a new
Season. What would you do? Would you hold her tight and kiss her, would you try
your puppy dog eyes like Nicolas Cage, or the cat in Shrek.
I’d try and
make her laugh, she’s not interested in looks, she didn’t choose you in the
first place just because of looks. If you make somebody laugh they remember
you, they look forward to seeing you again, over and over again.
There’s only
20 mins before Midnight now, the train, the plane approaches, whatever words
you have must count now, those words are Life Changing words, so speak up and
be plain.
Only you
stutter, you always stutter when you are nervous, she laughed at you and then
fell for you two seconds later. So now you pretend to stutter before you start
to sing. Right there in the waiting room you sing to the girl you love. You
have to make her stay or make her want to come back anyway.
So you sing
badly, deliberately badly, so she laughs and everybody else in the waiting room
laughs too. But that does not matter, she remembers the first time you sang to
her. It’s a memory, its love, she can’t refuse you anything.
Her heart
melts, she’s yours, she’ll always be yours, she kisses you. Everybody in the
train station applauds.
So she’ll go
now, but she’ll be back soon. Singing for your supper, for the meal that is
life that is love. You’ve beat the clock, she’s yours and always will be.
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FRIDAY, 30
MAY 2014
Radio Head
No.1
Radio
Head No.1
By Michael
Casey
Well if that
Allan Bennett can do it on tv it should be easier on radio, no pictures to get
in the way. Radio is louder than tv anyway, so it shouldn’t be too hard. I know
he’ll be licking his lips now as he gets ready to pounce, to slice and dice
what passes for my intellect.
He can’t see
my face as this is radio, so he won’t be able to read my body language either.
So that’s him sorted, like putting a suitcase on the shelf in the concierge
room. I’ve attached a label too, if he loses his ticket then he’ll stay up
there on the shelf gathering dust, like a long lost library book.
So we know
HE is clever, I just try and hide amongst clever people then I appear clever, a
bit like a zebra hiding on a zebra crossings. This is good cover until people
pretend they are the Beatles and take photos, so I the zebra have to gallop, ok
more like waddle away. But I have lost half a stone, just by drinking less
fresh orange juice, from concentrate, I’m not made of money, I’m not famous like
HIM.
So you write
a play, so I am a playwright too, ok not so famous, but I can still put it on
my Linkedin, IF I were still on Linkedin that is. Or I could put it on my
Facebook, Michael Casey Playwright, from Birmingham. Does HE have a Facebook
page, telling of all the drinking and carousing he does on a Friday night up
Broad Street, or up any street?
I suppose
when you are as well-known as HIM you have little parties at home, you have a
caterer come and pass amongst you, with smiles and trays to reflect all the
smiles in. I do have an entry so if it rained and I was having a Summer Fete in
the back yard we could all shelter in the entry. And talk about the old
abandoned ladders hanging from the metal rungs in the entry.
And what
about the actual writing? Well I always say my Shoplife is so much better than
Trollied on TV. Mine was written back in 1988 when the Olympics were on. The it
WAS called “sparkling, very real, great fun, hilarious, we could not stop
reading it. We hope to produce it not this Season but next.” Did Allan Bennett
ever get such praise? No, he got a Tony in 1963, when I was 5, and the list is
as long as your arm, and two legs.
Good job,
this is Radio, or he’d see my Green Envy, and the silent tears of If Only, If
Only. Where does he get HIS imagination from, it’s not as if it’s on special
offer in Aldi or one of those other discount shops. Though some of the things
you see as you go up the high street would really open your eyes.
So I did
write a couple of other Plays, seeing if I could, where would my pen lead me.
Though I never use a pen, I’ve typed since 1978. Thank God this is Radio, or
you’d have the camera pausing over my pieces of paper, and everybody would
scream at the screen, “He cannot write” my penmanship is dire after all.
Thank you
for your pieces of paper was the first put down I received, I’d neglected to
use a binder, don’t laugh at me, I was young and just starting out, I was under
30 then, still in my 20s.
Pagination
and Page numbering is a big thing I suppose, but you just want to pour the
story out on the page. Puke it out more likely I can hear Allan saying, as he
butters his crumpet and pours his morning Green Tea. But a beginning IS a
beginning.
So you are
writing a play and you think it needs a few more pages, so you go downstairs to
make a cup of coffee and have a breath of fresh air in the garden. You see a
sparrow on the washing line, next to your pants, but it gives you an idea, but
not about pants. So you go back upstairs to your Atari 1040 and write “watching
not part of it, like a solitary sparrow sentry on a washing line.”
I’m sure HE
never got inspiration from his washing line, he probably has a Mrs Hudson who
does all that for him. Though if I ever made a few bob from Writing I’d have a
housekeeper, it’s a perk it’s a nice thing to have.
Sorry I
can’t meet the deadline today or this week. I have to go to Costco to stock up
on toilet paper, 48 rolls for £14, a bargain. Then I have to sew the hem on my
trousers, and I really must do the vacuuming, I got so carried away with the
play I haven’t vacuumed in 2 weeks. So you’ll just have to wait. I know you’ll
understand. If ever I make a few bob like HIM, then I’d have a Mrs Hudson, just
how my domestic life would change. Forget the awards, I could have a cleaner
for 10 hours a week.
So is all
this going through my fellow writers minds as we slave away over a hot
computer? Must write another 10 pages so my agent gets his
money worth, paid by the page, just like piece work and tonnage that my dad
endured in the Steel Works, The District Iron and Steel, Brasshouse Lane,
Smethwick.
So I think
I’ve said all I wanted to say for today, I can see Allan reaching for the tea
cosy to throw at the radio. Cheek and Insolence, the perfect driver and
concierge team from a hotel.
Did I tell
you I did actually work in a hotel, but I was a good boy there, really good.
Employee of The Year, well almost, close runner up, very close runner up, read
the citation. Even won a prize, a trip to Cambridge, never went though. The
wife was not feeling so well, turned out she was pregnant with our comedian 2nd
daughter.
So this is
the end of my Radio Head No.1 piece, I hope Allan liked it, put that radio down
Allan, don’t throw it out the window, you’ll miss the Shipping Forecast.
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THURSDAY, 29
MAY 2014
Study
Methods
Study Methods ©
By Michael
Casey
My daughter
is studying in the room behind me, she’s “driven” so says her school, which is
good, because you can only do the work yourself, nobody will do it for you. It
reminded me how I studied.
If I go all
the way back I can remember my brother studying to get into University. He used
to have a reel to reel tape recording of Cream music screaming out of just one
speaker. I have that speaker in the room behind me, with some fake flowers on
top. So it’s amusing that his niece is studying with the silent speaker near
her.
Another
brother inherited the speaker and took it to University with him. As for me, I
just did a bit of the OU, though I did meet Eric Clapton himself, my brothers
were the cream academically, but it was me who met the man from Cream.
I got a
cassette recorder in 1973, we all went to Digbeth Civic Hall for an auction of
household stuff, and it was part of the load my dad bought. We also bought a
high stool with red seat. That was the stool that I perched a typewriter on
when I started to write a decade later.
Now what did
I do with the tape recorder? I copied Status Quo’s Caroline album to a tape and
then listened to the tape while I did my homework. I also recorded my French
and Spanish vocabulary to it, along with some History notes when I was getting
ready for my O Levels. I think I was the last class to do O Levels before GCSEs
were invented.
My brother had
left home, so I was all alone in the homework room, or middle room as we called
it, so music was company, along with my BBC Radio4 and Folk Weave on Radio 2.
There was a
tv programme on that said don’t study too long, break it up, otherwise you
forget what you have just learnt. My brother’s wise words were “a little bit
often.” However in those days I played rugby, so Saturday was a rugby day. So I
gave myself off that day, which meant I did all the work on a Sunday.
Now if I had
listened to my brother I would have done even better, but I still did do very
well. Now the next generation is studying. The girls have a fancy Blik Dab
Radio in their room, I was able to buy it with some vouchers I had. It’s small
with a great sound, so I donated it to them and I kept an old one.
So music and
study continues in the Casey family, though Katy Perry and Capital radio is
preferred to Cream and Clapton now. They say that Classical music is good for
the brain and helps it work better, I’ll have to wait for the research into
Katy Perry and brainwaves to come out.
My small
daughter loves to read and she loves having a class of 40 soft toys lined up as
she reads to them. This is her study method. When she grows up she wants to be
an Animal Biologist.
WEDNESDAY,
28 MAY 2014
Oxbridge and
Still Cannot write an Essay
Everybody is
doing their A Levels including my nephew so I've brought this back
Oxbridge and
still cannot write essays? ©
By Michael Casey
I had been
thinking about my latest blog here on
the Daily Telegraph and on my own site www.michaelgcasey.multiply.com then I
spotted the article, so that’s why I’m writing this. My own brothers were
Oxbridge, me CPNEC was my university along with the good old OU. So I’m
saddened that nobody can write, if I were in charge of Oxbridge I’d do a Maths
and an English test, and if they fail the test I wouldn’t let them in.
How can
somebody 18plus not write a good essay? I was lucky because Frank Brown from
County Tyrone was our lodger and he donated a radio, an old Bush radio to me
and my brother. You all remember the Bush radio with the marzipan strip carry
handle and the saucer size tuning dial, and don’t forget the domino size
frequency buttons, and the huge battery inside. That radio was part of my
education, we used to listen to The World Tonight, Douglas Stewart reporting,
followed by The Book at Bedtime. I can still remember falling asleep during the
Ghost and Mrs Muir. I must have spent 20years listening to Radio 4 constantly,
and it was only then that I started writing myself, and it took me a year to
get it right. Now I have 6 “masterpieces” on Amazon Kindle.
So why can’t
students write? Is it too much cannabis or other Class As, or alcohol.No of
course not. Is it too much time playing computer games? Too much sport or sex?
Or didn’t they have to write an essay a week in English. We had to write an
essay a week for Mr Noon, here’s the title, now go write two pages. We had a
book list of 40 books we had to work our way through too. I was a natural
reader, I read nearly everything on the shelves by my school desk in Primary
school. I continued reading through my Grammar school days, then on through my
twenties. Does anybody actually read nowadays?
I’ve done a
bit of Esol teaching, I’m available right now too, but with Esol you encourage
people to listen to Radio4, to practice ten new sentences a day, to read the
free newspapers on the bus, to watch BBC news. Lots of simple things can help a
foreigner pick up the language, one of our family friends is off to Oxford in
the Autumn, her English is perfect, just like Helen Bonham Carter yet she was
not born here, she is Chinese. So the obvious point is why can’t people born
and raised here do the same.
Essay
writing is all about a beginning, a middle and an end. You have to prove your
argument too, why was this important, why is History really about Geography.
History is Geography, because one leader wants to steal the other country’s
resources, Hitler wanted living room, Napoleon wanted to conquer Russia too. In
a History essay you’d make the bold statement and then you’d give proof, Facts,
Detail, Proof, Latin as I once wrote down on a piece nearly 40 years ago.
Once you have proved your point you can
then give lessons for the future, the past shows us the way NOT to go again, a
do not enter sign. History repeats itself, is another phrase, we all chase the
blond who’ll slap our face, but still we follow her. Monroe is, was, and always
will be a honey trap, History shows us many Monroes, if we could control
ourselves and keep our hands to ourselves then we’d learn the lessons of
History, and we wouldn’t need living room, just stick to our own girl in our
own bedroom.
It would be
nice if people read and listened to the radio, I fear I’m the final generation
of radio lovers, radio is great if only those Oxbridge students listened to
radio then they might be better at writing essays. Or they could pay me £xx an
hour and I’ll teach a few classes. I’d teach them to love words, to adore
words, no not as good as having Monroe in your bed, but at least you’d pass
your exams, and that would keep the Dons happy.
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MONDAY, 26
MAY 2014
Letter from
a Scammer
Letter from
a Scammer ©
By Michael
Casey
First of all
let me say I am not Michael Casey, my real name is John Doe Barrister, Mr. John
Doe Barrister and I don’t make coffee in
any of those delicious but over priced establishments. Just email
JDBarrister666@nosuchemail.com and all will be revealed.
Thank you
most sincerely My Beloved, I could not answer earlier as I was having my life
saving surgery. As I lay here close to death I have decided to choose you
to have all my worldly goods on the
occasion of my death. And it will be an occasion with 1000 mourners all dressed
in black, I don’t believe in this new thing of wearing colours.
So all you
have to do is phone +44 5555 55555555 and ask to speak to Mr Kickthebuck
Barriers at Barrister’s chambers in Barristers’ Row in London England, around
the corner from the High Court. But
don’t tell anybody about the details of this email as its top secret. Everybody
will want my billions, my £100000000, which I worked so hard for working in Las
Vegas as a male stripper.
So just
reply to this letter giving your full name, address and phone numbers at home
and work, not forgetting your DOB, better still photocopies of your passport
and all legal documents. Better still just put everything in an envelope and
post to me.
I forgot my
postal address is care of the Governor Wormworth Scrums Prison, London England.
I have to go now, association time is over. But remember tell nobody about this
email.
You will be
a very rich man, soon.
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SUNDAY, 25
MAY 2014
Pray Like a
Child
Pray Like a
Child©
By Michael
Casey
When you are
a kid you believe, it’s only as you grow older you get cynical and become a
don’t know. As a child mum makes you say the Rosary together, the family that
Prays together stay together.
“Dear Baby
Jesus, can I have a bike, Amen.” Then you jump under the covers and are fast
asleep in seconds. Your mum tells her sister, and you get a scooter, one of
those that you push with one foot while you stand on the thing. They are very
popular again now, 50 years on. As for you the child, proof that prayer works.
You get
older and exams beckon, so you pray with renewed vigour, or rather your prayer
life is renewed, after falling fallow, but you dig out the Rosary beads and ask
for help. You mum joins in and asks the Saints to make the examiner miss your
mistakes on the exam paper.
You pass
your exams and then prayer is forgotten again. You can’t find a job, so the
prayers start again. Your atheist brother says why not try computers, so you
do. This results in a good job with good pay for 21years.Is God having a joke?
Or has your mum blackmailed the Angels and Saints. A bit of both really.
So life goes
on, your mum with her hand in her pinny saying the Rosary as she watches
Dallas. Next you need a house, so the prayer restarts. While taking the dog,
Goldie, for a walk the dog stops to pee on a garden gate. You look up, the
house is for sale.
When you get
home you tell your dad, he jumps on the bus to see the house. Dad cannot
contain himself so he bangs on the door of the dog pee marked house. He has a
look around. He sails home triumphant, “Michael Buy That House.”
So I did.
Working
shifts is hard work, lots of night shifts, 14 years of them. Get over it, is
what ignorant people say, to this and everything. There is a bonus though, you
get to see Dawn over central Birmingham. This really is God’s Creation, 14
years of seeing dawn, some only ever see it when they stagger home from the
pub.
So life good
on. Mum dies suddenly, 8 weeks later dad should die, but your brother saves him
with CPR. Dad is given a week to live and he will not be resuscitated if he has
another heart attack. We sit in my sister's house picking hymns for his
funeral.
Now today
25th May would have been Padre Pio’s Birthday. Back then in 1996 I’d heard of
him. So I prayed, I asked him to intervene. You are breathless, speechless,
lots of things are in your mind, and there is nothing in your mind. Opposites.
But there is also something else inside you, your mother has died but weeks
before but she left
you
something, she left you Faith, faith of a child.
I put a
photo of Padre Pio under dad’s pillow.
19 people on a heart ward, 18 died. My dad did not. My dad said he heard the
doctor say “wheel him to the end of the ward, he’ll be dead soon.”
That’s when
dad woke up, and the doctor dropped his tea in shock. Dad spent 3 months, 12
weeks in Dudley Rd hospital or City Hospital as it’s called nowadays. I wrote
about it in full in an essay Padre Pio and Me, it’s on the Internet.
So prayer
goes up and down, like the swell on the sea, prayer has tides just like the sea
too. Pio used to say “the prayer I say tomorrow, will have helped you
yesterday.”
Ian Botham
was in the news yesterday about he’s attitude
to his own sick dad, I totally understand his point of view. With our
dad I visited every single day, as did my sister and other siblings visited
loads too.
Now you have
your nice house, and you’ve always wanted a wife and perhaps a family. However
all you do is visit your dad so you’ll never meet anybody. So you say your
prayers and again you ask Padre Pio to help, as if he was a marriage bureau.
Then after 3 years who do you meet? Your Shanghai wife.
Kids would
be nice, so you get 2. So some will say this is luck or coincidence. I chose to
believe Padre Pio is in Heaven having tea with my mother. Though the pair of
them might be having a look at my sister in Lourdes today, Happy Birthday Padre
Pio, thanks.
a photo from
9 years ago maybe
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FRIDAY, 23
MAY 2014
Backwards
Talk
Backwards
Talk ©
By Michael
Casey
My small
daughter and me love fizzy pop, my Shanghai wife is against this. So my small
daughter has decided to backwards spell what she wants, so Dr Pepper becomes
reppep rd. It’s hard enough for me to follow, the plan is that for my wife’s
Chinese brain it will be impossible.
So the
theory goes, but the wife and the Chinese are very very clever. So I have to
sneak out without being spotted. Then come home victorious, hiding the pop up
my jumper.
Come and
have your medicine I call from another room, then conspiratorially me and my
small daughter have Dr Pepper. I perhaps should explain one daughter is Western
frame and looks like a clone of me. Whereas the other daughter is much smaller
and much more Shanghai wife in size.
Our plan has
worked we are enjoying the Dr Pepper together, only my small daughter gives the
game away. BURP, she burps like a Sumo Wrestler, which is what I’m compared to on occasion.
A dad’s job
is never done, I am ordered to sneak out to the store for chocolate, fruit and
nut by Cadbury’s is the current favourite, so again I have to sneak out like a
burglar in reverse. Then I return like an all-conquering hero and do a lap of
honour around the living room, as I break and share the chocolate.
My girls
love chips as a treat, why? Because they follow Shanghai diet, which is rice
with everything. There is also a lot of fish and chicken, white meat as it is
called. So dad has to be persuaded to go to the chippie, or to buy roast
potatoes that you bake in the oven.
I am a
modern hunter gatherer, thought I don’t have a spear and a hide to cover myself
with. My wife would tan my hide if she caught me ruining our girls Shanghai
diet. So I have to sneak out.
In the
interests of diet supervision the wife has to eat 1/4 of the chips and/or roast
potatoes. So parenting is all about spelling snacks backwards, now GoGo, which
means go to bed/sleep, though it could mean OGOG.
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THURSDAY, 22
MAY 2014
Building
Memories
Building
Memories ©
By Michael
Casey
So do you
build memories with your kids? Do you do anything so that your kids will always
remember it? I hope you do, if you don’t you are BORING. Any little thing can
be used to create memories, magic memories.
So the local
seagulls flew over and dropped their bombs on my open bedroom window, SPLAT.
Like a custard pie but much much worse. Yes we do get seagulls in Birmingham,
the most inland part of the island of England. They come here just to dump on
us.
So now you
have a problem, how do you clean the window, the way it opens means it
difficult to do. Then I think of turning it into an opportunity, just like in
all those self-help and management manuals. Though this is much better fun and
not as pretentious.
I dug out
the water pistols and started to fill them with water, we would use seagull
pooh as target practice. See inventive humour at work, just like my Linkedin
Profile says. Only the water pistols leaked, and leaked over me.
I had hoped
that by pushing my window even further open, the rain would act as window cleaner, only that
did not work. So the water pistol idea. So then I went to plan B, I am better
than the chancellor as I do have a plan B, not about economics, but about
cleaning seagull pooh from my bedroom window.
So I got my
small daughter to close the bedroom window, while I filled a plastic jug up
with water. As I flung the water in an attempt to clean the window she taunted
me with her nose pressed against the bedroom window.
The first
one or two throws hit the seagull pooh target, and my small daughter laughed,
and taunted me in her newly discovered
Irish
accent. Half the family is Irish so it’s funny to hear my ½ Chinese daughter
practice her soft Irish accent.
I tried a
few more flings but my aim got worse and ½ the water went over me, such is the
geography at the back of the house. So I had another idea, my netball playing
bigger and taller daughter.
So she came
out and had a go. See I’m a good dad letting my daughter practice her netball shots,
by flinging water from a jug at a seagull poohed bedroom window.
None of this
really worked, I just ended up dribbling water back into our kitchen. BUT one
thing did happen, I have created a memory that will live on after I die. Which
won’t be for decades I hope. So don’t think I’m the stupidest person in the
world, I am an inventive humorist, just as my Linkedin Profile says.
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WEDNESDAY,
21 MAY 2014
A half
Chinese Girl Learning Spanish
A half Chinese
Girl Learning Spanish ©
By Michael
Casey
My daughter
was going over her Spanish ready for a test, I was listening and was happy I
could remember mine. I did the exam nearly 40 years ago, though I did relearn
it in 1998/1999 prior to my trip to Barcelona. So it brought memories back.
Barcelona
was my last trip away before I met my Shanghai girl, I spent 15 minutes talking
to a girl I met in a Tapas bar, before she told me she could speak English. She
said it was good for me the Spanish practice. I met another girl in a bar and
she had an American accent, and great hair but a broken nose.
The next day
who should come dancing across the stage, only a ballet dancer with great hair
and a broken nose. It was the girl from
the Tapas bar, I had gone to see the Russian ballet in Barcelona and there she
was dancing for me.
A few months
later I was again watching the Ballet, this time in Birmingham with the friend
who had introduced me to Ballet. There it was the massed ranks of the Ballet,
loads and loads of dancers at the NIA. Who should I spot, only the girl from
Barcelona.
When I met
my Shanghai girl she told me that she had met a girl at church, the church next
door to my old Grammar school. This girl was her friend and she would give me
the once over to see if I was nice enough for my Shanghai girl.
So we met in
a back street bar, The Queens Tavern, in the China quarter. Next to the
Hippodrome which was the home of The Birmingham Royal Ballet, and yes you’ve
guessed it she was a Ballerina. I was positively vetted by a Ballerina.
Which brings
me back to Spanish, my daughters are bilingual, I am not. So as my daughter was
practising we both had the same thought, we should teach her little sister
Spanish. So then I would be bilingual with them, in Spanish. Then they could
continue being bilingual in Chinese with mum. A perfect family comprise.
Life is a
compromise after all, but if you have another language you can talk privately
with your family while you are out. Nobody knows what you are saying, not even
other Chinese as you are speaking Shanghai dialect.
So language
brings families together and its fun, as for me I cannot wait till my small daughter learns Spanish.
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TUESDAY, 20
MAY 2014
Spots
Spots ©
By
Michael
Casey
Spots, now
where shall I begin, when I started shaving perhaps, when I was 14, I am part
gorilla after all. So I started shaving and made a mess of it, or rather my
face. So I had cuts to the right cheek and for balance to my left cheek. So you
put a styptic pencil on it and scream, and then pieces of toilet paper, or a
strip from the newspaper.
Your face
heals and the wounds fade, but the wounds are infected and you get a nice spot
full of pus, which is so so tempting. So you squeeze it and decorate the
mirrors around the house. The wound just will not heal, so it’s your duty to
squeeze it, again and again and again.
It becomes a
hobby, squeezing your spots. Eventually the wounds heal and the pus is drained
and squeezed out of existence. The mirrors are polished to perfection by mum,
pledge and cloth removes everything.
They say
that only pubescent boys and girls get spots, this is a lie, to me having a
spot is a badge of honour. I AM still young, even if I have reached part two of
my life, the descent to the grave part. There is the joy of squeezing the spot,
on a par with having an illegal fag in the bike shed.
You have to
wait for the spot to be ready to be squeezed, it has to be plump enough, or the
experience won’t be as good. You have to have self-control, like waiting for
your first kiss, control yourself and the joy will be even greater.
After a day
or two of self-control, you cannot resist it any longer, it does not matter if
you are at work. You sneak to the bathroom, or the gents as we say over here in
England. Then waiting for your moment you lean forward, as you would for your
first kiss, but this one is all alone.
You take
hold of the spot and squeeze, just at that moment half the office enters the
gents, they all laugh and your zit goes all over your best shirt and leaves an
almighty stain of pus and blood. Totally humiliation.
Later that
afternoon you are giving a presentation, you put your name badge over the
stain. The presentation goes well until the badge falls to the ground. So you
improvise. You take your shirt off and dab the new cleaning liquid your company
is marketing all over the stain.
Cheers and
applause, and best of all, all those years of pumping iron and squeezing spots
have giving you a look real men would kill for. The ladies in the room are
smitten, good job you put a clean vest on that morning.
So the spot
is gone, on your face and on your shirt, your spot in the presentation has
impressed the client. Spot the difference it has made to your life. Spot on,
and on the spot you have a new girlfriend, and yes you’ve guessed it, she is
covered in spots.
MONDAY, 19
MAY 2014
Flowering
Flowering ©
By
Michael
Casey
I put a
photo of my pot of shamrock on my site recently, it was more than shamrock but
some red flowering plant as well. Then also crammed into the pot were some
sweet peas. The red flowers had almost died then now today they are reborn, 4
small buds reappearing in brilliant red.
This is a
bit of colour to the room where I write, and scent too sweet pea are really
smelly. Now what I really want to talk about is flowering of talent. My eldest
daughter has developed an interest in architecture, so we watch the tv
programme which has people building their own homes, their own grand design.
The programme
highlights people following their own design dream. In fact the end result
tonight was the best of the maybe 15 programmes I’ve seen so far. We all have a
dream but here on tv we watch people follow their dream. Perhaps I should start
singing “Climb every Mountain.”
Some of the
self-build people or should I say self-design people nearly end up going
bankrupt. With architecture you have to get it right and have to have deep
pockets. Things do go wrong, even having thieves break in and steal the tradesmen’s
tools.
In the end
though we see the flowering of a dream , a home, a perfect home for the couple
who have dreamed and strived so much. The end result is a physical thing, a
house.
But what
about non-physical things ? Talent is a strange thing, people are jealous if
you have talent, you did not work for it, you have what they don’t have. It’s
never that straightforward, even Pele had to practice, as did Georgie Best. So talent is an ability
to do something well, really well. It appears effortless because Pele or
whoever have practiced and yes there is the God given bit as well.
A talent
that is flowering has to be nurtured, it has to be watered just like my plant
pot besides me. Now what is so wonderful is when you can see the progress, when
you can see the improvement each time you observe.
We never let
our girls have all those computer games we encouraged them to draw instead. So
now after years of drawing and maybe 800 crayons and felts and other writing
implements our girls can draw, really draw.
You may have
a son who bangs a ball against a wall for hours, or practices with a basketball
hour after hour. The skill, the talent can be seen growing every day, every
week. Now sometimes this is a tragedy, because the child is being forced to be
a tiny Tiger Woods or whatever. Decide that one for yourself.
When you
write you know if you’v produced a good piece or an average piece, or if you
missed it. Sometimes though you nail it on the head and when you read it through when you have
finished you know that’s one of the really good ones.
Form applies
to writing as it does to riding a horse or dancing or doing gymnastics. You
have to be “on form” and then you come up smelling of roses. The sense of
satisfaction when you nail a piece of writing is like a sugar rush.
A parent
with their own kids, all of us that is, are in a unique and perhaps holy place
as we nurture our kids and see them grow as individuals with a flowering of
skills. Learning to walk, to talk, to hold a crayon, to remember things and so on. And to puke all over the
parent along the way.
A teacher
too is in a special place as the teacher
opens young and old minds to learning, the book is opened and the blank page is
filled with learning. It’s when you can see the lights go on in students’ eyes,
they understand. Then some actually thank you, if you remember the story of the
10 lepers from the Bible, only 1 came back to say thanks.
The
flowering of a mind and the new connections it brings between you and your
children, or you and your students IS the thing that makes your hard work
worthwhile.
It just
depends where you work as a teacher as to whether you are fighting a battle or
leading like a merry Pied Piper. In my own teaching time I tried to be a Pied
Piper, but if students misbehave, throw them out, 7 expulsions in one 3 hour
session was my record, or rather their sad record.
Confidence
grows and flowers grow, and as with flowers this attracts bees, who fly and
pollinate the other flowers. A good buzz will ignite a class and great results
can flow.
But back to
family, time is the most important thing you give to your kids. In today’s busy
world all I suggest is switch the tv OFF. Talk to your kids, spend time looking
at their homework, encourage them to read, to watch intelligent tv. Peppa Pig
is a reward it is not an excuse for being a lazy parent.
A child’s
mind is a great great thing, and as Eric Clapton sang “Let it grow, let it
grow, let it blossom let it grow.”
FRIDAY, 16
MAY 2014
Cover Letter
Cover Letter
2014 ©
By
Michael Casey
I was
talking to somebody about cover letters today, I can see the irony as I talk to
you, as I won’t be needing one myself any more. However Pitch Letters are a
different thing, and I do expect to have to do some of those.
So what
about Cover Letters, they are part of the job search process, without one you
may not get a job, or it may swing it for you. So you have to write a cover
letter. I looked at my old cover letter today and realised it was too long.
A CV should
be two pages and no more, the cover letter that goes with it should be just one
side. HR people and job agencies are always in a hurry, they won’t even look at
a multipage opus. Into the bin it will go, literally or on their PC.
So what do
you do? You iron out he rough spots, and raise the molehills to mountains, and
vice versa. The Cover Letter is your chance to shine, it’s like your Facebook
home page. Or your paragraph on the Dating Website. It’s all about you.
So you say
what you were great at, you never say “I was a bit rubbish at X Y Z” followed
by but. Your Butt would be kicked out before you even start. It’s a Positive
Only piece, it’s your chance to get a great job, or any job and be able to afford to pay the rent or
buy a new set of golf clubs.
So tell them
what you are great at, and think differently about yourself, put yourself in
their shoes, the Saint Augustinian Way, and Sell Yourself. You may not
think that visiting the sick is anything
special, its your good deed. This proves to an employer exactly where your
heart is, he may be a hospital visitor himself, yes him in the £2000 suit.
You may be
embarrassed by your kindness but it lets the employer know just what kind of
person you are. Your Community Actions do make a difference.
I
n your job
it may have been you who trained all the new people, and wrote the basic Bible
for the job you all did. Nobody else could have been bothered, but you did it.
So put it in the Cover Letter, you have Training Experience, so boast about it.
You may
speak several languages, and the office staff may have poked fun at you for it,
but it’s you who speaks to all the truck drivers when they arrive from all over
Europe. Tell everybody as the Billy Joel song goes, you may even overlook it,
because it’s only a few minutes. But only you can do it, so boast about it.
Write a list
of everything you can do, and everything you do do, then write a flow chart of
it, and join the dots with words. If you sell your house you put everything
down in a positive way, so on a Cover Letter you do the same, but about
yourself.
I am fat and
have white hair, this describes me. In a Cover Letter it becomes I am
distinguished looking with silver hair and a strong athletic build. Ok the athletic may be stretching it too far.
You are painting a picture, a pretty postcard showing just how great you are,
so you get that job.
All this has
to be done on one page, it’s a sprint and the winner gets the job, so don’t be
shy give words a try.
